Birthdays are meant to be a time of joy and celebration, but for these triplets, it’s turned into a major dilemma. The oldest sister and her middle sister, who are best friends, are planning a two-month road trip for their 20th birthday. However, their youngest sister, Grace, who has physical delays, wouldn’t be able to join them. As the sisters struggle with whether or not to celebrate without her, tensions rise and emotions run high. Let’s dive into their story and see what unfolds.
The Triplet Bond

Birthday Traditions

The Big 2-0 Plan

A Small Dinner and a Secret

Previous Hiking Experiences

The Road Trip Reveal

Grace’s Reaction

Name-Calling and Insults

The Hospital Compromise

Parents’ Intervention

Financial Consequences

Grace’s Victory

A Bittersweet Ending

The Birthday Trip Tug-of-War: Who Wins?
The sisters’ birthday plans have turned into a tug-of-war for happiness, with Grace’s physical delays complicating the situation. After revealing their road trip plans, Grace lashes out, refusing to let them go without her, even though she doesn’t want to join the hiking. Insults fly, and the parents step in, booking tickets for Grace and her friends to join them on the trip, but at the cost of the birthday money the sisters were counting on. In the end, Grace wins, and everyone (except the two sisters) is happy. A bittersweet ending to a birthday celebration that was meant to be a joyous occasion. Let’s see what the internet thinks of this situation…
Sisters’ birthday trip excludes third sister, YTA according to comment.

Excluding a triplet from a birthday road trip? YTA, no doubt

A scathing comment calling out exclusion and seeking validation. YTA.

Sibling rivalry and ableism accusations. Yikes!

Sibling of disabled person advises therapy to work through resentment.

Sibling betrayal? Commenter calls out sisters for excluding triplet.

Sisters plan birthday trip, but what about the third? NTA suggests alternative plan.

Curious about Grace’s abilities and limitations for different trips.

YTA for excluding Grace from the entire trip.

A family birthday dilemma with two a**hole sisters

Sarcastic NTA comment receives no replies, but deserves applause

YTA. Sisters exclude triplet from birthday trip, lack empathy.
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User argues that asking ‘would you be the a**hole?’ is pointless, deems OP YTA.

Excluded triplet deserves better than a weak dinner. YTA.

Navigating birthday celebrations with siblings. Mild YTA verdict.

Calling it a ‘birthday trip’ and posting on social media? YTA.

Sister prioritizes TikTok over sibling’s birthday, called out for immaturity

A scathing comment with no room for reconciliation.

Sassy commenter calls out self-centered TikTok obsessed sisters.

A comment calls out the sisters’ selfishness in planning a trip ♀️

Go on the trip without Grace if you want to.

Hiding the trip from the third sister makes you TA

Sister’s birthday without her? YTA alert!

Harsh comment calls out immature behavior and fake love

Include your third sister in a separate birthday celebration to avoid being YTA

Excluding your sister and posting it on social media? YTA

No birthday pressure, just enjoy the trip and cool dinner

Fiery response to sisters’ exclusionary birthday trip plans.

Excluding sister on birthday road trip during pandemic = YTA
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Suggests a random trip instead of birthday-related to avoid pain

Excluding disabled sister from trip for TikTok? YTA indeed!

Excluding your disabled sister from birthday plans is cruel. YTA.

Sister wants to go on trip with one triplet, NTA

Empathetic comment acknowledges parents’ role in triplets’ dilemma.
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Excluding Grace from the trip? YTA. Plan something special.

Harsh judgment for planning a trip without third sister.

A scathing comment calls out the poster for their cruel behavior

Sister’s behavior not mentioned earlier, YTA for snarky edit

Celebrate sisterhood without leaving the third wheel behind

Sisters find a solution for triplet birthday celebration

Leaving out their triplet sister? YTA and risking sibling bond

Harsh criticism for self-absorbed birthday trip plan for TikTok.

Harsh criticism for sisters’ selfish trip plans.

Defending the importance of disclosing homophobia in the original story

Excluding your triplet for social media attention? YTA.

Sisters plan trip without third triplet, deemed YTA by commenter.

Harsh reply calls out YTA for ostracizing disabled sister.

Sisters plan trip, but what about the third? YTA verdict.

Excluding your triplet sister from a trip is not cool

Redemption for an AHole? A sympathetic turn of events.
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Suggesting compromises for excluded triplet’s birthday trip

Planning a trip on the third triplet’s birthday? YTA

Go have fun! Don’t let Grace’s absence hold you back.

Sisterly bitterness threatens triplets’ bond. YTA according to comment.

Lonely birthday celebrations, a common struggle for some siblings.

Twin calls out sisters for excluding triplet with physical delays

Homophobic Grace causing rifts in triplets’ birthday plans

Excluding a sister from a birthday trip? YTA

Excluding Grace from the celebration is hurtful and unnecessary.

Fabricating fake emotional trip for TikTok is an a**hole move

Excluding Grace from the trip would make them selfish jerks

Considerate scrapbook ideas for excluded triplet. YTA for ignoring Grace.

Sister calls out selfish twins planning birthday trip without triplet.

Disability used as a trump card? Grace is TA

Sister accuses OP of being selfish and YDTA

Sister’s birthday party should include elements for all. YTA

Sensible point, excluding one sister wouldn’t be fair

Leaving out your sister on her birthday? Not cool
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Excluding your sister is an all-time low. YTA
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NTA sister wants to go on birthday trip without disabled sister

A scathing comment calling out the selfishness of two sisters.

Excluded sister deserved better, YTA. Highlights cemented the decision.

Sibling drama: YTA refuses to take third sister on trip ♀️
