A daughter ‘s secret relationship with her friend for a decade is revealed only through a wedding invite, leaving her parents shocked and feeling betrayed. They had allowed the friend to sleep in their daughter’s bedroom despite her being gay, trusting their daughter’s assurance that she was straight. The parents are now questioning their attendance at the wedding, leading to a family feud over their decision. What would you do in their shoes? Share your thoughts on this complicated family situation.
Accepting a daughter’s friend as family despite their differences ❤️
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Parents find out daughter’s decade-long secret
When we put trust in our children, we expect them to be honest with us. But what happens when that trust is broken? A couple found out the hard way that they may not know their daughter as well as they thought. After allowing their daughter’s best friend to sleep over in her bedroom, they later found out that the two were in a secret relationship for over a decade. The couple felt completely betrayed and are now struggling with how to handle the upcoming wedding. Is it fair for them to be upset over something that happened ten years ago? Or should they just let it go and support their daughter’s happiness? Join the conversation and share your thoughts on this complicated situation.
Engage with the conflict of emotions before the wedding. ESH.
Daughter’s secret relationship hidden for 10 years shocks parents and friends
Daughter’s decade-long deception raises questions about her fears and motives
Parents’ lack of empathy for daughter’s fear of coming out
Daughter lied for 10 years, NTA for not attending wedding.
Discussing reasons behind daughter’s lie and the upcoming wedding.
Commenters suspect underlying homophobia from parents towards daughter.
Daughter came out via wedding invite. Be there to support her.
Daughter’s fake relationship: YTA or NTA? Complex situation explained.
Parent disapproves daughter’s relationship, YTA for not understanding her reasons
NTA expresses valid feelings towards daughter’s deception before wedding.
Parents ignore daughter’s reason for secrecy until after wedding
Did the parents’ reaction force their daughter to keep a secret?
Commenter shares their coming out experience and questions why the daughter would hide her sexuality for a decade. Replies show support and understanding.
Parent’s homophobic reaction to daughter’s wedding. Get over it
Curious comment sparks debate on hidden relationships
Possible underlying prejudice causing daughter to hide sexuality
Poor communication on both sides creates wedding drama.
Understanding why she hid her sexuality for so long ️
Empathy and understanding is key for reconciliation with daughter ❤️
Commenter suggests OP is TA due to underlying issues.
Parent’s reaction to daughter’s secret causes wedding drama
Why did the daughter keep it a secret?
Daughter’s delayed coming out leads to hurt and understanding
Daughter’s decade-long deception leads to NTA judgement and family tension
Parent’s lack of support caused daughter to hide her sexuality ️
Commenter and reply disagree with OP’s assumption about daughter’s friend.
Daughter’s decade long secret ends in homophobic fallout
Understanding a daughter’s fears when coming out as LGBT+ ️
Creating a safe space for kids to come out
Importance of respecting someone’s decision to come out ️
Wedding approval double standard? NTA thinks so
Parents refuse to attend daughter’s wedding after discovering her sexuality. YTA.
Daughter’s discomfort with friend’s sexuality leads to family drama.
Understanding the fear of coming out as queer.
Parent’s homophobia causes daughter to lie, apologize and support her ❤️
Sensitive question sparks potential family conflict ⚡
Curiosity arises as commenter questions missing details
Parent struggles with daughter’s secret 10-year relationship and wedding invitation.
Parental acceptance is crucial for queer children’s mental health.
Late coming out caused wedding drama, NTA for parents.
OP rightfully demands an apology for parents’ 10-year lie.
Delaying the talk about their relationship was a mistake
Parent defends decision to not allow s*x under their roof.
Daughter’s 10-year lie leads to wedding day drama. NTA confirmed.
Parent’s lack of acceptance leads to unfortunate timing.
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Last Updated on March 28, 2023 by Alfe Mercado