Buckle up, folks! We’ve got a juicy tale of surprise pregnancies, romantic proposals, and one seriously cynical sister’s boyfriend. When our leading lady and her man decide to share their joyous news with the fam, Ryan (the resident party pooper) just can’t help but rain on their parade. ️ Brace yourselves for a wild ride filled with tears, cheers, and some seriously infuriating ‘Ryan-isms’!
Surprise Pregnancy & Proposal!
![Image credit: [deleted] | [deleted]](https://static.diply.com/c8ffe3e7-d5bb-4ca5-b5fe-ac08371cb766.png)
A Proposal Months in the Making
![Image credit: [deleted] | [deleted]](https://static.diply.com/3bba3354-2472-4bf0-b9af-6202fb2f1c61.png)
Keeping the Secret… For Now
![Image credit: [deleted] | [deleted]](https://static.diply.com/01a7fa69-4731-4091-a5b6-06f0854866e7.png)
Tears of Joy & Congratulations
![Image credit: [deleted] | [deleted]](https://static.diply.com/c74c3325-ab96-4762-8711-94ea16d2ab30.png)
Enter Ryan, the Cynical Sister’s Boyfriend
![Image credit: [deleted] | [deleted]](https://static.diply.com/edf95210-9bc2-4c2b-b913-b96f0918c3ae.png)
Ryan’s Negative ‘Ryan-isms’
![Image credit: [deleted] | [deleted]](https://static.diply.com/6b8d88cc-fb72-4c35-9ec7-0886dc0ed9d1.png)
Focusing on the Positives Despite Ryan
![Image credit: [deleted] | [deleted]](https://static.diply.com/fd7c648a-d2a7-4680-90c2-74b1fee3ae49.png)
Ryan’s Offensive Private Message
![Image credit: [deleted] | [deleted]](https://static.diply.com/0ad7de90-c2cb-488b-a4a9-337a149d76eb.png)
No Need for a Prenup Here!
![Image credit: [deleted] | [deleted]](https://static.diply.com/a7377b05-700b-42a7-8b90-c66a9c05fe22.png)
The Confrontational Phone Call
![Image credit: [deleted] | [deleted]](https://static.diply.com/3b5decc7-272c-4b0d-9587-e892b4c8693b.png)
Ryan’s Infuriating Implication
![Image credit: [deleted] | [deleted]](https://static.diply.com/97db9a0d-874b-4884-ac7b-e721d8ce01a7.png)
Sister Demands an Apology
![Image credit: [deleted] | [deleted]](https://static.diply.com/e0caedc3-18f8-4513-ac02-96ba868a0f47.png)
♀️ Sister Plays the ‘Maturity’ Card
![Image credit: [deleted] | [deleted]](https://static.diply.com/ad774812-a2e0-42fd-80f8-8c4f6f0695df.png)
Sister’s Ultimatum: Apologize or Else!
![Image credit: [deleted] | [deleted]](https://static.diply.com/57135039-9832-45ac-9e6b-3b6f12d46ac1.png)
AITA for Standing My Ground?
![Image credit: [deleted] | [deleted]](https://static.diply.com/ab5ca399-08d6-4206-aff4-64ce28a91832.png)
Cynical Sister’s BF Ruins Pregnancy Announcement, Demands Apology!
Well, well, well… looks like Ryan’s cynical attitude has landed him in hot water! After spouting his negative ‘Ryan-isms’ during our leading lady’s pregnancy announcement and even suggesting a paternity test and prenup in a private message (the nerve! ), she finally confronts him, only to be told she’s “f–king exhausting” for calling out his BS. Now, her sister is demanding an apology, playing the maturity card despite Ryan being a whole 8 years older! ♀️ The internet is about to weigh in on this drama, and we can’t wait to see whose side they take! Grab your popcorn, folks, because this is about to get juicy!
Sister’s boyfriend is *exhausting* and out of line

Supportive comment stands up for OP’s wedding day

Supportive comment defends sister from terrible boyfriend

NTA. Brother-in-law steals thunder and wants paternity test, exhausting opinion.

Congratulations to Ryan on good news amidst nightmare couple drama

NTA defends rising divorce rates and criticizes sister’s boyfriend.
![Image credit: [deleted] | [deleted]](https://static.diply.com/8da07a3d-2718-4d37-acf0-680049e8225d.png)
Opinions validated by poll. NTA for calling out exhaustion.

