Thanksgiving is a time for family and food, but what happens when a picky eater ruins the holiday meal? In this AITA post, a woman spent all month planning and testing recipes for her Thanksgiving feast, but her mother-in-law refused to eat anything she cooked and insisted on bringing her own food. The host uninvited her, but her husband called her insensitive and petty. Is she in the wrong for not wanting negativity at her holiday gathering? Read on to find out and see what dishes were on the menu.
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A woman uninvites her picky mother-in-law to Thanksgiving after she wanted to bring her own meal instead of eating what the hostess had prepared. The hostess had created a menu with traditional and unique dishes that she had been testing all month. Her husband argued that his mother was a “grade A picky eater” and wouldn’t like anything the hostess had prepared. The hostess sees this as incredibly r**e and disrespectful after putting so much time, money, and labor into this upcoming meal. After asking if the mother-in-law could not eat anything, the husband called the hostess insensitive and petty. The hostess wonders if she is the a**hole for uninviting her mother-in-law. However, after reading the replies, she decides to take the high road and let her mother-in-law come to Thanksgiving. The hostess plans to focus on her other guests and ignore her mother-in-law. Will the mother-in-law try something new and like it, or will she continue to refuse everything?

MIL’s behavior is incredibly r**e and disrespectful, NTA

Be the bigger person and accommodate your MIL’s food preferences

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Let them bring their own food, more for you!

Let’s not let food ruin family relationships.

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Embrace the sandwich , let her enjoy her sad meal

Don’t be a food control freak, YTA. Let her eat safely

Don’t let food come between family on Thanksgiving

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MIL wants to bring her own food to Thanksgiving, is it r**e?

Don’t be a YTA. Consider accommodating guests’ food issues

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Thanksgiving is about family, not food preferences. YTA

Why bringing your own meal is not r**e

Let your MIL enjoy Thanksgiving too! YTA.

Let’s be thankful for each other’s choices this Thanksgiving

Let’s not make a big deal out of someone’s food choice

Food fight at Thanksgiving! ESH behaves badly.
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Be an adult and have a conversation with your MIL

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Be a gracious host and accommodate your guests’ food preferences

Struggling with uninviting MIL over food, leaning YTA. Let it go

Consider asking about their food preferences to avoid conflicts
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Is MIL’s food request reasonable? Let’s talk about it

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Considerate judgement on MIL’s behavior and possible reasons.

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MIL may have medical/dietary reasons to bring own food. YTA.

Understanding and empathy go a long way

Be kind and let her bring her own food

Don’t let food ruin the holiday spirit

Let her bring her own food It’s not an insult.

Let her bring her own food, YTA for uninviting her
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Last Updated on April 13, 2023 by Alfe Mercado