Being pregnant can be an emotional rollercoaster, and having a supportive partner can make all the difference. But what happens when that support seems to be slipping away? One woman found herself in a tough spot when her boyfriend, who promised to be there every step of the way, left her to fend for herself for an important appointment. Let’s dive into this heart-wrenching story and see if she’s justified in feeling let down.
The Pregnancy Journey Begins

Promises Made

The Driving Dilemma

Long Day, Long Night

Morning Appointment

Sleepy Struggles

Frustration Mounts

His Sharp Response

Feeling Hurt and Alone

Broken Promises?

Hormones and Heartache

Is She Justified in Feeling Let Down?
This mom-to-be is feeling the weight of her partner’s broken promises. While she understands his long work hours, she can’t help but feel hurt and alone when he fails to follow through on his commitment to be there for her during her pregnancy. As she sits alone at her appointment, she wonders if she’s justified in her feelings or if she’s just being overly emotional due to her pregnancy hormones. Let’s see what the internet has to say about this delicate situation…
Parenthood is 24/7, but is he wrong for expecting more? NTA

Expecting your partner to follow through on commitments

Expecting partner to read your mind? ESH in this situation ♀️

Expectations vs empathy: Commenter deems both parties at fault.

Communication is key in a stressful situation

Sympathy for overworked partner, but pregnant woman still stranded

Understanding the root of her feelings of isolation

Expecting mother criticized for not being mobile, both parties at fault.

Parenting requires teamwork and compromise, NAH need to communicate better
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Expecting partner to attend every appointment? YTA according to comment.

Both sides at fault? Commenter criticized for lack of independence.

Pregnant woman’s boyfriend bails on appointment, commenters sympathetic towards him

Engaging caption: Commenter advises pregnant woman to communicate and plan better.

Is the partner generally helpful or is this a pattern?

Advice for a pregnant woman to be more self-sufficient
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Pregnant woman left stranded for appointment, husband didn’t keep promise ♂️

Expecting someone to keep their word isn’t wrong

Pregnant woman seeks advice, realizes hormones make everything heightened

Redditor receives harsh judgement for not having a license
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Partner not helping with baby preparations, NTA for being upset

Expecting empathy or being entitled? The debate continues.

Partner breaks promise, NTA for expecting better treatment

Compromise suggested after disagreement over Uber and long shift

Communication is key, maybe try a softer approach next time

Expecting respect and support from the father, NTA

Pregnant woman called out for expecting too much from partner

Pregnancy is overwhelming, communication and grace are key

Communication is key. ️ A little empathy goes a long way.

Equal responsibility for fathers, NTA for expecting more

ESH- Commenter calls out unpreparedness of couple for parenthood

Sleep talking or not, it’s not an excuse for his behavior
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Pregnancy hormones can be tough, but missing 2 appointments isn’t bad

Understanding partner’s exhaustion but valid for feeling upset

Father breaks promise to pregnant woman for appointment. NTA.

User calls pregnant woman TA for not being independent.

Engaging comment advising to pick battles carefully and not be a doormat

Learning to drive is important for a parent’s independence

ESH, but communication and a system can help prevent burnout

Trust is key in relationships, especially when co-parenting.

Expecting a ride and being let down, NTA wins.

NTA but communication and teamwork are key in this situation

Partner bailing on promised ride to appointment is rude.

Boyfriend said rude things half-asleep, needs to apologize.

Pregnancy hormones or not, expecting basic consideration isn’t wrong

Expecting a ride from a friend isn’t wrong, but plan ahead

Stay-at-home mom criticized for expecting support from working husband

Agreed to take her then flipped? NTA, communication is key

Expecting a baby? Have a serious talk about parenting duties

Expecting too much? YTA for wanting a tired driver.

Supportive comment reminds pregnant woman to relax and enjoy lunch

Expectations vs Reality: A New Father’s Learning Curve

Partner’s job requires attention, YTA for expecting more. ♀️

Secure transportation ahead of time to avoid being stranded. NAH.

Expecting partner to take you to appointment? NTA, he’s AH.

Partner’s rude behavior towards pregnant woman’s appointment – NTA
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ESH. He shouldn’t have snapped, but empathy is key.

ESH: Commenter acknowledges the husband’s fatigue but suggests better planning.

Expecting partner to attend all appointments? YTA according to comment.

OP updates post after receiving hurtful DMs, partner apologizes.

Two immature parents-to-be leave pregnant woman stranded for appointment

Could it be a case of ‘tired husband’ syndrome?

Partner works hard and deserves a break. Compromise is key

Verbal abuse due to exhaustion, a red flag for parenting skills

Partner’s exhaustion understandable but snapping not okay. Communication is key.

Partner’s responsibility to support pregnant partner. NTA

Expectations vs. reality of having a baby ♀️
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Expecting first child, couple advised to take parenting classes together and prioritize child.

Public transport is better, eco-friendly and reliable. Anxiety doesn’t make you AH

Expecting partner’s support, left stranded for appointment. Is it justified?

Pregnant woman stranded for appointment, but NAH in this case

Supportive reply encourages coping skills and understanding partner’s job demands.

Expecting every single appointment may be unrealistic, but communication is key. ESH.

Perspective on the situation and advice for the pregnant woman

Advice for pregnant woman to be self-sufficient and understanding partner.

Encouraging words for stressed out expectant parents

Having a supportive partner is important, but not necessary. ESH.

Advice for new parents, it’s a work in progress

Expecting your partner to attend appointments is reasonable, but prioritize work.

Understanding and empathy for both sides. It happens to everyone.

Navigating parenting roles and expectations with empathy and communication
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Pregnant woman disappointed by partner’s absence, needs to address anxiety.

Debate on whether pregnant woman is justified in feeling abandoned.

Partnering up in parenting is key for a successful family

Communication is key in relationships. Partner should have been clearer.

OP gets called out for expecting too much from overworked partner

Being on-call is stressful, YTA for expecting too much.

Supportive comment section with heartwarming messages ❤
