Oh, the joys of parenthood! If there’s one thing we can all agree on, it’s that babies have a knack for throwing a wrench into our perfectly laid plans. ♀️ As a seasoned mom, I couldn’t help but chuckle when my best friend, who’s expecting her first child, shared her and her husband’s “perfect plan” for after the baby arrives. I mean, we’ve all been there, right? Full of optimism and naivety, only to have our dreams shattered by the realities of parenthood. But when I laughed at their plan, my friend got upset, and now I’m wondering if I was in the wrong.
Am I a Bad Friend?
Rough Pregnancy & Support
The “Perfect Plan”
My Reaction
Realities of Parenthood
Her Response
Stubbornness Ensues
No “Perfect Plans”
Parenthood Wisdom
Update: Apologies & Understanding
Baby Shower Preparations
Stress-Free Day
Parenthood: Where “Perfect Plans” Go to Die
My pregnant best friend and her husband devised a “perfect plan” for after their baby arrives, involving a strict schedule for taking care of the baby and getting sleep. I couldn’t help but laugh, remembering how my own “perfect plans” fell apart once my child was born. ♀️ My friend got upset, but I tried to explain that every parent goes through this learning curve and that it’s important to be flexible. After some reflection, I apologized for laughing, and she understood where I was coming from. Now, we’re focusing on planning her baby shower and making sure she has a stress-free day. Let’s see what the internet thinks of this situation…
Sometimes, the best advice is to just listen and support
Constructive criticism or tough love? Letting new parents learn
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One commenter’s differing experience leads to a YTA judgement.
Be gentle with pregnant women, they are sensitive
Don’t rain on her parade. Let her be optimistic ♂️
Mom claps back at condescending commenter, defends parenting plan
Laughing with friends: Benefit of experience in battle plans!
A flawed parenting plan that’s hard not to laugh at
Don’t be the A**hole parent. Different plans work for different families.
Friend’s perfect plan backfires, offer support instead of criticism
Don’t act superior to new parents planning their baby’s arrival
Don’t be a “YTA” towards new parents
Perfect plans rarely survive contact with reality, NTA handled well
Having a baby is a lottery. You can’t plan. ♀️
Expect the unexpected: even the ‘perfect plan’ can backfire ♀️
New parent criticized for r**e behavior towards pregnant woman.
Calling out a friend as an idiot? YTA confirmed
Be kind to new parents, they need support not mockery
“No plan survives contact with the enemy.”
A mother of 2 advises not to stress about the unknown
Disagreeing with a parenting plan doesn’t justify being r**e
Apologize and be supportive: gentle suggestion beats harsh reaction
Don’t be an AH, let new parents learn from experience
User defends couple’s good intentions, suggests focusing on shared responsibilities.
Grandma shuts down smug parents with village wisdom
Avoid unsolicited advice on parenting to prevent conflicts
Parenting solidarity: We all made plans and learned hard lessons
Offering advice is good but don’t be condescending
YTA accused of laziness in sleep plan dispute.
Friendship advice turns into judgmental lecture
A success story from a similar sleep training plan
A gentle suggestion to be supportive, not outright dismissive
Low stakes convo turns slightly r**e, but NAH/soft YTA.
Parenting plan backfires, YTA mom receives backlash from commenter.
Encouraging response to negative comment about new parent’s plan
Friend criticized for laughing at new parents’ plan. Yikes!
User calls out commenter for being harsh on new parents’ plan
Friend gets called out for being YTA in parenting advice
Apologize for laughing at her new-parent plan, YTA.
Be supportive, not critical. Your friend needs your encouragement
Naive friend’s unrealistic expectations of motherhood, YTA for laughing
Delivery is key! NAH commenter provides constructive criticism.
Apologize genuinely and avoid condescending tones. YTA but recoverable.
Redditors call out YTA for rudely laughing at someone’s idea
First-time parents don’t need smug reality checks from friends
The importance of empathy in parenting discussions
A perfect plan for baby sleep? It worked for two kids!
Avoid discussing parenting choices to avoid offending new parents
Working in shifts with a newborn: YTA says it’s best
Friend feels mocked by YTA’s unsolicited advice
A bucket of cold water might not be what they need
Overbearing parenting advice backfires, leading to possible rebellion.
New mom defends her parenting choices against criticism.
Don’t be an a**hole, offer support to new parents
Friend is called out for being a condescending ‘experienced parent’
Experienced parent shares successful sleep plan from 30 years ago
Struggling new parents with no options, YTA backlash ensues
Navigating unsolicited parenting advice with a smile
Supportive comment encourages mindfulness and positive energy ✔
A gentle reminder to respect new parents’ aspirations
Friend’s parenting advice may prove wrong, but timing is key
A Hamilton reference brings humor to sleepless nights
A sympathetic reminder to be emotionally supportive during a rough pregnancy
Supportive comment section for new mom’s ‘perfect plan’
Mom-to-be receives unsupportive comment.
Don’t be a condescending YTA, parenting is tough
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Even childfree people know parenting plans don’t always work out
Defending ‘perfect plan’ gets YTA response ♀️
Friend called out for being patronizing and unhelpful
Don’t judge new parents on their plan, every child is different
Supporting new parents: a lesson for all of us
Mom defends baby sleep plan, gets called a**hole.
Friend receives backlash for giving unsolicited advice on parenting
Bitter commenter criticizes new mom’s plan with passive-aggressive tone
Supportive comment reminds us to not discourage our friends’ plans
When new parents’ ‘perfect plan’ backfires
Surprising success with ‘perfect plan’ for new parents
Don’t laugh at someone’s plan, every child is different.
Communication is key, even with good intentions
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Last Updated on March 7, 2024 by Diply Social Team
