Imagine having a close-knit group of friends, and one of them secretly harbors feelings for your spouse. What would you do if you found out? One husband found himself in this exact predicament when he overheard a conversation between his wife’s friends. The twist? The friend in question is a lesbian who’s in love with his wife and isn’t too happy about their recent pregnancy news.
The Wife’s Girl Gang

Jill’s Crush on Wife

Jill’s Jokes

Trust and Boundaries

Harmless Infatuation?

The Barbeque Party

Overheard Conversation ️

Jill’s Breakdown

Amy’s Advice ️

Jill’s Confession

The Dilemma

To Tell or Not to Tell?

The Potential Consequences ⚖️

The Big Question ❓

A Secret Love and a Baby on the Way
This husband is torn between telling his wife the truth about her friend’s feelings or keeping it to himself. He overheard Jill, a lesbian friend from his wife’s girl gang, confessing her love for his wife and lamenting the fact that their baby ruined her chances with her. While his wife knows about Jill’s minor crush, she’s unaware of the extent of her feelings. Should he spill the beans and potentially affect their friendship, or keep quiet and let things take their course? Let’s see what the internet thinks of this situation…
NTA. Husband must tell wife about friend’s weird behavior

NTA, but keep it between you and your wife

Calling a pregnancy ‘wretched’ is terrible. NTA, but tread carefully.

Suggest talking to Jill first to give her a chance

Honesty is the best policy. Tell your wife ASAP

Honesty is the best policy, but handle with care

Be honest and supportive, let her decide how to proceed ❤

Compassion is warranted for the friend with a secret crush

Toxic infatuation and selfishness. True friends support each other.

Honesty is the best policy. NTA for telling your wife.

Approach Amy gently, talk to her friends, and be candid.

Harmless crush or not? NTA advises to come clean

Protecting your marriage from toxic friends. NTA.
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Be honest with your wife, but don’t force her to choose.
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Delusional friend crushing on married woman, NTA for warning.
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NTA defends wife’s baby from friend’s insult

Defend your family, NTA. Tell your wife about her friend.

NTA. Jill’s belief that she can convert your wife is concerning

Honesty is the best policy. Tell her the truth!
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Supporting a husband who defends his wife’s honor.
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Approach with kindness and objectivity when telling wife’s friend truth ❤

NTA should tell wife about friend’s love for her

Love can make you do crazy things, but honesty is key

NTA’s wife’s friend is being a creep and needs to be exposed.

Friend in love with wife, hostile to child. Wife should know.

Gender double standards and red flags. NTA, prioritize safety.

Honesty is the best policy, even if it hurts
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Husband discovers wife’s friend’s creepy infatuation with their unborn baby

Wife’s friend confesses love, but a baby ruined her chances. NTA.
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Husband must tell wife about friend’s obsession for safety reasons
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Voice your discomfort to your wife, Jill has no chance

NTA. This woman is a danger to your family

NTA shuts down delusional ‘nice girl’ crushing on married woman
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Lesbian commenter advises to tell wife about friend’s feelings

Cutting off a friend who’s ‘hunting’ your wife? NTA
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NTA. Friend needs to accept reality or go no contact

Moving on from unrequited love, valid. Pursuing married friend, not.

Lesbian commenter calls out homophobia in the thread

Honesty is the best policy, especially for mental health

Friend in love, NTA: Honesty is the best policy
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Woman warns man not to speak to wife’s friend first

Heartfelt comment wishes well for couple and their baby ❤

Speak up to your wife about her friend’s concerning behavior

Spouse’s friend crushes on him, but he’s NTA for rejecting her.

Harmless flirtation or not? Spouse deserves to know the truth

Spouse wants to tell wife about friend’s true feelings. NTA.

When does infatuation become something more? NTA thinks never.
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Honesty is the best policy even if it’s hard

NTA stands up for their baby against rude friend
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Jill’s infatuation with your wife is a red flag . You should talk to your wife about it.

Honesty is the best policy. Support your wife’s decisions

Jealousy can drive people to do crazy things

Protective father-to-be sets boundaries with wife’s disrespectful friend

Honesty is the best policy. Tell her the truth!

NTA exposes friend’s insult towards their baby. Savage!

Honesty is the best policy, but tread lightly

Friend in love with baby? NTA, tell wife ASAP

Man overhears wife’s friend’s secret love and seeks advice.

Team up with your wife to handle her friend’s confession.

Wife’s friend is a danger to the family. NTA for telling.

Husband advises on how to tell wife about friend’s crush

Encouraging NTA comment with a hint of curiosity

Jill’s obsession with your wife is getting creepy. Tell her.

Anti-baby friend may distance herself once pregnancy progresses ♂️

Spilling the tea to your wife? YWNBTA according to Reddit.

Wife’s friend is in love, but NTA needs to tell wife ASAP.

Jill’s delusion exposed, NTA needs to tell his wife

Protecting your child should be the top priority

OP receives advice to take security measures, NTA but cautious

Honesty is the best policy, even if it hurts

Addressing harmful stereotypes and respecting boundaries in friendships.

Wife’s friend has feelings, but they’re not mutual. NTA.

Jill’s secret love is toxic. Wife needs to know. NTA.
