The Tale of Two Brothers: One Struggles to Escape the Shadow of their Deadbeat Dad

When it comes to family drama, it’s often a tangled web of emotions, expectations, and disappointments. In this gripping tale, we meet two brothers, each trying to navigate the turbulent waters of fatherhood, albeit in very different ways. Tom, the elder brother, seems to be stuck in a loop of irresponsibility, while our storyteller is fed up with his brother’s lackadaisical approach to parenting. Buckle up, because this family feud is about to get heated!

Meet the Cast: Tom, Kim, and Liz

Tom’s Parenting Style: Bare Minimum

The Reminder Game: Rose vs Tom

“Forgetful” Tom and the Blame Game

Tom’s Priorities: Facebook Over Family?

The Last Straw: Missing Graduation

Unchanged Tom: The World’s Greatest Father?

Liz’s Lament: The Absentee Dad

Drama at Mom’s House: The Blame Game Continues

The Showdown: A Brother’s Outburst

The Aftermath: A House Divided ️

The Debate: Justified Outburst or Cruel Reminder?

The Verdict: Unapologetic and Unbowed ‍♂️

A Family Feud for the Ages: Who’s the Real Villain Here?

In this emotional rollercoaster of a tale, we’ve seen the deep-seated family drama unfold. From Tom’s lackluster parenting style to our storyteller’s explosive confrontation, it’s clear that this family is grappling with the heavy burdens of the past. But who’s really in the wrong here? Is it Tom, who seems to be repeating the patterns of their absentee father? Or is it our storyteller, who chose harsh words over gentle correction? Let’s delve into the internet’s take on this complex situation…

Call out Tom’s bragging and praise Rosie to shut him up. NTA.

NTA calls out deadbeat dad for expecting praise without effort

NTA comment and agreement: Truth hurts, but it’s a necessary kick

Is this your brother? The internet is roasting him!

NTA: Family’s lack of guidance excuses his terrible fatherhood? Seriously?

NTA. Deadbeat dad flakes off every opportunity. Only marginally better.

NTA – Tom’s neglectful parenting has lasting consequences for his children

Calling out a deadbeat dad. Wake up from delusions!

NTA, not one bit, no siree.

NTA – Stating facts, but dumbass needs to get his act together

NTA – Stood up for kids, gave Tom a reality check

Your brother perpetuates the cycle. NTA. Be there for your nieces

NTA. Dealing with narcissistic exes and protecting your kids

Uncle’s support means the world to kids with deadbeat dad

Tom’s version of events seems familiar, but he’s still the a**hole. NTA

NTA – Truth hurts, but some people can’t handle reality

Rose stands up to deadbeat dad, calls out his enablers.

NTA for giving tough love to brother, but empathy needed

NTA. Ex’s behavior reminds me of your brother’s parenting.

A musical roast: Deadbeat brother vs. NTA sibling

NTA. Learning from a deadbeat dad’s mistakes

Déjà vu! A familiar story of a dad’s daily update obsession.

“NTA: Tom’s behavior is inexcusable. He’s too lazy to care.”

Rose struggles to clean up after her deadbeat ex-husband. NTA.

“My fiancé is a fantastic father despite not having a dad. NTA!”

NTA but people in denial won’t see you that way

Struggling to break free from a deadbeat dad’s influence. NTA

NTA, but karma caught up with him

Struggling to escape a deadbeat dad’s shadow. No a-hole here.

NTA. You’re amazing. Thank you, Roses of the world!

Not the a**hole – a tale of escaping a deadbeat dad

NTA: Truth hurts, Tom’s daughters’ attitudes are a consequence

Taking responsibility for one’s own actions and breaking free from the past

“Tom needs a reality check, not a pity party.”

Not the a**hole for breaking free from deadbeat dad

Lizzo agrees! The truth hurts. You’re not the a**hole.

NTA. Tough love and setting boundaries for deadbeat dad.

NTA, ex sounds like a deadbeat too. No personal assistants here.

Heartbreaking childhood experiences, but finding strength in speaking up.

NTA: Overcoming a bad parent and being a great father

NTA: You’re an awesome aunt, standing up for your nieces

Commenter calls out family for supporting deadbeat brother. NTA

Don’t want to be called out? Don’t be a shitty parent! NTA

NTA. Brother breaks cycle of deadbeat dads, even from afar

NTA. Overcoming deadbeat dad: being present doesn’t always mean physically.

Embrace your truth and shout it loud: NTA!

Not the a**hole for breaking free from a deadbeat dad

Spot on! Not the a**hole in this situation.

Not the a**hole. Escaping the shadow of a deadbeat dad

NTA but he sure is!

“Hey, stop acting like our father and be better”

Engaging comment advocating for a father’s active involvement in his children’s lives ‍ ‍

NTA. Short and sweet. No explanation needed

NTA: A father should be like a really good friend

Not the a**hole. Let’s hear the story behind it!

NTA: Overcoming a troubled past to be a better father ‍

Tom: The Bully Dad

NTA – Standing up for her like a true hero

NTA: Tom’s lack of involvement as a father is heartbreaking

NTA, he’s worse than your dad, he knows how it feels

Overcoming a difficult childhood and striving for a better future! ✨

NTA: Overcoming trauma and taking responsibility for your actions.

NTA!!!! You’re doing an amazing job looking out for your nieces!

NTA, reality check was necessary

“NTA

This is why I like to make lists. It’s not a ‘gotcha’-trick. It’s a wake-up call.

If you were to ask him to make a list, could he fill it out?

1. What is Rose allergic to?
2. Who is Rose’s best friend?
3. Who is Rose’s GF/BF?
4. What is the name of Rose’s pediatrician?
5. What is Rose’s favorite food?

Except for that last question, the answers to the above list are basic things a police officer might ask if your teen was missing. Can your brother answer those questions? Would he be at all helpful if the police asked him if he knew of any places where Rose might usually be, or who she would likely talk to?

You don’t have to know every single thing about your kid. But if you claim to love them and do so much for them, you should know some basic facts about them. At least enough to make sure you don’t accidentally poison them with some home-cooking.”

Heartwarming story of breaking the cycle and giving unconditional love

Deadbeat dad: Narcissistic and absent. NTA for calling him out!

Breaking the cycle: NTA stands up against generational trauma

Heart-rending story of overcoming a poor father figure

NTA. Deadbeat dad neglects kids, Liz should cut ties.

“Rose goes above and beyond to remind Tom, but he blames her. NTA! “

NTA. Embrace being a kick-ass uncle

NTA: Brother needs tough love, stop coddling him

Rose is a saint for calling out her deadbeat ex. NTA