Ever been part of a tight-knit group of friends that suddenly gets disrupted by a new member? Our protagonist, a single mom of two, finds herself in this exact situation. She’s built a strong support system with other moms from her kids’ daycare, but when a new dad enters the scene, things take a dramatic turn. With her past experiences making her uncomfortable around men, she’s hesitant to include him in their group chat and play dates. But is she being unreasonable? Let’s dive into her story and see what unfolds…
Single Mom’s Friend Group

Play Dates and Support

Therapy and Friends ♀️

New Kids and Dad

Dad’s Small Talk Attempts ️

Group Chat Dilemma

Uncomfortable with Dad’s Inclusion

Request for a Separate Chat

Divided Opinions

Defending the Dad ️

Accused of Being Difficult

Excluded from Play Date

Confronting the Moms

Accusations of Exclusion ♀️

Friend Group Divided

Dad Drama Divides Mom Group ️
Our single mom protagonist has a solid group of mom friends from her kids’ daycare. But when a new dad starts picking up his kids and tries to join their group chat, she gets uncomfortable. She asks the other moms to keep a separate chat without the dad, causing a rift in the group. Some moms agree with her, while others defend the dad, saying he’s a nice guy and shouldn’t be excluded. ♀️ The situation escalates when her child is left out of a play date with the new dad’s kids. The moms call her out for trying to exclude the dad, and now their once-harmonious group is divided. Let’s see what people think about this dramatic situation…
Setting boundaries is important, but trying to control the group is not.

User calls single mom YTA for excluding new dad from group

Parenting roles should not determine social circles.

Single mom called out for excluding new single dad friend.

Mom excluded herself and her kids from playdates

Don’t be hypocritical, include the new dad and his kids.

Excluding single dads: YTA and marginalizes the kids.

Harsh reply to single mom’s behavior. Yikes

Single mom excluded from friend group for insulting new dad. YTA.

Gender-based exclusion due to trauma: YTA according to comment.

Parent commenter is called out for not giving the new dad a chance

Gatekeeping dad from friend group based on gender? YTA.

User calls out single mom’s exclusionary behavior.

Mom called out for hypocrisy in friend group. YTA.

Mom called out for excluding new dad’s kids. YTA verdict.

New dad excluded from friend group: YTA for not getting to know him

A scathing comment about OP’s behavior, ending with a YTA vote.

Exclusion of new dad in friend group: YTA, you shot yourself in the foot ♀️

Defending stepdad leads to YTA accusation.

A comment calls out the single mom for being selfish

Excluding someone and their child is mean girl behavior

Excluding kids raised by a man? YTA according to comment.

Parent group is for all genders. YTA for excluding him.

Mom gets called out for excluding new dad and his kids

New dad wants to join group and share info, YTA says no. Who’s fair?

Mom faces judgment for excluding dad and his kids. YTA.

Single mom receives YTA judgement for excluding single dad from group.

Single mom called out for behavior towards new dad in group

Excluding someone based on gender is not okay. YTA.

YTA for hating men and ruining the group dynamic. ♀️

User calls out single mom’s hypocrisy and offers support ❤️

Single mom faces backlash for gender bias towards single dad

Single mom faces backlash for excluding new dad in group

Mom criticized for letting past trauma affect kids’ friendships ♀️

Receiving harsh judgement and being called a hypocrite

Mom feels excluded, but friend group is being respectful. YTA.

Gender bias? YTA gets called out for mistrusting male friend.

Single mom criticized for excluding new single dad friend from group

Single mom’s trauma clouds judgement in friend group conflict

Single mom urged to show grace and give the new dad a chance

Exclusion double standard – YTA comment with no replies

Fiery response to sexist comment with a hint of karma

Exclude new dad, expect friend group to ignore him? YTA

User calls out single mom for excluding new dad in friend group

Male perspective defends new dad’s exclusion from friend group.

Gender bias accusation sparks debate among moms in group

Ouch! The comment tells it like it is

Navigating changing dynamics in friend group with new male addition.

Gender-based exclusion is wrong. YTA according to commenter.

Mom called out for excluding new dad’s kids. YTA verdict.

Exclusion backfires! YTA gets taste of own medicine

A dad’s perspective on exclusion in parenting circles. ♂️

A blunt comment on sexism and emotional baggage in friendships.

Mom gets called out for negativity in friend group

YTA called out for gender discrimination, but no replies.

A comment calling out the original poster’s exclusionary behavior

Excluding kids for a new dad, fair or not? ♀️

YTA for excluding a new dad from friend group

Single mom called immature for not supporting new dad in group

User calls out single mom for being hypocritical and controlling

Single mom gets called out for being selfish and AH

User accuses single mom in friend group of being unreasonable YTA.

User calls out OP for being the a**hole, but offers understanding.

A fiery YTA comment shuts down a single mom’s argument

Single mom called out for excluding dad from friend group.

User calls out hypocrisy in excluding new dad, gets backlash

Excluding a dad from a parental group? YTA

YTA: Commenter calls out single mom for excluding new dad from group.

Exclusion based on gender is wrong

Single mom loses support from friends after new dad’s arrival

User urges single mom to reconsider stance against new dad

Not consistent with preferences: YTA comment left unchallenged

Friend group calls out YTA for hypocritical behavior

Mom’s exclusion of new dad backfires, commenters call her YTA

Overcoming fear of men, YTA but seek therapy

A harsh YTA verdict with a side of parenting critique

User called out for being the a**hole, with humor

Harsh reply to single mom’s struggle for support

New dad gets called out for doing the right thing

YTA for excluding new dad. Don’t judge without knowing situation.

Don’t let your trauma affect other’s lives. YTA

YTA comment suggests therapy and parenting concerns.

Single mom receives tough love for excluding new SAHD friend.
