Wife Refuses to Let Klepto Sister-in-Law Move In

Marriage comes with its fair share of challenges and compromises, but what happens when your spouse’s family becomes a source of conflict? One wife found herself in a sticky situation when her husband hinted at having his younger sister move in with them. The problem? The sister has a history of stealing, and the wife doesn’t feel comfortable with her living in their home. Is she being too harsh, or is she simply protecting her space? Let’s dive into the story.

The Backstory

Missing Belongings

No Apology

Shoplifting Trouble

In-Laws’ Marital Problems

The Hint

Wife’s Discomfort

COVID Concerns

Parents’ Responsibility

A Whole Different Responsibility

Opening a Can of Worms

For Clarity

Sister’s Age and Tendencies ️‍♀️

Wife Stands Her Ground

This wife is caught in a tough situation as her husband hints at having his kleptomaniac sister move in with them. She’s sympathetic to her sister-in-law’s struggles but doesn’t feel comfortable opening their home to her, fearing it would only create more problems. While she’s willing to help in dire circumstances, she believes it’s her in-laws’ responsibility to provide a stable home for their daughter. Is she being too harsh, or is she simply protecting her space? Let’s see what the internet thinks of this situation…

NTA for not letting untrustworthy SIL move in

NTA. You both sacrificed for your own house. Be honest.

Commenter is NTA for not letting sister-in-law move in

Sister-in-law not in danger, NTA for refusing to let her in

NTA. Big bro needs to talk to parents about SIL.

Supportive comment with celebratory tone

Not the a**hole for not wanting a potential thief.

Offer a safe space, but NTA for not wanting a thief.

Klepto sister-in-law wants to move in? NTA for refusing

Setting boundaries with klepto sister-in-law. NTA

Commenter suggests sister-in-law needs help with family issues

NTA. No way you should take on klepto sister-in-law

Encouraging therapy for klepto sister-in-law, NTA but empathetic

Don’t risk your valuables, NTA.

SIL’s kleptomania is causing tension between couple. NAH judgement.

Husband hurt by NTA response to sister-in-law’s move-in request

Don’t let a thief take over your home! NTA

Protect your home and marriage, don’t let klepto in-law in

Compassionate suggestion to help SIL despite not taking her in.

Don’t let a thief live with you NTA

Don’t let a klepto into your home! NTA

Commenter supports wife’s decision to not let sister-in-law move in

Protect your loot! NTA for not letting thief move in

Compassionate reply suggests therapy for sister-in-law’s kleptomania

Set strong boundaries and don’t let a klepto in-law in

Curious about SIL’s age? She’s a teenage student.

Are the parents’ marital problems related to the klepto sister-in-law?

Sister-in-law wants to move in but she’s a thief ‍♀️

Commenter sympathizes with sister-in-law’s behavior but agrees with wife’s decision.

NTA stands up to klepto sister-in-law. No room for thieves

Protect your home from thieves ‍♀️

Sister-in-law banned from home for kleptomania

Commenter supports wife’s decision to not house sister-in-law

Agreeing with the commenter’s decision, NTA

Former teenage klepto offers advice on showing sister-in-law support

NTA – Sister-in-law’s kleptomania poses a risk. Invest in security measures.

Set boundaries with spouse to keep klepto sister-in-law out

Offering a stable home to SIL is not feasible. NTA

IL stands for In Laws, TIL!

Husband’s past inaction justifies wife’s refusal to let SIL move in

Compassionate advice to help troubled teenager turn her life around

Clear and concise judgement – NTA!

NTA, living with a remorseless thief is a no-go

You’re in the clear! Don’t let her steal your peace

Commenter agrees with wife’s decision, no drama here

NTA for not wanting Little Miss Thievery to move in

Trust issues with sister-in-law. NTA for refusing.

NTA advises checking SIL for kleptomania

Protect your home and belongings – NTA for setting boundaries

Feeling safe in your own home is important

Setting boundaries with klepto sister-in-law. Therapy recommended if accommodating.

A cautionary tale about involving family in marital decisions

NTA for refusing klepto SIL. Empathy for her, consequences exist.

Don’t let her move in. Protect your relationship and sanity.

Standing up to a klepto sister-in-law. NTA

NTA. Don’t let a proven thief move in with you

Lost in translation? Commenter confused by IL abbreviation

No room for a**hole kleptos in this house

Husband’s sister stole, wife says no to living together

Setting boundaries with a kleptomaniac SIL. NTA

Stand your ground against klepto sister-in-law

Security over sister-in-law, NTA takes no chances

NTA! Don’t let a klepto stress you out at home

SIL’s manipulative behavior and kleptomania could damage marriage and family

Commenter thinks OP is not the a**hole.

Commenter supports wife’s decision to not let sister-in-law move in

Sister-in-law not homeless, just doesn’t like rules

Husband’s family drama affecting daughter, NTA for setting boundaries

NTA shuts down klepto sister-in-law with no mercy

Protect your sanctuary! NTA, install cameras

Commenter believes wife is not the a**hole

Sister-in-law stole and didn’t apologize. NTA for refusing.

Suggests installing cameras to catch klepto sister-in-law.

Setting boundaries with a kleptomaniac sister-in-law

NTA. Confrontation and consequences may help klepto sister-in-law understand.

Setting boundaries with family is important for a healthy marriage

Commenter agrees with wife’s decision not to enable sister-in-law

Stand your ground! Don’t let a klepto move in!

Compromise and set conditions for sister-in-law to stay?

Commenter agrees with the wife’s decision not to enable sister-in-law

Avoiding teen drama and marital problems with sister-in-law

Compassionate response to SIL’s behavior.

Commenter supports wife’s decision to not let sister-in-law move in.