Picture this: you’ve been a closeted lesbian for years, and you finally gather the courage to come out to your family. They’re supportive and loving, and it’s an emotional breakthrough. But then, just a few days later, your narcissistic sister steals the spotlight with her own dramatic announcement, claiming she’s a lesbian too. Is she telling the truth, or is she just seeking attention? Let’s dive into the story of these two sisters and their family drama.
The Suspicious Title
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Meet the Narcissistic Sister
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Walking on Eggshells
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The Closeted Lesbian’s Struggle ️
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The Big Reveal
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Family’s Supportive Response ❤️
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The Narcissist Strikes Back ⚡
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A Suspicious Claim
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The Breaking Point
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Speaking Her Mind ️
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Storming Out
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Parents’ Disapproval
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Demands for an Apology
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Standing Her Ground
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Living in the Shadow
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Is She Really a Lesbian, or Just an Attention Seeker?
After years of living in her narcissistic sister’s shadow, our protagonist finally comes out as a lesbian to her family, only for her sister to do the same just days later. She’s tired of her sister’s lies and attention-seeking behavior, so she calls her out and storms off. Now, her parents are demanding an apology, but she’s standing her ground. ♀️ Is her sister really a lesbian, or is this just another ploy for attention? Let’s see what the internet thinks of this situation…
Sibling rivalry and narcissism collide in a suspected attention-seeking ploy. NTA.

Heartwarming support for OP’s relationship, criticism of attention-seeking sister

Sibling rivalry or genuine LGBTQ+ identity? NTA calls out sister’s attention-seeking behavior ️

Petty sister steals spotlight, commenters call for low contact

Sibling rivalry at its finest

Sibling rivalry and NPD: Mental illness is a reason, not an excuse
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Put your family on an information diet. NTA.

Sister’s spotlight stealing: attention craving or genuine identity crisis?
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Sibling rivalry at its finest, with a dash of skepticism

Commenter defends sister, calls out parents for ignoring her behavior

Sibling rivalry and mental illness can be a toxic combination.

Commenter agrees with OP’s decision to call out sister’s attention-seeking behavior

Supportive lesbian offers advice on handling attention-seeking sister.

Sibling solidarity in the face of mental illness and coming out

Early diagnosis of personality disorder can be detrimental. NTA.

Trust issues arise as sister’s sexuality is questioned. NTA.
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From Wiccan lesbian to Mormon mother: NTA for calling out attention-seeking.

Setting boundaries with NPD family member, suspicious timing of sister’s announcement

Sibling jealousy can be tough, especially when it’s about acceptance

Commenter sympathizes with NTA, expresses confusion and concern
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When feeding a narcissist creates a monster

Ignoring a sister with NPD: best way to deal. NTA

Accusing sister of faking sexuality, deemed not the a-hole.

Sibling steals spotlight and comes out in a selfish manner.

Dealing with a narcissistic sister? Grey rock for the win

Sibling rivalry taken to a whole new level

Commenter is not the a**hole in this situation.
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Sister’s coming out or seeking attention? Timing is suspicious.

Don’t wait for a narcissist to consider your feelings. Grey rock

Sibling rivalry at its finest. NTA for calling it out.

Is there something suspicious about the sister’s sexuality?

Expert opinion on teen diagnosis questioned.

Commenter not at fault, but why mention sister’s sexuality?

Commenter believes sister faked being lesbian for attention. NTA.

Empowering response to coming out and toxic family dynamics.

Sibling rivalry and parental favoritism. NTA for speaking out.

Supporting sister’s fragility: NTA suggests talking to her therapist.

Supportive comment offers advice on family dynamics and mental health.

NTA but don’t feed her narcissistic need for drama

Valid suspicion or overreaction? NTA stands their ground

Dealing with a narcissist? NTA suggests time to move on. ⏰
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Commenter not at fault for sister’s actions.

Sassy reply shuts down fragile sister’s excuses.

Sister’s authenticity questioned in coming out confession. NTA verdict.

Age limit for NPD diagnosis sparks discussion.

Suggests discussing feelings with parents and seeking therapy.

Sibling rivalry and NPD: the struggle for attention

Sister hijacks coming out for attention, don’t apologize. Consider therapy.

Sibling comes out as lesbian, commenter defends OP’s outburst.

Sibling rivalry at its finest
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Disarming the sister with kindness and moving on.

Friend shares experience with compulsive liar, warns of sister’s behavior.

A simple ‘oh, ok’ would’ve sufficed ♀️

Lesbian sister steals spotlight, OP not the a**hole.

Sibling rivalry and unsupportive parents.
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Supportive comment and recording evidence for court.

Taking a stand against controlling parents.
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Sibling rivalry at its finest. NTA takes the win.

Spotlight-stealing sister called out for narcissistic behavior.

Agreement on being NTA in a suspicious situation.

Navigating attention-seeking behavior with compassion and understanding.

Clear judgement, but why NTA? Tell us more!

Commenter jokes about sister’s sexuality, proposes wild theory.

Don’t apologize for living in her shadow

Putting yourself first is important. Your emotions are valid too.

Don’t play the narcissism game, you’re NTA

Sibling rivalry or genuine concern? NTA suspects sister’s motives

Lesbian sister gets no award for knowing longer. NTA.

Sibling rivalry and parental favoritism can be emotionally draining.

NTA calls sister a narcissist, no surprise about her sexuality
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Sibling rivalry or genuine concern? NTA stands up for herself.

Don’t coddle narcissists, forget your ‘understanding’, sell yourself high!
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Supportive comment defends sister’s sexuality and criticizes parents’ ignorance.

Standing up to a narcissistic sister who tried to out you ♂️

Sibling’s suspicious coming out after my own – NTA
