Hey there, Facebook fam! You won’t believe the drama that unfolded at a recent family gathering. Our protagonist, an 18-year-old fitness enthusiast, found herself in a sticky situation after her morbidly obese cousin Annie decided to edit a picture of them together. Annie made her cousin look 200 lbs heavier than she actually is and posted it on Instagram! The reason? To promote body positivity. But was it really the right thing to do? Let’s dive into this family drama and see what happened…
Family Gathering Time!
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Meet Cousin Annie
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Picture Perfect Moment
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Of Course!
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Wait, What?!
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Not Cool, Annie
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Confronting Annie
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But… Permission?
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Annie’s Rant
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I Work Hard for My Body
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Family’s Opinion ️
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The Photo Stays?!
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Feeling Guilty
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Am I in the Wrong? ♀️
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Handling with Caution ⚠️
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Not Enabling, Just Cautious ♀️
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No Bridges Burned
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Not Fat Phobic
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Clarifying My Point ️
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No Alterations, Please!
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Happy with My Look
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Parents Stepping In
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Annie’s Still Angry
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Profile Pic Update
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Family Drama: The Edited Picture
Our protagonist confronted Annie about the severely edited picture, but Annie refused to take it down, claiming it was all in the name of body positivity. Things escalated quickly, with Annie accusing her cousin of not understanding what it’s like to be fat and having an easy life. While the rest of the family seemed to be on our protagonist’s side, another cousin called her a jerk for making Annie feel bad. Now, our protagonist is left wondering if she’s in the wrong and feeling guilty about the whole situation. ♀️ So, what do you think? Is it okay to edit someone’s picture without their permission, even if it’s for a good cause? Let’s see what the internet has to say about this dramatic turn of events…
Empowering response to photo edit backlash

Body positivity should not be an excuse for body-shaming

Empowerment through social media: NTA calls out cousin’s unacceptable behavior

Empathetic comment supporting body positivity and self-acceptance.

A comment calling out the cousin’s hypocrisy and jealousy

NTA. Take action: report photo, inform family, make a post

Body positivity is about loving your body AS IS

Body positivity isn’t about editing someone’s body without consent

Editing someone’s photo without permission is not body positivity

Promoting body positivity by altering appearance? NTA’s response & tips.

Sassy comment suggests editing cousin’s photo for body positivity

Cousin’s ‘body positivity’ was actually body shaming. Unacceptable behavior.

Calling out hypocrisy of cousin’s photo-editing for body positivity

Unhinged cousin severely edited photo for ‘body positivity’ NTA

Fitness is hard work, don’t trivialize my efforts to feel better

Sarcastic comment sparks no replies in the section ♂️

Body positivity means loving your skin, not photoshopping others’ bodies.

Altering a photo for ‘body positivity’ is hypocritical, and squicky

NTA! Standing up for yourself and hard work

Cousin’s harmful edit not body positivity. NTA wins.

Empathetic agreement with NTA’s response.

Suggests posting real photo on Instagram and removing tag. NTA.

Petty revenge suggestion for edited photo controversy.

Body shaming is never okay. Editing a picture doesn’t promote positivity.

Fighting back against internalized fatphobia. NTA

Criticism of cousin’s deceptive body positivity photo edit

User critiques body positivity movement, argues against glorifying obesity.

NTA’s take on body positivity movement and cousin’s photoshop fail

Embracing body positivity means embracing all bodies.

NTA. Cousin’s photo alteration without consent is harassment. Drop polite language.

Respectful response to body-shaming cousin

Adding 200lbs to a photo can’t be body positivity

Tit-for-tat editing? NTA suggests revenge editing for cousin’s photo.

Cousin modified OP’s photo without consent for her own insecurities #NTA

Body positivity means accepting others as they are

Petty revenge idea for photo editing cousin. #BodyPositivity

NTA fights against toxic body positivity edit

Empowering response to body-shaming cousin. NTA

NTA. Respect people’s bodies and their consent

Savage comeback to cousin’s ridiculous photo editing

Petty revenge suggestion against body-shaming cousin

Body positivity or body shaming? NTA for fighting back!

Congrats on your weight loss! Don’t let anyone downplay it

Publicly calling out cousin for photo editing: YTA or NTA?

Jealousy disguised as body positivity? That’s not okay

NTA fights back against unhealthy ‘body positivity’ photo edit.

Supportive comment against body shaming and fake body positivity

Empathetic reply supports teen’s stance against harmful photo editing

Body positivity should not involve editing someone else’s photo without consent

Opposite of body positivity: editing relatives’ bodies in photos

Empathy check: How would you feel if roles were reversed? NTA

Boundaries are important for body positivity and cousin relationships

Support for OP from a plus-sized woman, cousin is the AH

Body positivity means finding beauty in all bodies. NTA.

Body positivity hypocrite gets called out. Not the a-hole.

Editing someone’s photo without consent is not body positivity. NTA

Tips for removing offensive photos on social media. NTA.

Poster calls out hypocrisy of photo editing for ‘body positivity’

Body positivity doesn’t mean forcing others to be plus-sized. NTA

Positive reinforcement for mature approach to photo editing

Report the edited photo and cut off toxic family member.

Supportive commenter agrees OP is NTA and suggests calling out cousin

Fighting back against unhealthy ‘body positivity’

Formerly morbidly obese commenter defends cousin’s photo editing, NTA

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Fight against body-shaming cousin, NTA, report edited photos

Photoshopping someone’s body isn’t ‘body positivity’

NTA fights back against cousin’s false body positivity narrative.

Editing someone’s photo without permission is not okay.

Defending the importance of consent and body positivity

Supportive comment applauds OP’s character after body-shaming incident.
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Overweight commenter defends OP against extreme body positivity.

Stand up for yourself and clarify the truth with your family

Supportive comment suggests offering health/exercise support to unhappy cousin

Standing up for body positivity, without altering other’s photos.

Body positivity works both ways, NTA for standing up.

Cousin’s ‘body positivity’ edit not promoting positivity, NTA wins!

Editing someone’s photo for ‘body positivity’ is ridiculous. NTA!

Promoting body positivity does not include drastically altering a photo . NTA for standing up for your rights.

Respectful response to body shaming incident, seeking justice.
