A woman changed her name after getting married and her family can’t seem to keep up. Despite informing them of the change, her mother keeps referring to her by her old name, causing confusion and frustration. The woman feels that her family should respect her decision and call her by her new name, but her mother argues that it’s hard to remember. The situation escalates when the woman leaves a family Zoom call after her mother repeatedly calls her by her old name. Now her family is accusing her of being overly dramatic. What do you think? Is she in the wrong for expecting her family to call her by her new name, or is her family being disrespectful? Share your thoughts in the comments below.
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When a name change causes family drama
Changing a name can be a big deal for some people, especially after getting married. But what happens when family members can’t keep up with the change? For one woman, changing her first name from Mary-Kate to Katherine after getting married to her wife has caused confusion and arguments with her mother. Despite informing her family months ago, her mother still refers to her as Mary and can’t seem to remember the new name. This has led to frustration for the woman and arguments with her mother during family gatherings. Is it too much to ask for family members to remember a name change? Or is the woman overreacting to her mother’s mistake? Read on for the comments and reactions to this family dispute.
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Naming mishap causes family feud. ♀️

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Respecting someone’s name is basic decency

Support for not using new name after marriage. NTA

Woman changes name, family can’t keep up. Double standards?

Family manipulates with fake memory issues to avoid using new name.

NTA, mum needs to grow up a little. ♀️

Respect personal choices, not a power struggle.

Family struggles to accept name change after marriage, NTA.

Family drama ensues after woman changes name post marriage. ESH.

Parental resistance to name change is common and unnecessary

Family refuses to use woman’s chosen name after marriage. NTA.

Empathize with the struggling newlywed, but set boundaries.

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Consequence for name change mistake, good job overall!

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Changing a name is hard for everyone involved ❤️

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Don’t let anyone control your name, NTA

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Changing your name after marriage shouldn’t be this difficult

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Empower yourself by letting go of your old name.

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Changing name is NTA, but takes time for family to adjust

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Name change causes family feud, but no one’s the a**hole ♀️

Wear a name tag next time you see your mom ️

Respect her name change or accept the consequences. ♀️

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Stand up for yourself! Your mom doesn’t own you. NTA.

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