Weddings are supposed to be a time of love, joy, and celebration, right? Well, sometimes, family drama can turn that special day into a nightmare. Meet our concerned father, who’s dealing with some family conflict after his son’s wedding. His son, James, married his long-time love, Zara, who happens to be from South Asia. But when the father’s sister and her husband make some distasteful jokes about visa marriages and 90 Day Fiancées, things take a turn for the worse. Now, the father is left wondering if he’s in the wrong for uninviting them from the wedding reception. Let’s dive into this family drama and see what’s going on!
Meet the Family
A Love Story
Family Matters ❤️
The Sister and Her Husband
Misconceptions and Jokes
Ignoring the Comments
Shell-Shocked
The Un-Invite
Playing the Victim
Meaning Well Means Nothing
Refusing to Reinvite ✋
90 Day Fiance? Not Here!
Zara’s Qualifications
Beth and Tom’s Response
Forgive and Forget?
90 Day Fiancé Joke Gone Wrong
Our concerned father is dealing with some family drama after his son James married his long-time love, Zara, who is from South Asia. At the wedding, the father’s sister, Beth, and her husband, Tom, made some inappropriate jokes about visa marriages and 90 Day Fiancées. James and Zara were shocked, and the father immediately uninvited Beth and Tom from the reception. Now, Beth and Tom are playing the victim, claiming they had James’s best interests at heart. Some family members are siding with them, saying they were just trying to help. But our father is standing his ground, refusing to reinvite them, and pointing out that Zara is more than qualified to be in the country on her own merits. Let’s see what the internet thinks of this situation…
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