Nurse Ditches Toxic Mother-In-Law’s Chemo Rides: Heartless or Justified?

Imagine having a toxic mother-in-law who’s never been kind to you or your family. Now, imagine she’s diagnosed with cancer and suddenly needs your help. Do you put aside the past and offer your support, or do you let her face the consequences of her actions? One brave nurse found herself in this exact situation and made a tough decision. Let’s dive into her story and see if you think she made the right choice. ‍⚕️

A Strained Relationship

Family Ties Severed ✂️

Cancer Diagnosis

Taking Charge

Family Support

First Chemo Appointment ⏰

Rude Introductions

No Gratitude

Going the Extra Mile ‍♀️

Still No Gratitude

Husband’s Reaction

Reconsidering Her Help

The Big Question ❓

Edit for Clarity

Loyal to Her Husband

Nurse’s Dilemma: Help or Walk Away? ‍♀️

This devoted nurse found herself in a difficult situation when her toxic mother-in-law was diagnosed with cancer. Despite their strained relationship, she stepped up and helped with appointments, housekeeping, and more. But when her mother-in-law’s ungrateful and rude behavior continued, she began to question whether she should keep helping or pass the responsibility to her brother-in-law. With her husband’s support, she’s torn between her professional instincts and her own emotional well-being. What do you think? Should she continue to help or walk away? Let’s see what people have to say about this tough decision…

NTA- Nurse goes above and beyond for monster-in-law. Deserves a break

NTA for not taking toxic mother-in-law to chemo. Karma’s a b***h

NTA. Let the ‘real’ daughter-in-law take her to chemo.

Respect is key. NTA for not tolerating toxic behavior.

Putting your mental health first is not being heartless

Setting boundaries with toxic family members is important for self-care. ‍♀️

Setting boundaries with abusive family members

Not the a**hole for setting boundaries with toxic MIL.

OP is called out for disregarding abuse and reaping consequences.

Setting boundaries with toxic family during illness.

Setting boundaries with toxic mother-in-law during cancer treatment. NTA

Compassionate nurse stands up to toxic mother-in-law. NTA.

Standing up to toxic family members is never easy

Nurse defends decision to stop driving toxic MIL to chemo.

Nurse refuses toxic mother-in-law’s chemo rides. No regrets. ‍♀️

Empowering comment earns praise from fellow reader

Cutting off toxic family members: YTA or NTA?

Nurse refuses to take toxic mother-in-law to chemo appointments. NTA

Don’t let toxic family members take advantage of you.

Commenter questions if poster is a nurse or doormat

Standing up to toxic family after 20 years. #NTA

Setting boundaries with toxic family members is necessary for self-care.

Not the a**hole, but what led to this decision?

‍⚕️Nurse stands up to toxic mother-in-law, but is she the a**hole?

Standing up to toxic behavior, even in difficult times. #NTA

NTA but a little YTA. Set boundaries and manage expectations.

NTA for refusing to take toxic mother-in-law’s chemo rides.

Commenter and reply agree: toxic MIL deserves no rides

Cutting off toxic family members is necessary for self-care

Standing up to toxic behavior is never a**hole move

Not the a**hole for refusing to help toxic mother-in-law.

Partner’s abusive mother: NTA for not taking her to chemo.

Let someone else handle it. NTA

Refusing to be treated like garbage , NTA stands up for herself.

Short and sweet: commenter is not the a**hole.

NTA. ‍♀️ She can figure it out or call his ex. Tell her to peace out. ✌️

Nurse receives support for setting boundaries with toxic mother-in-law

Is compassion towards an abusive cancer patient stupidity?

NTA – No explanation needed

Compassionate nurse sets boundaries with toxic mother-in-law. #NTA

Standing up to toxic family during illness: justified or heartless?

NTA – No a-hole here. Short and sweet.

Compassionate nurse stops chemo rides for ungrateful mother-in-law

Suggests free rides for chemo, supports not giving them anymore. NTA

Prioritize your husband, not his toxic mother.

Heartless comment sparks no replies.

Respect husband’s wishes and cut off toxic mother-in-law?

Breast cancer survivor supports nurse’s decision. ️

No need for validation from Reddit. NTA. Drop it.

Cancer doesn’t excuse bad behavior. NTA for setting boundaries.

NTA – No drama here, just a clear-cut situation

Compassionate comment encourages finding alternative for toxic mother-in-law’s chemo rides

Setting boundaries with toxic family members is necessary for self-care.

Commenter calls out toxic mother-in-law, uses strong language.

NTA – No explanation needed

NTA Don’t be a sucker, it’s justified to stop helping.

NTA – No A-hole here!

NTA, prioritize your own well-being and cut ties with toxicity.

NTA stands up to toxic mother-in-law’s abuse. Self-care matters.

Standing up to toxic family members is never easy. #NTA

Setting boundaries with toxic family is not being heartless ❤️

Nurse refuses to take toxic mother-in-law to chemo. NTA.

Is this comment promoting a controversial viewpoint?

Compassionate comment about dog sparks empathy

Don’t lift a finger to help her again. ‍♀️

NTA! It’s not worth sacrificing your mental health for her.

Enjoy free time instead of enabling toxic mother-in-law’s behavior. NTA

Is OP the a**hole or not? Mixed opinions.

Prioritize your own well-being, not guilt or obligation.

Cutting toxic family members out of your life is justified.