Have you ever faced a dilemma when it comes to your kids and their room-sharing preferences? Well, buckle up, because this mom is dealing with a tricky situation that’s causing quite the family drama! She’s got a son who has a hard time sharing a room, a daughter who’s upset about the room arrangements, and a destination wedding in Hawaii that’s supposed to be a fun family getaway. So, is this mom being unfair, or are her kids just being difficult? Let’s dive into the story and find out! ️♀️
Meet the Family

Room Sharing History ️

Son’s Struggles

Destination Wedding in Hawaii

Room Sharing Plan ️

Rory’s Request

The Extra Room Solution

Emily’s Frustration

Is Emily Being Petty?

Room Sharing Drama in Paradise
This mom is stuck in a sticky situation as her family prepares for a destination wedding in Hawaii. Her son Rory has always struggled with sharing a room, and now he’s refusing to share with his stepbrothers or cousins because they ‘smell bad.’ Desperate to avoid a meltdown, mom begs her husband to pay for an extra room just for Rory. But now, her daughter Emily is fuming because she has to share a room with a cousin she doesn’t know, while her brother gets his own space. Mom thinks Emily should be more understanding of her brother’s struggles, but Emily isn’t having it. Is mom being unfair, or are her kids just stirring up unnecessary drama? Let’s see what the internet thinks of this situation…
Unfair treatment of children causing family drama. YTA.
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Parenting advice not appreciated by room-assigning parent

Selfish mother prioritizes son over daughter in hotel room arrangements

Son calling the shots? YTA according to this commenter.

Daughter upset at unequal treatment of son, unfair parenting

Parenting advice: involve all kids in problem-solving and avoid favoritism

Parenting advice: 12-year-olds don’t demand hotel rooms

Daughter punished for listening? YTA’s son gets his way

Parenting advice for wedding room dilemma sparks YTA verdict

Parenting concerns raised about son’s behavior and daughter’s privacy

Parenting advice: don’t give in to every whim your child has

Parenting gone wrong: Favoritism towards son. YTA

Parenting fail? Sleeping arrangements lead to inappropriate suggestion. Yikes!

Curious about the parent/child dynamic and twins

User calls out OP for giving son too much power

User calls out unfair treatment of children at wedding ❌

Daughter wants equal treatment but father favours son. YTA.

Harsh comment calling out parent’s favoritism towards son.

Parent’s unfair hotel room decision sparks justified outrage

Parent faces YTA judgement for playing favorites with hotel rooms.

YTA for not treating your children equally in hotel room arrangements

Parent criticized for giving in to entitled child’s demands

Parental favoritism causes sibling discord. YTA, sorry not sorry!
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Daughter feels neglected, warns of future consequences. YTA

Daughter has every right to be mad about hotel room

Parenting advice: Set boundaries and address hygiene issues. YTA.

Concerning behavior of son raises red flags for sexual abuse

Parenting criticisms get heated in hotel room debate

YTA: Instead of getting another room, suggest showering before bed

Parent criticized for giving in to entitled child’s demands

Parent unfairly gives son a room, daughter forced to share

Parenting advice: Teach son to be responsible instead of entitled. YTA.

Parenting problems: YTA for letting your kids run the show

Is the son too entitled or do the cousins really smell?
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Sensible solution proposed by commenter to wedding room dilemma.

Parenting 101: Don’t Reward Manipulative Behavior with Hotel Rooms

Teach your kids hygiene, YTA!

Parenting advice or harsh criticism? YTA gets called out.

Is the son’s smell issue a sensory problem? Consider investigating first.

Discipline your son, not your daughter. YTA

Daughter uncomfortable with stranger in hotel room, YTA for favoring son ♀️

Parenting advice: Don’t let tantrums dictate your decisions

Therapy might help resolve the underlying issue in this family

Parenting advice sparks no-nonsense discussion

Trolls fail to troll with absurd comment and no replies.

User calls out parent for not parenting, suggests therapy.
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Parenting advice sparks debate over wedding room arrangements. YWBTA.

Compromising is key Suggest options and make sure everyone’s comfortable.
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Parenting advice: Don’t prioritize one child over the other

Suggesting a possible diagnosis and solution for son’s hotel room dilemma.

Parenting criticism: Son’s tantrums and hygiene vs daughter’s comfort.
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Daughter forced to share hotel room, commenter calls out favoritism YTA

Parenting advice: prioritize both children’s needs and feelings. YTA

Sassy commentator calls out favoritism in hotel room dilemma.

Concerned commenter suggests son may have underlying issues, NAH.

Is the son manipulating the situation? YTA, says commenter.

Shared room complaints: entitlement or neurodivergence? Address it.

Mother defends son’s behavior, internet disagrees

Daughter forced to share room, son gets own room. YTA.

Daughter and commenters think YTA for giving son own room

Parent accused of favoritism. YTA. Strong accusations and questions.

Unfair room allocation leads to accusations of bias

Daughter deserves equal treatment. Don’t cave to ultimatums. YTA

Parenting advice sparks heated debate

Parenting advice: Stop being held hostage by a 12 yr old

Daughter unfairly punished, son rewarded for entitled behavior

Be the parent, YTA. Set the room arrangements and rules.
