Ever had a houseguest who just doesn’t understand boundaries? Meet our 31-year-old heroine, living in her family home with her younger brother. She’s a generous soul, letting him stay rent-free to save up for his own place. But, when his girlfriend starts treating her expensive skincare products like communal property, things start to get messy. Let’s dive into this domestic drama…
Meet the Family: A Sister, a Brother, and a Girlfriend
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The Uninvited Guest
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The Battle of the Bathroom Begins
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Invasion of Privacy
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The Last Straw
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Brotherly Backlash
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Drawing the Line
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The Ultimatum ⏰
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A Brother’s Admission ♂️
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A New Arrangement
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Awaiting Apologies and Actions
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A Lesson Learned
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A Sister’s Stand: The Unraveling of a Family Feud
In the end, our heroine took a stand, setting boundaries and demanding respect for her space and belongings. Her brother, after some initial resistance, admitted his mistakes and agreed to contribute more financially. The girlfriend? Well, she’s on a temporary house ban until she can respect the rules. ♀️ Will she apologize and change her ways? Only time will tell. Let’s see what the internet thinks of this situation…
Setting boundaries with brother’s girlfriend: NTA, he’s essentially a guest

Charge brother rent for girlfriend’s expenses

Take charge of your house and set some boundaries!

NTA. Brother needs to handle girlfriend, not you. Good point.

“NTA. She needs to buy her own things or stay at her parents house every night.
‘The guest gets the best’ is when someone is staying for a weekend once a year, not when they are staying 3 nights a week which pretty much means she is living there half the time.” ♂️
Set boundaries! You’re not a B&B. He should pay rent.

NTA. Set boundaries and suggest practical solutions for bathroom sharing.
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OP’s brother’s girlfriend lacks respect. Time for boundaries and rent.

NTA. Set boundaries and make your brother responsible for toiletries.

Brother’s girlfriend crossed boundaries by stealing sister’s stuff. NTA.

NTA kick them both out! This would actually be best.

NTA. Set boundaries and make the brother pay rent.

NTA. Solid advice to set boundaries and address the issue

Stand up for yourself and start charging your brother rent!

NTA: Kick them out! Your house, your rules

NTA. Stand your ground and let them buy their own products!

NTA. Set boundaries and protect your personal space.
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Stop being a doormat and let them fend for themselves!

NTA: Take control of your place and kick them out!

Brother’s girlfriend disrespecting OP’s things, time for a firm talk!

NTA. No bathroom drama, just kick them both out!

Your home, your products, your rules. They’re the a**holes.

Take charge of your house! Set boundaries and stand firm.

Take control of your home! Set rules and boundaries.

NTA – Brother’s girlfriend and brother disrespect OP’s kindness.

Commenter defends OP, calls out brother and girlfriend’s behavior.

NTA, assert your authority and set boundaries with brother’s girlfriend!
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Skincare enthusiast horrified by girlfriend’s product theft

Stand your ground! It’s your house, your rules.

Set boundaries: lock up your stuff, stop cleaning, and more!

NTA. Brother’s entitled girlfriend tramples on your privacy and respect. Stand firm!
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NTA. Responsible guests who respected boundaries and moved out.

“Guests get the best” – OP’s brother’s girlfriend is unwelcome now.

Setting boundaries can be tough, but it’s necessary for self-care.

NTA. Brother’s girlfriend is taking advantage of your generosity.

Outrageous conditioner use! NTA, show her the door!
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NTA. Entitlement runs deep with those two. The nerve!

NTA. Brother’s girlfriend takes advantage, extra money could help.

NTA: No reason to be a hotel, review the agreement!

Stand up for yourself and set boundaries!

Charging it to the game: NTA vs Brother’s Girlfriend!

“NTA, but don’t give him the money back. Build self-worth. “

NTA – Set boundaries with your brother and his girlfriend

NTA. Brother’s entitled girlfriend needs a reality check

NTA: Haircare hijinks! Sister vs Brother’s GF over conditioner usage

Stand up for yourself! Don’t let him take advantage of you.

Enabling behavior: Are you his girlfriend or his surrogate mom?

“Guests get the best” entitlement, brother taking advantage. NTA, support themselves.

Grateful for low rent and understanding sister with a mortgage

Reduce stress on your voice with this confidence-boosting trick!

Guests aren’t pigs, they’re grateful. Stop babying your brother.
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Brother’s GF has terrible manners, you’re NTA!

Sibling rivalry escalates in bathroom battle. Good luck, bro!

Stand up for yourself! Make your brother pay his own expenses. NTA

Stand up for yourself! You’re not the a**hole.

NTA. Girlfriend expects too much. Have a talk with brother.

NTA. Set a timeframe for your brother’s stay to avoid being taken advantage of.

“Guests GTFO” – Brother’s girlfriend is an entitled piece of work!

“NTA. Entitled girlfriend doesn’t deserve to be in your house! “

Entitled guests and coddled brothers – a recipe for disaster!

Sibling rivalry turned hospitality: B&B for brother’s girlfriend!
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Sibling rivalry escalates as girlfriend disrespects family boundaries.

Sibling entitlement: Brother’s girlfriend crosses the line. NTA!

NTA. Entitled girlfriend wants the best and wastes conditioner?

Setting boundaries with entitled brother and his disrespectful girlfriend.
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Sibling rivalry: Time to cut the apron strings?

Kick him out or ban her? The battle of boundaries!

Sibling rivalry escalates over brother’s dependency.

NTA! Boundaries crossed: reclaim your space and demand respect.

NTA: Don’t let her play with your brother’s head! Update?

“Stand your ground and make your home uncomfortable for them!”

NTA: Boundaries are important! Don’t let entitled guests take advantage.

Stop coddling your brother and set boundaries with his girlfriend!
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Sibling rivalry: Setting boundaries with a terrible and entitled girlfriend!

NTA. Set boundaries with entitled guests invading personal space.

Brother’s entitled behavior causing bathroom battle. Time for tough love!

Prank wars escalate with a hair-raising conditioner switcheroo!

Stand up for yourself! Kick them both to the curb!

Financial contributions or eviction? The battle of the bathroom!

NTA: Brother’s entitled girlfriend causes tension in shared living space
