Imagine finding out your partner has a gross habit, and it’s been going on for years. A wife (32F) discovered that her husband (34M) has been masturbating in the shower, leaving behind a nasty mess, and then lying about it. She’s had enough and wants to put an end to it, but is she crossing a line? Let’s dive into this slippery situation!
The Nasty Habit

The Confrontation

The Bathroom Compromise

The Agreement

Fast Forward a Year ⏩

The Nasty Bathroom Returns

The Hints ️♀️

The Dilemma

The Stench

Dirty Little Secret Uncovered ️♀️
This wife has had enough of her husband’s nasty habit of masturbating in the shower and leaving behind a mess, even after they agreed she would have a bathroom to herself. Now, with a baby in the house and the dirty bathroom attached to the nursery, she’s determined to put an end to it. But will she break her promise to never mention it again? Let’s see what the internet thinks of this sticky situation…
Husband’s shower secret reveals deeper issues in relationship. NTA.

Discovering your partner’s shower secret can be a nightmare

Husband’s shower secret creates a mess, refuses to clean it.

Husband’s nasty shower secret causes marital conflict

NTA commenter advises communication and compromise for cleanliness in marriage.

Wife discovers husband’s shower secret, Reddit calls for divorce. NTA.

Husband’s perverse shower secret is abusive. NTA, consider therapy and exit.

Wife discovers husband’s shower secret and post-baby attraction issues.

Creative solution to a nasty problem

Husband’s gross shower habit causes conflict. NTA for confronting him.

Discovering a disgusting secret in the shower

Wife confronts husband’s shower mess, suggests condom or divorce.

Wife discovers husband’s shower secret. Commenter says NTA with shock.

Discovering her husband’s shower secret, commenters question her relationship. NTA

Husband’s dirty secret and dismal sex life causing marital issues

Pregnancy changes your body, not your worth.

Commenter suggests husband may have sex addiction. Replies disagree.

Fair solution suggested for husband’s shower mess.

NTA suggests calling husband’s parents for gross shower discovery

Commenter sympathizes with OP and suggests a subreddit for support
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Cleanliness is next to husbandliness. NTA wins!

Snooping on his internet history: invasion of privacy or necessary?

Wife finds husband’s nasty shower secret. Gross spooge everywhere

Discovering her husband’s shower secret leads to domination suspicion.

Commenter suggests lack of intimacy is root problem, advises counseling.

Dividing bathrooms for cleaning and online counseling suggestions.

Wife discovers husband’s nasty shower secret, Redditor suggests hilarious solutions

Wife discovers husband’s nasty shower secret, commenters agree he’s TA

Body-shaming and secrets, definitely NTA.

Husband won’t have sex with wife, has no respect for family ♀️. Couple planned counseling but COVID-19 intervened.

Spouse’s shower fetish leads to fake blood revenge plan.

Commenters hilariously speculate on husband’s dry shower habit

Wife discovers husband’s nasty shower secret, and his character flaws.

Commenter offers empathetic advice for spouse’s sexual issues.

A revenge idea for the wife’s discovery
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Wife discovers husband’s shower secret, seeks advice on how to handle.
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Divorce-worthy shower secret? NTA for wanting out

Spouse’s shower secret disgusts commenter. NTA for speaking up.
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Cleanliness is next to godliness, even in the shower

Suggesting detective mode to uncover husband’s shower mystery

Husband’s suspicious shower behavior raises eyebrows and suspicions

Agreeing with the wife’s disgust

Wife discovers husband’s shower secret, commenter advises confrontation.

Masturbating is fine, but not cleaning up isn’t

Husband lying, gas lighting, and disrespecting boundaries. Counseling needed ASAP!

Demand cleanliness, not an explanation about his shower habits

Normalizing shower masturbation and advocating for cleanliness

Commenter sympathizes with OP’s messed up situation

Defending shower masturbation takes a turn for the worse. NTA

NTA, but beware of clogged plumbing

Wife discovers husband’s nasty shower secret and commenters suggest revenge ideas.

Husband’s disgusting shower habit may be a power play. NTA.

Cleanliness is next to godliness, not next to laziness

Commenter sympathizes with OP and calls out husband’s behavior.

Commenter and replies find husband’s shower secret gross but want an update ♀️

Concerned commenter suggests checking for more disturbing behavior. NTA.
