Picture this: you’re a sleep-deprived parent of a newborn and a toddler, and just when you think you’ve got everyone settled in for the night, there’s a knock at the door. That’s exactly what happened to this dad, who was less than thrilled when a distant relative showed up unannounced, waking his entire family. The unexpected guest has a history of overstepping boundaries, but was the dad’s reaction justified? Let’s dive into the story.
A Peaceful Evening Interrupted
Bedtime Routine Begins
The Unwanted Visitor
Past Issues with the Relative
Confronting the Intruder ️
Trying to End the Conversation
To Apologize or Not?
More Background on the Relative ️
The Relative’s Husband in Denial
Defending the Dog
A Well-Trained Guard Dog
Update: Apology Extended
All’s Well That Ends Well?
Dad’s Dilemma: Was He Too Harsh?
So, our sleep-deprived dad was caught off-guard when a distant relative with a history of overstepping boundaries showed up unannounced, waking up his entire family. He confronted her, thanked her for the baby clothes she brought, but also told her off for not calling first. Despite her past behavior, he later apologized and asked her to call before coming over in the future. What do you think? Was his reaction justified? Let’s see what the internet has to say about this situation…
Sleep-deprived dad gets NTA for snapping at uninvited relative
Uninvited relative gets a r**e awakening from sleep-deprived dad
Dog lovers defend barking pup, call out NTA’s dog training ignorance
Uninvited relative shows up at 8pm, gets cursed out. YTA.
Uninvited guest + sleep-deprived dad = ESH ♂️
NTA. Surprise visits are irritating regardless of the circumstances.
Debating the fairness of labeling uninvited relative’s actions as r**e
Sleep-deprived dad receives harsh YTA judgment for blowing up.
Uninvited guests, r**e dad, and YTA accusation
Respect boundaries and privacy, even with family. NTA
Setting boundaries with uninvited guests during bedtime
Uninvited relative gets blunt response from sleep-deprived dad. NTA.
A comment advises the sleep-deprived dad to apologize and make amends.
Dog defends family, dad defends dog. NTA
Redditor suggests communication and apology for sleep-deprived dad’s outburst
Engaging comment on ESH situation with thoughtful analysis
Uninvited guest brings gift, but both parties react poorly ♂️
Uninvited relative shows up, dad snaps. ESH, but reasonable visit time.
Setting boundaries with relatives- NTA for being assertive
Both parties could have handled it better. ESH
Sleep-deprived dad gets called out for unjustified outburst
Uninvited relative gets the hint to leave with gift card
Sleep-deprived mom’s sign inspires cross-stitch threat. NTA.
Uninvited relative shows up late, NTA for turning her away
User calls out OP for being a j**k and seeking validation
Sleep-deprived dad defends snapping at uninvited relative. NTA.
Uninvited relative wakes sleeping baby, dad swears. NTA.
Debate over unannounced visits and YTA verdict sparks discussion.
Uninvited relative vs. sleep-deprived dad: ESH in this situation ♂️
New parents can be grumpy, but NTA for setting boundaries
Uninvited relative wakes up tired parents, NTA for snapping back
Sleep-deprived dad gets called out for snapping at relative
Accused of being r**e for rejecting gift, cheating backstory questioned.
Dog saves the day! NTA for snapping at uninvited relative
Sleep-deprived dad gets called out for cussing uninvited relative
Redditor calls out OP for being r**e and insensitive
Setting boundaries with visitors when tired. NTA
Sleep-deprived dad gets called out for r**e reaction
Uninvited relative gets what she deserves. NTA wins.
Uninvited guests are r**e and guilt-tripping. Make plans, people!
Sleep-deprived dad gets called out for snapping at relative
Sleep-deprived dad justified in snapping at uninvited relative.
Adoption irrelevant, YTA for mentioning it. Don’t be r**e.
YTA for snapping at uninvited relative who brought a gift
Uninvited relative gets called out for lack of human decency
Receiving gifts doesn’t justify snapping at uninvited relative. YTA.
Setting boundaries for unannounced visits is common decency in 2021
Setting boundaries: 8pm is too late for uninvited guests. NTA
Sleep-deprived dad and uninvited relative both at fault ♂️
Sleep-deprived dad gets sympathy for yelling at uninvited relative
Sleep-deprived dad gets called out for overreacting
Parent agrees dad is TA for being r**e despite sleep deprivation
Setting boundaries with uninvited relatives when sleep is involved
Uninvited relative drops by, sleep-deprived dad snaps, both TA.
New dad overreacts to unannounced visitor, receives soft YTA judgement
Uninvited relative gets what she deserves. NTA
OP entitled to quiet enjoyment, but overreacted to uninvited relative.
Debating whether the dad is a soft YTA or not
Uninvited relative brings gift, dad snaps. YTA, be polite
User calls out the dad for lack of empathy and self-centeredness
Millennial parent empathizes with uninvited relative, calls dad out for angry outburst ♀️
Red-faced dad gets called out for being an a**hole
Uninvited relative gets a harsh response from sleep-deprived dad
New dad gets called out for swearing at uninvited guest
YTA for cussing out a relative who showed up unannounced
New parent defends snapping at uninvited relative. #NTA
Uninvited relative got what they deserved. NTA
NTA sets boundaries with uninvited guests using a clever sign.
Uninvited guest after bedtime? NTA for snapping
Lack of sleep is tough, but control your temper. Soft YTA
Uninvited relative gets a r**e awakening from sleep-deprived dad
Keeping your side of the street clean is the not-a**hole thing to do
Uninvited relative causes trouble, but OP could have handled better.
Uninvited relative’s early visit causes sleep-deprived dad to snap
New parents deserve respect and privacy, not uninvited guests
Unexpected visitors? No thanks! NTA’s got it right
Uninvited guest receives r**e welcome, everyone’s at fault. ♂️
Uninvited relative drops in, dad snaps rudely. ESH.
Uninvited morning guest gets called out, NTA wins.
Last Updated on February 18, 2024 by Diply Social Team