Imagine having a family member move in with you, only for them to turn your backyard into their personal party zone! That’s exactly what happened when one man’s brother and sister-in-law left their 21-year-old daughter in his care. This young woman is causing quite a stir with her late-night hottub escapades, leaving her uncle wondering if he’s being too harsh by considering banning her from using it.
Unexpected Houseguest

New Job, New Home ️

Teenagers in the House

Hottub Shenanigans

Booze and Vodka Bottles

Party Time in the Hottub

Uncle’s Warning ⚠️

Late Night Discovery

Skinny Dipping Niece

Avoiding Confrontation

Niece’s Late Return

Inappropriate Behavior

Banning from Hottub?

Uncle’s Dilemma: To Ban or Not to Ban?
This uncle is at his wit’s end with his niece’s wild hottub nights, which include booze, drugs, and skinny dipping. With teenage kids in the house, he’s finding her behavior completely inappropriate. He’s considering banning her from using the hottub and keeping it locked up. But is he being too harsh? Let’s see what the internet has to say about this steamy situation…
NTA, but prioritize safety over moral standards for niece’s behavior.

Respect the rules of the house or lose access ♀️

Niece’s party could lead to legal trouble for OP.
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No nudity in the tub with kids/teens in the house
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21 is legal age, but it’s your house and your rules.

Locking the hot tub and having talks about her future ❤️

Setting boundaries with family can be tough.
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Set house rules or kick her out

Setting boundaries and safety first. NTA

NTA stands up for solo hot tub safety.

NTA, but maybe it’s time for her to go

Set boundaries with ungrateful house guest
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Setting boundaries: Niece learns actions have consequences

Respect boundaries or find a new place to live. NTA.

21-year-old niece parties in aunt’s hot tub, advice given.

Niece’s hot tub party harmless, but OP’s house, NTA.

OP may be enabling their niece’s behavior, leading to consequences.

21-year-old niece enjoys hot tub, OP not an authority figure.

ESH for niece’s behavior, but OP needs to enforce consequences

Setting boundaries with family while parenting. NTA wins.
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Angry commenter wants niece banned from premises

Niece’s hot tub party: NTA for banning, YTA for exposing kids

Niece’s hot tub party: NTA for locking up, but inappropriate behavior.

Set boundaries and stick to them. NTA wins this one

Niece’s behavior raises concerns for OP’s kids’ well-being

Setting boundaries with adult niece’s party behavior. NTA.

NTA stands up to wild niece’s hot tub antics

Niece’s entitled behavior poses safety hazards, NTA.

Navigating tricky situations with adult niece in hot tub party.

NTA suggests kicking out niece from party zone

21-year-old niece needs to grow up and move out

Grandparents’ pool had rules, concerned about niece’s disregard for safety.

21-year-old niece causing trouble with booze and drugs. NTA.

Setting boundaries with a party-loving niece

Tough love or too harsh? Commenter calls for eviction

Enabling adult niece’s behavior? NTA, kick her out!

NTA- Kick out disrespectful adult niece and focus on your kids

Enforce rules or let niece ignore them and face consequences

NTA, but safety measures like a locking cover are necessary. Kick her out if she’s a bad influence on your kids.

Lock it up! NTA shares personal experience to prevent tragedy.

NTA, but is she partying too hard?

Protect your loved ones from harm. NTA.

Sassy reply to inconsiderate SIL. Hot tub, hot drama

NTA, but don’t forget to check on your kids and their feelings

Illegal drugs in your house? Risky business. Set boundaries
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NTA, kick her out! She’s 21, not your responsibility

Hot tub partying can be deadly. NTA for warning OP.

NTA but tough love may be necessary

Safety concerns raised over hot tub partying

Drunk and high niece puts children in danger. NTA.

Setting boundaries with adult niece who’s taking advantage of situation.

Enforcing rules with niece who broke them, leads to consequences. ESH.

Set boundaries and send her to a hotel

NTA- Admirable concern for niece, but not your circus, not monkeys

NTA warns about the dangers of hot tub partying.

Safety first! Commenter is not the a-hole for calling out danger.

Setting boundaries with family members who have substance abuse issues.

NTA, but prioritize your family’s safety over the hot tub.

Setting boundaries with family can be tough
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Setting boundaries with a niece who has no respect

Set boundaries and stand your ground. NTA

Set boundaries with niece and lock hot tub. YWNBTA

NTA and with 2 children, lock up the hot tub and have a heart to heart with her about behavior expectations. Good luck ❤️

Adult niece disrespects rules, gets fair consequences. NTA

OP needs to enforce rules or suggest niece find new home
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Suggests using a motion camera to police hot tub use.

Supportive comment reminds OP to be patient with wild niece

Niece’s hot tub party is harmless, OP is just fault-finding.
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Hot tubbing nude is unhygienic and won’t solve anything

Legal but Concerning: Aunt worries about niece’s behavior
