Ah, vacations with friends – the perfect recipe for relaxation, laughter, and unforgettable memories! But what happens when your travel buddies start popping out babies left and right? Suddenly, the dynamics shift, and you find yourself in a whirlwind of dirty diapers, sleepless nights, and snarky comments. Buckle up, folks, because this story is about to take you on a wild ride!
Vacation Dreams Turned Nightmare!
Baby Boom Changes Everything!
️ Time for a Beach Getaway?
Booked the Perfect Beach House!
Expecting Kids to be the Priority
Sleepless Nights and Snarky Comments
☕ Desperate for Coffee, Met with Judgment ☕
Cooking Up a Storm, But No Appreciation
Cleaning Up After Everyone, Every Day
Pestered for a Fall Leaf Peeping Trip
Husband Worries About Hurting Feelings
Clarifying the Situation
Husband and I Both Felt the Same
Worried About Hurting Feelings
Agreed on a Relaxing Holiday, But…
️ Snarky Comments from One Mom
Limiting Interactions and Declining Invites ♀️
Love the Kids, But Not “That” Person
Planning for Our Own Little One
Coming Up with Excuses
Declined Invite Sparks Conversation
Silence and Apologies
Balancing Work and Relaxation ⚖️
Things Take a Turn for the Worse
️ Mom Feels Targeted and Unwelcome
“Carefree” Life with “No Responsibilities”?
Mom Leaves the Group ♀️
Dealing with Childcare and Sensitivity
Wrapping Up with Gratitude
️ From Beach Bliss to Babysitting Blues!
Well, well, well… it seems like our protagonist’s dream vacation turned into a nightmare faster than you can say “diaper change”! Between being treated like an unpaid nanny, cooking meals that were met with criticism, and cleaning up after everyone, it’s no wonder they’re ready to throw in the beach towel. ️ But wait, there’s more! The snarky comments from the mom of the 2.5-year-old added an extra layer of drama to this already tense situation. Let’s see what the internet has to say about this sandy mess!
Parental entitlement ruins friendships and vacations ♀️
Childless vacationer stands up to entitled mom friends. NTA
Insist on hotel vacations only for a break from cooking/cleaning
Parents shouldn’t expect non-parents to be their skivvies.
NTA
Parenting struggles on vacation. No A****e here. ♀️
Parent agrees with NTA and asks about ‘leaf peeping’
Parenting can be tough. Draw boundaries with friends experiencing envy.
Friendship boundaries and entitlement, NTA for setting limits ♀️
Parent friends treated OP like a free nanny/maid. NTA
Hosting friends with entitled demands is not a vacation ♀️
Traveling with toddlers is tough, burdening someone else? Not cool.
Standing up for yourself on vacation with entitled mom friends.
Parenting responsibility on vacation. NTA takes a stand!
Entitled mom friends ruined vacation, NTA took a stand ♀️
NTA, vacation with friends shouldn’t mean being a nanny/maid
Suggests child-free vacations, NTA, with and fall colors
Set vacation boundaries with entitled friends for a happy trip ♀️
Entitled ‘Mommy Cult’ friends ruin vacation, NTA for cutting ties. ♀️
Don’t let entitled friends bring you down, delegate planning
Choosing not to vacation with young kids. Understandable decision.
Third-wheeling with their kids ruined the vacation vibes ♂️
NTA, but talk to your entitled mom friends about sharing chores ♀️
Insensitive dad won’t help, suggest he be their nanny/cook. NTA
Sick of cooking on vacation? Try hotels or B&Bs!
Don’t be their doormat , plan something with other friends
Suggests separate space for next trip to avoid entitled moms ♀️
Don’t let entitled moms make you feel guilty. Stand up!
NTA. Don’t be a free nanny and cook. You need new friends.
Stand your ground and demand equal treatment
Ending toxic friendships for self-care and peace
Avoid resentment by staying separately or only attending a portion
Don’t let entitled friends ruin your vacation, stand your ground. NTA ♀️
Parenting is hard, but entitled behavior makes it worse
Plan a kid-free trip or let entitled moms wallow together. NTA ♀️
Polite decline advice for entitled mom friends’ demands. NTA.
NTA. Kids aren’t your responsibility or vacation plan priority ♀️
NTA. Sassy comeback shuts down entitled mom friends’ criticism
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Don’t let entitled friends ruin your vacations. Stand your ground!
Child-free commenter sympathizes with OP’s vacation struggles. ️
Choosing different paths doesn’t make my desires any less valid
Set boundaries and enjoy your vacation your way!
Time to say goodbye to vacations with entitled mom friends ♀️
Child-free couple annoyed at entitled parent friends’ hypocrisy
Husband needs to step up and spare her from entitled friends ♀️
Stand your ground and speak up . Don’t let entitled friends ruin vacations.
NTA. Being used as hired hands is entitled and wrong. ♀️
NTA. The entitled mom friends made you their personal maid and chef ♀️
Communication breakdown with entitled friends. ♀️
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Parent agree with NTA and calls out entitled parents’ behavior
Setting boundaries with entitled mom friends without burning bridges ♀️
Don’t use childfree people as free babysitters
Setting boundaries and declining future vacations with entitled friends
No kids on vacation, NTA. Leaf peeping slows traffic
Parents agree: traveling with toddlers is tough. Friends without kids?
Childless person not responsible for entitled friends with kids ♀️
NTA commenter sympathizes with OP’s vacation troubles and offers helpful advice.
NTA. Don’t be a cook, maid, and receiver of parent snark. ♀️
Sassy NTA comment suggests child-free vacation and payback ♀️
Setting boundaries with entitled friends for future vacations ️
NTA – Don’t be their travel agent, nanny, and housekeeper
Dealing with entitled friend’s ridicules and demands ♀️
Friend with baby cancels beach trip, commenter offers advice
Cut the toxicity, find new friends, live your best life
Setting boundaries on vacation with friends and their toddlers
Not the a**hole for not wanting to vacation with kids
Take a child-free break or bow out tactfully. Self-care matters.
Ditch entitled mom friends for a peaceful vacay ✌️
Setting boundaries with entitled mom friends. NTA
Childfree commenter sympathizes with OP’s vacation woes. NTA
Stand up for yourself and prioritize your own happiness!
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Parent friends ruin vacation, expect free babysitting. No thanks
Child-centered vacations are not the same as adult-only ones ♀️. Friends should appreciate effort put in.
Escape entitled mom friends on a cruise with onboard babysitting!
Parenting and household chores shared equally. NTA
Mom-friend told off for treating kids as tiresome burden
“Entitled mom friends” frustrate non-mom friend on vacation. NTA response.
Traveling with kids is hard. NTA for standing up.
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Take control of your vacation and enjoy your own space
Respectful NTA mom offers a compromise to entitled mom friends
No mercy for entitled mom friends
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Don’t be a maid and cook on your vacation! NTA
Stand up for yourself and set boundaries. NTA.
Parent empathizes and suggests mental health issue may be at play.
Last Updated on April 28, 2024 by Diply Social Team
