Swords, Sabres, and a Squabble: A Fencer’s Feud with Her Boyfriend

Imagine having a passion that helps you cope with life’s ups and downs. Now, imagine your significant other not only disapproving of it but also possibly sabotaging it. This is the predicament our fencing enthusiast finds herself in. Her boyfriend, who has always been uncomfortable with her love for fencing, allegedly drove over her expensive gear. He claims it was an accident, but was it really? Let’s delve into this fencing fiasco!

A Love for Fencing

The Boyfriend’s Disapproval

The Scratch Incident

The Argument and the Move Outdoors

The ‘Accident’

The Doubt and the Damage

The Costly Consequences

The Cheap Offer and the Sister’s Support

Sabotage or Simple Accident? The Fencing Gear Feud Continues…

Our fencing enthusiast is caught in a duel of a different kind. Her boyfriend, who has always been uncomfortable with her passion for fencing, allegedly drove over her pricey gear. He insists it was an accident, but the circumstances raise eyebrows. The gear, placed safely on the grass, was run over as he backed out of the driveway, drove forward onto the grass, and then reversed again. The damage? A crushed mask and two dented sabres, totaling £462 ($635). His solution? A cheaper £50 ($69) kit from eBay. Even her sister thinks she should accept his offer. But should she? Let’s see what the internet thinks of this situation…

NTA. Boyfriend’s destructive behavior and control issues are major red flags

Abusive boyfriend ruins fencer’s gear, time to find new love

Dump him and get revenge! Stab his tire and sue!

“Using swords to deal with bad feelings? Bruises are temporary!”

NTA…omg. Replace your stuff. Unhealthy relationship. Serious talk needed

NTA: Dump the bf! Best €462 you’ll ever spend!

NTA. Boyfriend damaged gear, should pay and be dumped ASAP!

NTA. Boyfriend’s controlling, insecure, and damaging your fencing gear.

“NTA, he’s jealous of your badass hobby. Break up! “

NTA’s boyfriend ran over her stuff, intentional or not?

Controlling boyfriend? NTA!

NTA—Boyfriend destroyed swords, Freudian vibes, dump him.

Fellow saberist’s gear destroyed by boyfriend’s suspicious ‘accident’

NTA: Boyfriend destroyed stuff and acted like an a**hole over wall

NTA. Expect exact replacement, not poor substitutes. No free pass.

Boomer’s unreasonable demand sparks debate – what’s up with the sister?

NTA and Kick. Him. OUT. Fencing gear stolen? Ragey! Trust issues!

Boyfriend drives over fencer’s kit, refuses to replace it. NTA.

“Is it sexism or just his insecurity? “

NTA. Boyfriend’s controlling and disrespectful. Fencing is healthy and historic

Intentional move? Not the a**hole, according to comments.

NTA. Boyfriend should pay for his mistakes. No excuses!

Run like hell! He’s warning you that you’re next

Dump him! Take it to court if necessary for justice.

NTA, time to leave and get your stuff replaced. ‍♀️

Disrespectful SO? Dealbreaker! NTA takes a stand.

He destroyed her property to control her. NTA, dump him.

Break it, pay it. Red flags everywhere. Not the a**hole.

NTA. He broke it, he should replace it. Red flags!

Fiery feud over destroyed belongings sparks online advice-seeking

NTA. Boyfriend blames you for accident, but he’s at fault.

NTA: Would he like his car replaced with a beat-up banger?

Dump him! You deserve better. You’re NTA!

Controlling boyfriend? NTA!

Dump the a**hole and take him to small claims court!

Red flags galore! Make him pay, then dump his butt!

Dump him! You deserve better.

Dump the controlling boyfriend! He’s only going to get worse

️ NTA- Destroyed gear, broken trust. Take charge and move on!

Dump the boyfriend! He’s controlling. You’re NTA!

Taking responsibility for damage and recognizing red flags ✔️

Toxic relationships can be dangerous. Consider leaving for your safety.

NTA. Stand your ground and let him know he’s free to leave

NTA. Boyfriend damaging kit and showing red flags.

Dump him! He sucks and owes you money. #NTA

Controlling boyfriend tries to isolate fencer, time to break free!

Four red flags in a row! He’s on a roll!

Report the damage and reconsider the relationship. You deserve better!

Not the a**hole. Tell us more about this fencer’s feud!

Ditch the toxic boyfriend! Red flags everywhere. NTA

Dump him! Find someone who respects you and your hobbies!

Cutting ties and upgrading gear. Time for a fresh start! ✂️

He destroyed her stuff! She should dump him immediately!

Fencer’s boyfriend replaces gear with cheap eBay tat. NTA here!

NTA- Sister’s forgiving nature raises concerns. Group sees red flags!

Fencing: A cathartic hobby with expensive consequences. NTA for being upset.

Replace the kit, replace the boyfriend

Dump him and get the branded gear you deserve!

File a police report and make him pay for damages

Fencing enthusiast shares her frustration over destructive boyfriend. NTA

NTA! He broke it, belittled your passion, and didn’t offer to replace it. ❌

Why are you with him? He sounds like a malicious waste of time.

Jealous boyfriend destroys fencer’s gear; she needs to break up!

A fair comparison: smashing a car vs buying a bike

Curious about his perspective on her fencing passion?

“NTA – He broke it, he needs to replace it! “

Dump him and make him pay! You deserve better

Dump him! You deserve better.

Dump him! Red flags everywhere. Get your repayment first.

Stand your ground! Kick him out and find someone supportive!

NTA. Boyfriend ran over stuff in the driveway and garden.