Sister Invites Kids to Birthday Trip, Woman Cancels Plans

Picture this: you’ve planned a relaxing, kid-free birthday trip with your boyfriend to San Diego, and you’re looking forward to some much-needed adult time. But then, your older sister invites herself and her husband, and suddenly the whole family is coming along, kids and all! Talk about a vacation hijacking! Our birthday girl finds herself in quite the predicament, and she’s wondering if she’s being selfish for wanting to cancel the trip and escape the chaos. Let’s dive into this family drama and see what unfolds!

Birthday Trip Planning ✈️

Childcare Arrangements

Sister’s Request ‍♀️

Family Group Chat Surprise

Baby on Board?

“Us All” Clarification

Hijacking History

Canceling Plans

Birthday Weekend Priorities

Sister’s Reaction

Guilt or A**hole? ‍♀️

Birthday Trip Hijacked by Sister’s Family Invasion! ‍ ‍ ‍

Our birthday girl (27F) planned a kid-free trip to San Diego with her boyfriend (31M) to celebrate her special day. They have 4 kids between them and made sure to arrange childcare and backup plans. However, her older sister (33F) invited herself, her husband, and the rest of the family, including all the kids, turning the adults-only getaway into a full-blown family vacation! Our birthday girl, wanting to enjoy her weekend without being bothered for snacks and potty breaks, decided to cancel the trip. But now, her sister is accusing her of being selfish and questioning her parenting. Is she really being an a**hole, or is this just the guilt that comes with trying to do something nice for herself? Let’s see what the internet thinks of this situation… ️‍♀️

NTA. People who hijack other people’s vacations are a**holes

Woman cancels sister’s kid-invited trip, receives NTA support

Woman stands up for herself against entitled sister in-law

Woman defends cancelling trip and plans to go elsewhere. ‍♀️

Come to San Diego, Disney is in Anaheim! NTA

Politely declining sister’s invite to kid’s birthday, keep vacation plans.

Enjoy a child-free vacation with your bf, you’re NTA

NTA, take your own child-free trip and enjoy your plans

Taking a couples trip is healthy for a relationship ❤️

‍♀️ Can’t argue with that grammar critique, but also YNTA.

Don’t let your sister jank you around! NTA

Don’t let her hijack your plans. But why invite her?

Fly away without guilt! NTA for keeping plans.

NTA but punctuation needed!

NTA: Sister wanted free babysitting, parents need relaxation too

Redditor calls out lack of punctuation, gets upvoted

Redditor called out for lack of punctuation in post

Grammar police strikes, but still supports adults-only birthday trip ‍♀️

Book a solo trip and forget about the bad company. ✈️

Go on your trip, sis! NTA. Mommy martyr needs boundaries

Local recommends San Diego spots, advises calling sister out.

The commenter suggests a polite message to clarify birthday plans.

User defends OP’s actions, calls out previous comment with YTA.

Mom defends solo trip, claims NTA despite judgemental sister.

Importance of planning alone time for parents ‍

Entitled sister cancels birthday trip, insults childfree lifestyle.

Child-free holiday entitlement! Sister’s family can enjoy their trip.

NTA defends against friend moving entire trip, geographic inaccuracy

Don’t let entitled friends ruin your vacation! You’re NTA

Childfree advocate sparks debate on taking kids everywhere

Suggests alternative plan to canceling whole trip.

Grammar police spotted in the comments

Take the trip, stick to your plan, don’t entertain them.

Celebrate your birthday, take a break from parenting

Canceling plans with awful sister. NTA wins this round.

Commenter calls out lack of punctuation and suggests alternative solution.

Formatting aside, comment says YTA but replies say NTA

Take charge of your birthday trip and prioritize self-care!

Woman defends herself for cancelling birthday trip with kids.

Parents deserve a break too! Sister was wrong to hijack.

Sneaky revenge plan for cancelled birthday trip

Canceling plans, taking grammar classes, and going on a trip

Think twice before inviting unreliable people on your trips

Set boundaries without guilt and enjoy your private plans

Next time, keep your travel plans a secret

NTA – Sister can’t hijack your birthday trip with her kids

Parental freedom of choice defended!

Setting boundaries with family trips

San Diego and Disneyland are different vacations. NTA comment.

Supportive comment for mom’s need for a break

Stick to original plan with original guest for drama-free vacation

Taking a break from kids is normal Cutting off sister justified

Choosing San Diego over Disneyland: NTA or entitled sister?