Sister delivers a savage apology to her pregnant self
![Image credit: [deleted] | [deleted]](https://static.diply.com/4ac2f48f-f8db-49df-b78f-fa56ea882dbc.png)
Defending family moment against cynical BF earns NTA judgment

NTA defends sister against ‘cynical’ and abusive boyfriend

Pregnant sister stands up to toxic boyfriend. NTA
![Image credit: [deleted] | [deleted]](https://static.diply.com/55d34981-3be6-4f9b-a490-58037034db5f.png)
Not the a**hole for calling out toxic behavior

Polite disinvite to ethically opposed boyfriend

Supportive comment calls out toxic behavior towards OP’s pregnancy and engagement

Set boundaries for sister’s boyfriend at wedding or uninvite him

Being happy for others doesn’t mean you have to like babies

Sister’s BF is a sexist and exhausting nightmare

Congrats on the good news! NTA, he’s exhausting

NTA tells off disrespectful BF, advises against inviting to wedding.

Supportive comment, warns of potential toxicity in the relationship ❤️

NTA commenter shares insights on ‘brutally honest’ type; advises to disinvite.

Supportive commenter congratulates sister and slams her sister’s boyfriend

NTA. “Opinions are like a**holes – everyone has one.”
![Image credit: [deleted] | [deleted]](https://static.diply.com/b35fb1c5-0c95-4729-b411-f03ff0bd3d05.png)
NTA slams ‘asshat’ BF who didn’t ‘read the room’

NTA. Commenter calls out cynical boyfriend’s negativity on marriage
![Image credit: [deleted] | [deleted]](https://static.diply.com/50ad9a7e-ed4b-4abf-9d19-5d5b0dcde6d6.png)
Supportive commenters call out rude BF, hope for sister’s happiness ❤

Congratulations on the engagement and baby ♡♡. NTA, he ruined the happy moment with his cynical comments.

Supportive comment, congratulating and thanking OP for proving Ryan wrong!

Supportive comments praise maturity and slam boyfriend’s behavior

Cut ties with the idiot BF before your wedding

Defending against a cynical ex with a painful past.

Supportive comment congratulates OP and calls out disrespectful behavior

NTA commenter has no patience for hypocrites, BF sounds exhausting

Congrats on pregnancy. NTA. BF’s paternity test comment is unacceptable.
![Image credit: [deleted] | [deleted]](https://static.diply.com/d030de97-5f02-4205-9260-535c3b90f7e7.png)
Congrats on pregnancy and engagement! NTA, Ryan was rude

Sister’s boyfriend is the worst and doesn’t take criticism well

Supportive comment calls out Ryan’s terrible behavior and questions sister’s taste.

Supportive comment defending sister and advising to exclude ‘douchebag’ BF

Defending sister against cynical and hurtful boyfriend’s comments.

Bride-to-be’s sister shuts down ‘douche’ BF’s opinion on marriage

NTA defends herself from sexist partner, commenters agree

A relatable comment about an ex named Ryan

Supportive comment advocates for consequences towards disrespectful BF.

Congrats on the engagement and baby! Ignore the cynical jerk

User calls out toxic BF, congratulates OP on pregnancy
![Image credit: [deleted] | [deleted]](https://static.diply.com/f33f6082-973a-4ec1-8779-141a1e5e950d.png)
NTA shuts down cynical and mean-spirited BF

“F**king exhausting” is the nicest way you could have handled it.

Pregnant sister rightfully calls out bf’s inappropriate behavior

Complimentary comment applauds OP’s kindness and patience towards hostile BF.

Opinionated BF gets put in his place by sister’s defender

NTA and the sister should wise up

NTA stands up to ‘lower than low’ Ryan’s cynical behavior

Standing up to disrespectful partner earns NTA judgment

Agreeing with the commenter’s frustration with ‘Ryan’

Set a boundary and let sister decide whether to attend
![Image credit: [deleted] | [deleted]](https://static.diply.com/d6f0a099-698f-4f61-bcfd-9d34e0eefc33.png)
Sister shuts down boyfriend’s anti-marriage views with cold stats

Sister’s boyfriend is exhausting and an a**hole

Being honest vs being a dick: learn the difference, Ryan

NTA gets tired of dealing with exhausting and butthurt boyfriend

NTA shuts down BF’s negativity towards other couples’ pregnancies

Not the a**hole for standing up to toxic boyfriend

Supportive comment congratulating OP and calling out ridiculous behavior

Exhausting and manipulative boyfriend called out for his awful comments

Stand your ground and don’t apologize for speaking up!

Congratulations! Don’t apologize. Ryan is a huge a**hole
