Picture this: You’re an 18-year-old pool manager, responsible for the safety of everyone who dips their toes into the water. It’s a sunny day, children are splashing around, and life seems pretty good. But then, you spot a small boy in the deep end, struggling to stay afloat. His mother, sitting on the other side of the pool, isn’t paying attention. What do you do? ♀️
Meet the Characters: The Pool Manager and the Negligent Mother ♀️

K’s Struggles in the Pool ♂️

A Mother’s Unusual Decision ♀️

A Dangerous Situation Emerges

The Mother’s Stubborn Stance

The Consequences of Negligence

The Pool Manager’s Defense ️

The Aftermath: Neighborhood Uproar

A Pool, A Child, and A Mother’s Negligence: A Recipe for Controversy
In a shocking turn of events, a seemingly ordinary day at the community pool turned into a hotbed of controversy. The pool’s young manager found herself in the center of a storm, after she was forced to call the police on a mother who refused to supervise her autistic son in the deep end. Despite two near-drowning incidents, the mother remained adamant that her son could swim alone. The incident sparked outrage, with some accusing the pool staff of ableism and racism. The pool manager, however, stands by her decision, stating that child safety is her top priority, regardless of the child’s abilities or race. The internet is buzzing with opinions on this heated situation. Let’s dive into what people have to say… ♂️ ️
Mom neglects son at pool, sparks online controversy

NTA. Former lifeguard warns of serious drowning risks. Parental responsibility.

NTA. Neglectful mom risks child’s safety at the pool ♂️

Mom denies danger, commenter shares traumatic childhood incident. NTA.

NTA. Parents should watch their own kids at the pool

Parent’s negligence sparks debate on lifeguard responsibilities ♂️

NTA: Concerned mother defends son’s safety, faces ableist accusations.

Mother accuses lifeguards of negligence and racism, sparking confusion and backlash

Safety first! NTA keeping everyone safe ♂️

Neglectful parent accuses commenter of racism and ableism. NTA.

NTA – Mother criticized for not supervising 4-year-old in pool ♂️

♂️ NTA. Irresponsible parent blames you if child drowns.

Pool safety debate: NTA, it’s a pool not day care!

Dark suspicions arise about mother’s intentions with autistic son
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Mother’s neglectful behavior at the pool sparks heated debate

NTA. CPS should get involved. Pool incident may indicate neglect at home too.

Safety concerns over 4-year-old swimming alone; floaties not provided

Lifeguard saves drowning kids while parents ignore, entitled people everywhere

Concerned commenter suggests calling social services for child’s safety
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NTA. Protecting him is your priority. Ignore the jerks on Facebook
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Heartbreaking negligence: Mother allows son to drown

Controversial comment sparks debate on child safety and discrimination

Parent ignored safety rules, banned from pool for endangering others

NTA. Mother’s negligence in pool safety sparks heated debate
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INFO: No pool ban allowed, sparks heated debate.

NTA: Fiery comment sparks heated debate

NTA: Standing up to public shaming for doing your job

Safety first! NTA calls out lack of supervision in pools ♂️

Shady motives? You’re NTA, but something’s fishy here…

Mom accused of wanting an accident, ignore Facebook rants
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NTA: Mother criticized for endangering non-swimming autistic child ♂️

NTA: Lifeguard faces unfair situation with uncooperative mother ♂️

NTA: Safety first! Keep an eye on your little one.

Heroic mom saves black and disabled child from drowning. NTA

NTA. Safety first!
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Former daycare worker shares fear and support for OP’s actions

Concerned commenter calls for intervention due to child neglect

Mother’s negligence sparks outrage over son’s safety. NTA, 100%

NTA: Pool manager stands firm on safety, calls out negligence

M’s false accusations dilute real racism. NTA had fair warning.
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Shocking negligence! How can you not watch your 4-year-old? NTA

Safeguarding her son: NTA suggests a simple life jacket solution

NTA defends herself, calls out misuse of race card

Harry Potter fan longs for a safe year at Hogwarts ⚡

Swimming skills and parental supervision: NTA, rules apply to all

Creating a record to prove a pattern of neglect

Wild stories from a former lifeguard: irresponsible parents and crack-smoking guests
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NTA, call CPS!
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NTA. Mother’s negligence and blame-shifting is a major concern

NTA! Mother neglects son’s safety, risking dry drowning. Good job reporting!

Strict pool safety rules in Australia, parent accused of laziness ♂️

“NTA. You’re not an a**hole for keeping that kid alive. “

NTA: Autistic child needs supervision while swimming. Concerning situation

Lifeguard stands firm against discrimination accusations, defends child’s safety.

Implement clear rules/tests to avoid accusations and ensure safety

Parenting debate: NTA lifeguard saves child, mom neglectful?

NTA. Safety first! Life jackets are a must around pools ♂️

Parent advocates for pool safety for her autistic child ♂️
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Water safety concerns spark discussion after recent tragedy ♂️

NTA- Safety first! Understanding limitations and supporting disabled individuals

“NTA.” – A clear-cut judgement with no room for debate.
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NTA – Pool staff are lifeguards, not babysitters. You made the right call.
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Mother criticized for not watching child at the pool ♂️

Former lifeguard explains common lack of supervision at pools ♂️
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NTA. Negligent mom puts child at risk, not your responsibility.

Safety first! NTA for prioritizing safety over skin color

Pool safety debate: Should lifeguards focus on one child only?
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Suggest life jacket or arm floats. Not the a**hole (NTA)

NTA. Life guards are there to help anyone in distress

Parent’s vigilance in keeping their child safe at the pool ♂️

Engaging in poolside fun with an autistic toddler ♂️

NTA. Escorted off premises, but CPS might be necessary
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Concerned commenter questions mother’s negligence at the pool ♂️

“NTA but seriously, what’s up with that rule in Australia? “

NTA: Dealing with entitled parents who disregard pool safety rules ♂️
