Imagine having your parents buy you an apartment near your university campus, only for them to force you to live with your party-loving sibling. That’s what happened to one sister, who found solace in her quiet apartment until her younger brother moved in and turned it into party central. After trying to resolve the issue with her parents and brother, she decided to move out and find her own peace. But now, her brother’s wild parties are causing trouble, and her parents are asking her to return.
A Peaceful Apartment
The Introvert’s Paradise
Enter the Party Brother
Apartment Turned Party Central
Moving Out for Peace ️
The Big Move
Parents’ Reaction
Standing Her Ground
Parents’ Plea
Big Sister Duties?
Cops Shut Down Party
Feeling Guilty
Not the Asshole?
Sister’s Dilemma: Return to Party Central or Stay Away?
Caught between her parents’ expectations and her own need for peace, this sister moved out of the apartment her parents bought for her when her brother turned it into party central. Now, her brother’s wild ways are causing trouble, and her parents want her to return and help him. But she’s not willing to sacrifice her own well-being for her brother’s reckless behavior. Is she in the wrong, or is she simply standing up for herself? Let’s see what the internet thinks of this situation…
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“Your parents want to spoil their son but blame you for the consequences of their shitty parenting. You are 100% right to wash your hands of it.”
NTA – You’re not your brother’s mother, let your parents handle it
NTA for moving out; parents blame you for brother’s actions
“NTA. Your parents bought the condo knowing you weren’t social and thought this would be a great solution. Even though its your brother, if he acts worse than a roommate in the dorm’s it makes no sense that this would work for you. If I understand correctly you offered to move back in if he agreed to no parties. That is more than fair on your part.”
“NTA. Why should you have to parent your younger brother? “
NTA. Brother’s wild parties threaten future. Sister’s advice ignored.
NTA. Brother’s wild parties made living in gifted apartment uncomfortable
“NTA. You’re not your brother’s keeper. The very definition of a boundary.”
NTA. Congrats on your independence! Don’t babysit your brother
NTA Brother’s wild parties caused problems, parents failed to rein him in
NTA for not involving cops. Parents can evict & rent.
NTA. Parents blame you for brother’s failures. Sexism and hypocrisy.
Parents expect you to clean up your brother’s messes? NTA!
Stand your ground! Don’t let your parents control your life
NTA for leaving a wild party-filled apartment. Good for you!
Taking control of your own future and prioritizing your studies!
NTA, you made the right move! Don’t go back to babysit your brother
Moving out for mental health and studies, not responsible for brother’s actions.
“NTA-your brother is fully responsible for this mess. Not sure why your parents coddle him, but I’m glad you declined moving back in because at that point in the story, I was getting very nervous. He is not your child; you should not be taking on parenting him. Edited to add: If your brother drops out, you can help protect your parents from the financial loss by moving back into the apartment IF your brother is required to move back home. Your arrangement with the uni is probably on a semester basis, so this is at least feasible. Your parents are having a hard time accepting that they failed your brother as parents. Hopefully, he grows up soon.”
NTA. Don’t let your brother’s partying ruin your future
NTA warned about brother’s party behavior, parents need to intervene
