Imagine being a 19-year-old, living independently, and getting a call that your family is in financial distress. But here’s the twist: it’s the same family that sent you to a military-style institution for troubled kids when you were 17. Now, they’re reaching out, not with an apology, but with a plea for financial help. What would you do? ♂️
The Family Dynamics
The Strained Relationships
Feeling Neglected
The Unexpected Turn
Life in the Institution
The Great Escape ♂️
Surviving on His Own
Financial Independence
The Unexpected Call
The Tough Decision
The Heart-Wrenching Dilemma: Family or Freedom?
This young man’s story has left us all on the edge of our seats. After being sent to a military-style institution by his own mother, he managed to escape and build a life for himself. Now, with a substantial inheritance from his late father, he’s faced with a tough decision. His family, struggling to care for his autistic brother, has reached out for financial help. But can he overlook the past and step in to support them? Or will he choose to protect his newfound independence? The internet is divided. Let’s see what people have to say about this…
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Don’t give them money. You’re not the a**hole.
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Protect your future, focus on yourself, not your mother’s mistakes.
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Financial aid helps teen escape neglectful family. NTA for choosing self.
NTA: Resources available for brother’s needs, don’t give family money.
NTA. Take the money and start fresh. Your mom’s responsibility.
NTA. Don’t get sucked into being your brother’s caretaker.
Mother’s late apology for money is an a**hole move
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Don’t give them your money! You’re not the a**hole!
NTA. Keep your money for your future. Block them all.
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Congratulations on surviving! Stay strong and prioritize your safety.
Don’t want to help? Then donate to her cause!
Block everyone. Please.
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NTA – Making a tough decision without causing a family feud.
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NTA. Family paid to kidnap, abuse you. Now want money? Wow.
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NTA: Stay away for your own mental wellness.
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Fiery response ignites a family feud
Put yourself first! NTA, prioritize your own well-being.
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Teen refuses to support mom, seeks better future for brother.
Adding another block to the list? You go, NTA!
