Sister-in-Law’s Kids Left Out: Who’s to Blame?

Family dynamics can be complicated, especially when it comes to the relationships between in-laws. One woman found herself in the middle of a family feud after her sister-in-law made it clear that she was not considered an aunt to her children. Fast forward a few years, and the sister-in-law’s kids are now feeling left out and hurt. Who’s really to blame in this situation? Let’s dive into the story and find out.

The Wedding Bells Ring

The Aunt Label Denied ‍ ‍ ❌

A Fun and Generous Aunt

A Different Story for SIL’s Kids

Keeping Her Distance ‍♀️

Jealousy and Hurt Emerge

Pointing Fingers

Reaping What You Sow

Family’s Reaction

A Family Torn Apart: Who’s the Real Victim?

After years of being excluded from her sister-in-law’s children’s lives, one woman is now being blamed for the hurt and jealousy her nieces and nephews feel. The sister-in-law had made it clear that she was not considered an aunt, causing a rift in the family. Now, as the children see their cousins enjoying the perks of having a fun and generous aunt, they can’t help but feel left out. The blame game has begun, but who’s really at fault here? Let’s see what the internet has to say about this tangled web of family drama. ️‍♀️

Woman defends herself against family’s judgment for respecting boundaries. ‍♀️

Following instructions to not be an aunt, NTA wins!

SIL wants it both ways, hope her kids reach out. NTA

Let the kids decide their own relationship with you!

In-law playing favorites, but OP not to blame.

Respecting boundaries is key, NTA

Professional strength consequences for excluding nieces and nephews.

Navigating family drama: You’re not the a**hole here

Being NTA, OP suggests being open to SIL’s kids independently.

Excluded sister-in-law’s kids, but open to reconciliation and inclusion

NTA for not wanting to do things for SIL’s kids.

Curious about the backstory and family dynamics

Sibling jealousy? NTA, be open to relationship with kids later

Curious if SIL treats others the same.

Perfectly followed rules, toxic sister-in-law, time to move on.

Aunt excluded by in-laws for supporting LGBTQ rights

Empathetic comment suggests building a relationship with neglected kids ❤️

Setting boundaries can be tough, but NTA for following them.

Sassy suggestion for revenge with a touch of creativity

SIL sees you as a service provider, not a family member

Advocating for children’s healthy relationships, despite family drama.

Defending against aggressive behavior, NTA

Aunt blocked from knowing kids, blamed for not knowing them. NTA

Maintain distance from disrespectful sister-in-law, NTA

SIL’s parenting choices caused family distance. NTA for respecting boundaries.

Respecting boundaries doesn’t make you the a**hole

SIL sets double-bind, commenter NTA. Drama avoided

Explaining the dynamics of aunts and uncles ‍ ‍ to clueless folks ‍♀️

Equal treatment impossible, NTA. ‘She reaped what she sowed’

Being a great aunt doesn’t require being a doormat

Respecting boundaries is key to avoiding drama with in-laws.

Auntie’s favoritism sparks debate over family dynamics

NTA for respecting sister-in-law’s wishes on relationship boundaries.

Respectful NTA offers to build relationship with sister-in-law’s kids

Being a loving aunt is not overstepping, but following her wishes.

Boundaries set, but is it fair to expect one-sided generosity? NTA

OP is NTA and should reach out to sister-in-law’s kids

Respecting boundaries and still getting blamed? That’s some BS.

Sister-in-law plays victim after treating person like garbage. NTA.

SIL’s family dynamics questioned for future generations.

Teaching kids to ignore family backfires on sister-in-law

Suggests extending an olive branch to sister-in-law’s kids. NTA.

SIL’s kids suffer, but NTA. Hopefully they’ll reconnect later.

Encouraging response to NTA comment advocating for building relationships with kids.

NTA empathizes with kids, suspects sister-in-law’s motives.

SIL’s ‘stupid games’ cost her relationship with your family. NTA.

Family’s silence on SIL’s abuse is shameful. NTA.

Sarcastic NTA comment on sister-in-law’s hypocrisy.

Roommate drama, go no contact and focus on the kids. NTA

NTA! SIL is TA, but OP is a great aunt

Ignore the sister-in-law causing jealousy and hurt. NTA

In-laws’ opinion on cousins left out? Any family relationships exist?

Agreeing with the commenter’s stance and advice.

Navigating toxic family dynamics is a losing game

Navigating boundaries with difficult sister-in-law, no easy solution. ‍♀️

OP tries to make amends with SIL’s kids, but gets cursed at

Interesting cultural differences in family titles ‍ ‍ ‍

Divorced aunt maintains relationship with SIL’s kids. Heartwarming ❤

Husband’s role in SIL’s kids being left out explored

Curious about OP’s SO’s role and SIL’s accountability. Context needed.

Encouraging solution for treating kids equally.

Having more loving adults in kids’ lives is always good ❤

Being a great aunt and handling jealousy like a boss!

Sister-in-law’s odd behavior raises suspicions. Not your fault.

Curiosity about the sister-in-law’s hatred sparks discussion.

Aunt stands up for her nieces and nephews. Truth hurts.