We’ve all been there: trying to balance our schedules with those of our friends, especially during these work-from-home times. But what happens when one friend wants to change plans and the other isn’t on board? In this story, our crafty protagonist finds herself in a sticky situation when her friend wants to switch their online craft course to Saturday mornings. Let’s dive into the details and see who’s being unreasonable.
Crafty Evenings: A New Routine

Husband Time vs. Craft Time ⏳

Why Not Saturdays?

Small Classes, Big Benefits

Sticking to Weekdays

Who’s Changing Plans?

Late Friday Nights

Sleep Matters

Veiled Remarks and Guilt Trips

Making Friends and Playing Games

Guilt and Pettiness

Craft Course Conflict: Who’s in the Right? ♀️
So, our craft-loving protagonist is caught in a dilemma: her friend wants to switch their online craft course from weekday evenings to Saturday mornings. However, our protagonist enjoys her Saturday morning lie-ins, has made friends in the weekday classes, and has a late-night Friday D&D game. Despite her friend’s insistence and guilt-tripping, she’s sticking to her guns. But is she being unreasonable, or is her friend asking too much? Let’s see what the internet thinks of this situation.
Friend demands change, but commenter says NTA and stay firm

Friend is creating drama, stick to your schedule and hobbies.
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NTA comment calls out friend’s inflexibility and hypocrisy.
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Friend flakes on arrangement, commenter not the a**hole.

Friend’s marriage affecting online class schedule. NTA or ESH?

Friend guilt-tripping OP over online class schedule, NTA.

Friend changed schedule, NTA for not changing commitments.

Just say no! ♀️ Don’t let manipulative friends guilt you.

Sleeping in on Saturdays and not changing schedule. NTA

Night owls unite! NTA stands up for sleeping in.

Balancing hobbies and relationships. NTA has a point.

Friend expects sacrifice but won’t do the same. NTA

NTA. Suggests calling out friend’s behavior publicly.

Maintaining relationships outside of class is important. NTA.

Judging someone’s marriage choices? Not cool

Flexible schedule suggestions for online class conflict.

Prioritizing marriage over platonic relationships: NTA, friend is TA.

Friend’s unwillingness to spend one evening without husband is unreasonable.

Friend makes unilateral change, expects unreasonable accommodation. NTA.

Flexible solution proposed for conflicting schedules in online classes.

Stick to your guns! Your friend’s choice shouldn’t affect you.

Friend bailed on online class, NTA for not changing schedule

Weekdays work better, friend is needy and codependent. NTA

Friend’s spouse dominates every evening, NTA suggests online class.

Single friend assumes married friend has more flexibility. NTA

Friend wants too much? NTA. Plus, D&D fans unite!

Friend has a conflict, but throwing a fit makes them TA

Friend’s demand to change class schedule causes tension

Maintaining schedule boundaries is important. NTA!

NTA shuts down entitled friend’s complaint in sassy comment

Respectful disagreement: Friend can’t force you to change schedule

Envious commenter admits NAH, but wishes for OP’s life

Friend wants change but NTA sets reasonable boundaries.

Friend is upset about her own choices, NTA. Also, what’s your DnD character?

Friend wants Saturday morning class, commenter says NTA.

Friend’s unreasonable demand leads to judgmental comments. NTA wins.

Spending time apart from your partner is healthy and valid. #NTA

Friend prioritizes husband over friend’s education. NTA stands firm.

No obligation to change schedule for friend. NTA

Changing schedules is fine, no need to rearrange for others.

Scheduling conflict turns into unnecessary drama. NTA wins.
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Suggest breaking the class into two evenings, be encouraging

Friend wants change in online class schedule, commenter says NTA.

Friend demands change, but commenter says NTA.

Friend bailed on original plan, NTA for sticking to schedule

Friend wants to do stuff with OP, but made a change without checking. OP is NTA but dismissive of friend.

Friend won’t sacrifice an hour for online class, NTA called co-dependent

A witty comment questioning the poster’s character sheet. NTA.

Embrace change and make new crafty friends! #NTA

Don’t let others manipulate or guilt you. Stand your ground.

User suggests compromise for friend’s online class time conflict

Discovering D&D online during COVID-19 isolation

Friend wants change, but commenter says NTA.

Friend’s request to change online class schedule is unreasonable. NTA.

Choose joy and let go of toxic friendships.

Commitment is commitment, being single doesn’t mean less responsibility.

Set boundaries without excuses: the greatest reddit advice

Friend wants help on her terms, but you’re NTA

Setting boundaries is important, don’t let guilt-trips ruin friendships

Setting boundaries with a demanding friend.

Assertive comment reminds OP to take control of their life

D&D night is sacred, friend can’t expect a schedule change

Choosing when to go to DnD, NTA for sticking to schedule

Friend’s priorities questioned in online class scheduling conflict.

Don’t be a supporting character in your friend’s movie! NTA

Crafty response shuts down friend’s unreasonable request.
