While most people who are going to a wedding are excited to have another celebration in their lives, sometimes it can lead to drama. Especially if you’re the bride and you decide to ask your guests who aren’t close family members to be involved in the preparations. But it happens and a bride who is getting married this year sought out the subreddit ‘AITA’ for some help with her bridesmaid who was creating trouble over the dress.
In the thread , she explains that the bridesmaid, named Kacy, wanted to wear a specific dress and when a store associate told her she couldn’t wear it because it would rip, she snatched another one off the mannequin instead. This led to a conflict when Kacy argued that she shouldn’t have to pay for the destroyed dress because it was covered by her friend’s (the bride’s) budget and it wasn’t really her fault.
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The drama didn’t end there as other guests got involved and each had their own opinion on what should be done. Have a read through the heated story below and be sure to share your thoughts in the comments!
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Woman in a dilemma – should she pay for her bridesmaid’s ruined dress?
Is it wrong to not pay for a ruined bridesmaid dress?
On a wedding dress shopping trip, the bride refused to pay for a damaged bridesmaid dress that was too small for her bridesmaid. The bride-to-be and bridesmaid couldn’t agree on the size and the shop assistant warned against picking a dress smaller than what was recommended.
However, the bridesmaid grabbed the dress off of a mannequin, causing it to rip. The bride feels she should not have to pay, and eventually, the mother of the bridesmaid that ruined the dress paid for it.
Should the bride-to-be pay for the dress, or is she in the right for refusing? Read on to find out the thoughts of commenters.
NTA ✋ Wedding store drama!
NTA: No ♀️ paying for ruined dress
NTA! ♀️ The price for playing childish games!
The bride refuses to pay for the bridesmaid’s ruined dress
NTA! Kacy’s Aunt’s logic ⚠️
NTA: Rejecting bridesmaid’s dress bill
NTA Bridesmaid refuses to pay after dress is ruined
NTA. Bridesmaid’s dress mishap
Family favoritism? NTA!
NTA: Consequences for not listening
NTA: people *need* to learn the power of NO ♀️
NTA! She caused all the problems ♀️
The bride was ♀️! NTA
NTA: no one should pay for a ruined dress
NTA: Pointing fingers won’t help ♀️
NTA! ♀️ Plus-size reality check
NTA, your groom’s cousin needs to accept her body size
NAH: Refusing To Pay
NTA: Formal dressing sizing not the issue ♀️
NTA A mother steps up for her daughter
Bride says NTA for not compensating bridesmaid for dress
NTA! Promise kept
NTA: Don’t worry about the price tag ♂️
NTA: ♀️ Accidents happen
NTA – not the a**hole!
NTA: enjoy wearing it!
NTA: Buying a larger dress ✔️️️️️⬆️
NTA: bride refuses to pay
NTA: Choose a dress and buy it
Reality check time
NTA: Don’t pay for the ruined dress
The bridesmaid ruined it NTA!
NTA. Could you pay?
A powerful response
Bride refusing to pay ✋
NTA but John’s family
NTA: Kacy pays if she breaks it
NTA: Bride refuses to pay
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NTA if the bridesmaid’s dress isn’t true to size
NTA – No means no
No a****e here
NTA: Not The A**hole!
NTA! *Don’t* pay for her dress ♀️
NTA: Bridesmaid’s responsibility ♀️
No bad move here
NTA! Bridesmaid shoulda paid ♀️
No tolerance for size tantrums
Body positivity FTW
NTA: pay for the dress but remove the bridesmaid!
Being cautious
NTA: taking a dress off a mannequin is not easy!
NTA: ♀️Bridemaids dress responsibility ♀️
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NTA: She messed up, she pays
Discovering how *censored* size labels are
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NTA, but maybe some or a ?
NTA: Kicking out a bridesmaid?
NTA but ♀️ what happened to Kacy?
Bride refuses to pay ♀️
NTA: bridesmaid ruined the dress
NTA ✔️ ♀️ Paying for the ruined dress?
NTA: Not The A**hole
NTA: refusing to pay
NTA: KACY, her mom, and your future MIL
“family members are NTA”
NTA: Not Footing The Bill
No expectations, but plenty of manners
♀️NTA: Is it r**e to refuse to pay for a bridesmaid’s dress after it was ruined by the person wearing it?
Bride’s bridesmaid ruins dress
Are fashion industry sizes skewed?
NTA: She *agreed* to pay for dresses ♀️
NTA for not paying for dress drama!
NTA!
♀️ Bridesmaid ruins dress, the bride is not the a**hole
Last Updated on February 23, 2023 by Chifundo
