The Widow, the Mistress, and the Trust Fund: A Tale of Unforeseen Consequences

Imagine being confronted with a shocking revelation at your husband’s funeral. A pregnant mistress appears, claiming her unborn child is his. That’s the predicament our protagonist, a 52-year-old widow, found herself in 18 years ago. She took the high road, setting up a trust fund for the child and providing them with a home. But when the past comes knocking again, will she continue to extend her generosity? Let’s delve into this dramatic tale. ️‍♀️

A Funeral Revelation

A Trust Fund and a Home

The Agreement

A Medical Emergency

The Trust Fund Dilemma

The Aftermath

The Rent Issue

Family Interference

The Widow’s Stance

The Financial Background

The Inheritance

Family Expectations

A Widow’s Generosity Put to the Test

In a tale filled with unexpected twists and turns, our protagonist, a resilient widow, finds herself in the crosshairs of moral ambiguity. After her husband’s death, she discovers his affair and the child born from it. Despite the shock, she sets up a trust fund for the child and provides a home. But when the child falls ill, the mistress dips into the trust fund for medical expenses, leaving less for the child’s education. Now, the mistress is back, demanding more. The widow stands firm, reminding her of their agreement. But with family pressure mounting, will she give in or hold her ground? Let’s see what the court of public opinion has to say… ‍⚖️

NTA. Family members expect OP to pay for mistress’s child’s college.

NTA- She hoped for a free ride, but you fulfilled your agreement.

NTA. You put emotions aside for husband’s child, no obligation.

NTA. Lucky lady mooching off you. Terrible situation, sorry OP.

NTA. You’re a saint for providing free accommodation and education fund.

NTA. Husband cheated, gave mistress place to stay & money. Exploitative!

NTA. You protected an innocent life and deserve a medal

NTA, you’re a saint for taking care of your husband’s affair child.

NTA. You’ve done more than enough. Time to kick her out!

NTA: Sleeping with unavailable people has unforeseen consequences. MIL and SIL can pay themselves since this kid is NOT your obligation. Don’t owe anyone anything ‍♀️

NTA: Widow’s selflessness and frustration with entitled family members

NTA. You were generous, but now she’s being greedy. ‍♀️

Generosity acknowledged. No further obligations.

NTA. Obligation ends at 18. Family wants control without contributing

Curiosity about the mistress’s spending habits sparks intrigue and distance

Calculating expenses, child support, and doubling the take. NTA!

Mind-blowing actions driven by pity and setting a good example

NTA. You’re not legally responsible for your late husband’s child.

NTA: MIL’s free ride is over

NTA. You held up your side of the bargain.

INFO: Did the will mention the child? You’ve gone above and beyond.

Generous or not, the mistress situation is complicated.

Generous NTA gives 18 years rent-free, still asked for more

NTA. You’ve done more than your fair share.

Seek legal advice to protect your inheritance from potential claims.

NTA, but seriously, that woman’s entitlement is off the charts ‍♂️

Generous NTA spares entitled freeloader from rent, no regrets

Generous act backfires, recipient ungrateful. NTA.

She’s using you. Not cool.

NTA. You’ve shown amazing restraint and goodness in a difficult situation.

Generous widow refuses to support husband’s mistress and child. NTA.

NTA. Stand your ground! They can replenish the trust themselves!

NTA, honesty pays off! Don’t let her squeeze you more

Generous gesture sparks debate over financial obligations.

Absolutely not the a**hole!

NTA: Mistress got 18 YEARS of free rent

The comment section is loving the term #choosingbeggar!

Generous but not obligated.

You’ve already been generous, NTA!

Huge savings wasted! Who’s to blame? The mistress or her?

Generous landlord seeks help from in-laws. Fair or not?

Generosity taken for granted. You deserve better.

Outrageous! Mistresses having legal rights? Unfair and infuriating!

Generous widow sets up college fund despite husband’s actions

Generous landlord, but is it time to stop? NTA

NTA. Show her the calculation for her 18 years of free rent.

Entitled lady expects free rent and trust fund. NTA!

Generous but unappreciated: the burden of supporting an affair child

Sounds like the homewrecker’s problem.

Not the a**hole… Tell us more about the unforeseen consequences!

NTA – You fulfilled your end of the bargain.

NTA. Not your responsibility anymore. Let the family help.

“NTA: You don’t owe them anything. Pity for the child.”

Curious about her financial choices? And why the bad credit?

Generous inheritance sparks envy and admiration, NTA

Generous support, but is it fair?

Stand your ground! MIL and SIL should take responsibility!

NTA- You’re justified in cutting off their free ride.