Sister on the Verge: Will She Kick Out Her Freeloading Brother and Pregnant Girlfriend?

Imagine opening your home to your younger brother and his girlfriend, only to have them take advantage of your kindness. This is the predicament of a 29-year-old woman who’s been housing her jobless brother and his girlfriend for eight months. The couple moved in after their parents disapproved of their relationship. The woman thought she was providing temporary refuge, but now she’s stuck playing the role of provider, maid, and, soon-to-be, godmother. What’s a sister to do? ‍♀️

A Sister’s Sacrifice

The Unwelcome Houseguests

The Freeloader’s Lifestyle

The Unfulfilled Expectations

The Burden of Responsibility

The Irresponsible Spending

The Messy Situation ️

The Food Fiasco ️

The Pregnancy Bombshell

The Godmother Dilemma

The Confrontation

The Struggle of Responsibility

The Moral Dilemma

The Potential Solution? ‍♀️

The Ultimate Question ❓

A Sister’s Dilemma: Compassion or Consequences? ‍♀️

In a tale as old as time, a woman finds herself caught between family loyalty and self-preservation. She’s been housing her unemployed brother and his girlfriend for eight months, providing for their needs, and even cleaning up after them. But the last straw comes when the couple reveals a pregnancy and expects her to play godmother, adding another mouth to feed. Frustrated and at her wits’ end, she contemplates kicking out her brother in hopes he’ll finally step up. The question remains: is she justified, or just heartless? Let’s see what the internet thinks of this predicament… ️‍♀️

NTA: Stop enabling their bad behavior and kick them out.

Kick them out or be their mommy forever. Time to grow up!

NTA. Stop enabling them. They need to take responsibility for themselves.

“YTA why are you cooking, cleaning, housing and giving a daily allowance to two twenty-something adults?”

NTA: Don’t burn yourself to keep others warm.

NTA: Set an ultimatum, they steal and laugh behind your back

NTA – Irresponsible parents, kick out brother, give deadline for girlfriend

NTA. Tough love for the freeloading brother and girlfriend.

NTA, but enabling pushover = freeloading brother and pregnant girlfriend

NTA: Kick them out before things get much worse!

Don’t let them take advantage of your kindness! Kick them out!

Kick them out! Your house, your rules!

NTA. Lawyer up, evict them, and stop enabling their entitlement.

Enabling freeloading brother and pregnant girlfriend, seek legal advice

Enabling freeloading brother and girlfriend. Time to take a stand!

NTA. Tough love is necessary for them to grow up.

NTA: Give your brother one month to find a full-time job

NTA: Don’t let them take advantage, let the state handle it.

Enabling freeloaders? Kick them out and save your money!

Giving them a hard deadline to move out. YWNBTA.

NTA! Kick them out and update us when it’s done!

NTA. Kick them out and be done with it.

NTA, kick them out! Don’t let their problems become yours

NTA: Don’t let them take advantage of your kindness!

Commenter calls out OP for being gullible and predicts trouble.

“YTA – You deserve a vacation! Stop being their bank account! “

Stop the leeches! Don’t be an a**hole to yourself.

Don’t be a doormat! Stand up for yourself!

Entitled freeloaders? Kick them out! You’re not the a**hole.

“NTA, give them 2 months to find a job and income. Explain the financial and mental toll, and the consequences of having a baby with no income. “

Kick them out and let your parents handle the situation!

Enabling freeloaders: ESH. Firm rules needed, time to grow up

Stop paying for them! Time for them to find work!

Enabling vs. Consequences: Are they manipulating you?

You’ve been kind, it’s your house, do as you please!

NTA. Freeloading brother and pregnant girlfriend need a reality check

NTA: Kick them both out, an unforgiving dose of reality.

NTA: Stand your ground and break the chain of dependence!

Generous sister enabling brother and pregnant girlfriend. NTA. Kick him out!

Nope. You’re not the a**hole at all

“NTA. Give your brother a time limit to find a job and warn him that if he doesn’t do so they’ll both be kicked out. That guy is going to be a father and cannot mooch off his sister for so long. Tell them that if they are going to stay at your house they have to atleast help around like laundry and dishes. And please stop their allowance.”

NTA: Kick them out! No more allowance, make them uncomfortable!

NTA for wanting to kick them out, but soft YTA for even taking them in. Give them a short warning before evicting. It’s not your responsibility.

Stand your ground! Kick out the freeloading brother and girlfriend.

Time to kick them out! Don’t let them leech on you

Evict them! Stop catering to their needs. Be strong and think about yourself.

NTA: Kicking her out while pregnant is best for everyone.

Set a firm deadline or you’ll support a deadbeat family.

Commenter urges kicking out freeloading brother and pregnant girlfriend.

NTA: Signs of being an enabler and how to stop.

NTA- Kick them out, teach them to take care of themselves

NTA. Kick them out and let them grow the f**k up.

NTA: Kick them out legally and enjoy your freedom!

Set ground rules or kick them out. NTA

NTA. Kick them out now or they’ll keep using you.

Stop enabling them! Give them 3 months notice to grow up.

NTA, but enabling them won’t help. Kick them out ASAP!

NTA: Set boundaries and kick them out for your own sanity.

Time to evict the leaches! Get them out of there!

NTA. Evict them now for their own sake and yours.

NTA! Kick them out and let them figure out their lives

NTA: Kick them out! They’re taking advantage and don’t care

“NTA. Evict them. Let them hit rock bottom for change. “

NTA: Freeloading brother and pregnant girlfriend causing financial burden

Set a deadline and stick to it. No more freeloaders!

YTA- Enabling freeloading siblings, prepare for potential squatters. Time for peace.

NTA. Kick them out. They’ve had 8 months and they literally haven’t done ANYTHING. And they stole from you? Nope, kick them out. Im sure they’ll start working when someone isn’t catering to their every whim.

NTA: Helped brother, but they’re taking advantage. Set a deadline.

Cut off their allowance and make them pay rent. NTA!

Stop enabling them! Kick them out and take care of yourself.

Eviction notice. Stop enabling them. NTA.

NTA: Stop the mooching! No daily allowance for freeloaders

NTA, time to tough love. Lock up your valuables

NTA. Kick them out; they’ll either grow up or find someone else’s generosity to abuse.

NTA, but you’d be a**hole to yourself if you don’t kick them out ASAP.

OP’s sister needs to kick out her freeloading brother and girlfriend!