Buckle up, folks! We’ve got a juicy tale of workplace drama that’s sure to get your blood boiling! When a devastating miscarriage leads to an extended leave of absence, tensions rise and accusations fly in this customer service center. Our protagonist, a young manager, finds herself caught between a rock and a hard place as she tries to balance compassion with the demands of a ruthless corporate machine. Will she be able to find a solution that satisfies everyone, or will she be branded the ultimate a**hole? Let’s dive in and find out!
Drama at the Customer Service Center!

Tragedy Strikes: Cindy’s Miscarriage

Corporate’s Stance on Bereavement Leave

⏰ 12 Weeks Later: Time to Return to Work?

Understaffed and Overwhelmed!

The Boss’s Inquiry

Cindy’s Job Reassignment

Cindy’s Angry Accusation

Trying to Find a Compromise ️

Feeling Awful About the Situation

✋ Edit: Reduced Hours Offered ️

The Verdict: Is Our Manager the A**hole?
Well, well, well… it seems our manager found herself in quite the pickle! Trying to balance the needs of her understaffed department with the emotional turmoil of her grieving employee was no easy feat. She pushed for compassion, offered reduced hours, and even managed to save Cindy’s job (albeit with a pay cut and a new role). But was it enough? ♀️ Cindy certainly didn’t think so, hurling accusations of selfishness and laziness. But let’s be real, folks – at some point, the show must go on! So, what does the internet jury have to say about this workplace drama? ⚖️ Let’s take a look at the top responses and see if we can reach a verdict!
Encouraging professional boundaries and empathy for coworker’s loss ❤️

Employee receives support for her decision to demote her colleague.

Boss saves employee’s job after tragedy and still gets criticized

Insensitive comment about miscarriage, lacks empathy and compassion.

Insensitive comment suggests mental health stigma. YTA vibes.

Balancing compassion and departmental needs can be tough

12 weeks is generous, but therapy may be needed ♀️

Supportive comment acknowledges effort and lack of control in decision.

Boss can’t be a friend, did all they could, NTA

Logical explanation for the demotion, NTA. Rest well, OP
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HR employee balances compassion and business in tough situation

Childless boss avoids being TA in sensitive situation

Employee not at fault for demotion after pregnancy loss.
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NTA. Taking extended time off for an early miscarriage isn’t justifiable.

NTA for not throwing the department under the bus

Compassionate response to pregnant employee’s demotion.

Empathetic comment defends pregnant employee’s emotional needs

Balancing workloads is tough – NTA for demotion decision.

Balancing empathy and team dynamics in difficult situations.

NTA – Reasonable time given, she needs therapy before reapplying.

Employee on extended leave after loss demoted – NTA or ESH?

Compassionate response to grief in the workplace ❤

Insensitive comment disregards employee’s pregnancy loss and struggles.

Prioritizing work over personal relationships: NTA wins the day.

NTA commenter shares personal miscarriage experience and disagrees with excessive bereavement leave.

Empathetic yet pragmatic response to a grieving employee.

Compassionate boss faced with unfortunate reality, NAH in situation

Insensitive comment on miscarriage and work, lacks empathy.
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Legal advice given for employee’s rights during difficult time.

Complimenting the boss for being empathetic and understanding.

Insensitive comment implies Cindy is milking her loss for sympathy

NTA. Compassionate but practical approach to employee’s needs.

Boss prioritizes team performance over personal relationships during tough times. NAH

Concerns about mental health coverage for grieving employee

Employee with miscarriage accommodated by employer, supports OP’s decision.

Manager praised for efforts to support employee after loss

Insensitive comment lacking empathy towards employee’s miscarriage.

Compassionate boss offers support, suggests seeking help for mental health.

Employee receives support, but concern over mental health raised
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Pregnant woman questions extended leave after pregnancy loss at 7 weeks

Expose the liar: NTA, report to HR and your boss

Resilience praised, privilege acknowledged in tough love NTA comment.

Boss demoting pregnant employee, comment defends boss’s decision

Showing empathy and offering support during tough times.

Balancing compassion and business can be tough

Employee not the a**hole for being demoted after loss. Replies supportive.

Supportive comment encourages seeking help after tragic loss.

Supportive commenters console OP for tough situation with pregnant employee.

Sometimes tough decisions are out of our hands ✊

NTA. Helpful advice on FMLA, and boss’s response was uncalled for

Employee not at fault, boss must prioritize company needs

Sometimes being a boss means making tough decisions. NTA
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NTA, but HR should have called Cindy. File a complaint.
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Manager helps employee after loss, gets punished. NTA wins

Insensitive comment with no empathy

Supportive comment validates OP’s actions and suggests therapy for employee.

Empathy for the employee’s loss and mental health struggles.

Empathetic NTA comment supports manager’s decision with personal experience.

Empathetic comment supports boss’s decision to demote and offers NTA verdict.

Boss should have been firmer, employee lucky to have job

Empathetic comment about employer’s reasonable maternity leave policy.

Balancing empathy and work responsibilities can be tough ✨
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Boss accuses employee of being selfish and lazy. NTA

Boss criticized for demoting pregnant employee after miscarriage. NTA defended.

Compassionate middle manager follows policy, employee may need therapy. ❤️

12 weeks is generous, she’s taking advantage. NTA

Compassionate comment acknowledges grieving employee’s needs and business operations.

User thinks Cindy is the a**hole and needs a reality check ♀️

Insensitive comment about grieving employee with no sympathy.

Blunt NTA comment suggests lack of sympathy for grieving employee.

Pregnant employee told too soon? NTA or humble bragging?

Miscarriage is traumatizing, but reduced hours and position change offered. NTA.

Boss not at fault for demotion due to employee’s miscarriage

Employee takes too much time off, boss is fair. NTA.
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Empathy but reality check: NTA; miscarriage isn’t excuse for work delay

Compassionate advice for grieving employee coping with miscarriage. ❤️

HR worker defends company policy, calls pregnant employee TA.

Compassionate boss goes extra mile for grieving employee. NTA.

Insensitive comment about miscarriage, no replies.

Boss takes advantage of employee’s efforts, NTA for leaving.

Boss is the a**hole. TDI could help extend leave on mental health grounds.

Compassionate boss deals with difficult employee. NTA
