Hey there, fellow Facebookers! ♀️ You know how it is when you have a blended family, right? Things can get a little… complicated. Our protagonist here is a loving stepmom to three great kids, and she’s just given birth to a beautiful baby girl. But, as you can imagine, the excitement of a new sibling can sometimes lead to some overbearing behavior from the older kids. And when it comes to breastfeeding and personal space, well, let’s just say things are getting a little too close for comfort. Let’s dive into this family drama and see what’s going on…
The Blended Family

Motherly Bonding

Overbearing Beginnings

Feeding Frenzy

Inappropriate Interruptions

Voicing Concerns ️

Screaming Siblings

Nauseating Environment

The Final Straw

Breastfeeding Boundaries

Leaving the Nest ♀️

Inappropriate Invasion

Setting the Record Straight

Boundaries ≠ Hate ❤️

Visitation Clarification

Breastfeeding Boundaries: A Blended Family Battle
Our new mom is struggling to cope with her stepkids’ excitement over their new baby sister. From hovering around her during breastfeeding sessions to waking the baby up from naps, these kids just can’t seem to give the newborn and her mom some much-needed space. ♀️ Despite numerous attempts to explain her discomfort, the stepkids and even her husband just don’t seem to get it. Finally, she reaches her breaking point and decides to leave the house, seeking refuge in a hotel. Now, both her husband and the kids’ mother are accusing her of being selfish and weird. But is she really in the wrong for wanting some boundaries during this delicate time? Let’s see what the internet thinks of this situation…
Set boundaries for stepkids or leave permanently

Is lackluster parenting causing stepkids to cross boundaries?

New mom defends newborn’s needs, stepkids overstep boundaries. NTA

New mom needs husband’s help to set boundaries with stepkids

New mom overwhelmed by stepkids crossing boundaries with newborn

New mom deserves a break. Stepkids need boundaries too

Stepkids need to learn boundaries with newborn

New mom feels unsupported by husband in caring for newborn.

New mom deals with intrusive MIL while nursing

New mom expresses need for space from stepkids during newborn phase

New mom struggles with stepkids and husband’s hostility

Assertive response with humorous tone, suggests communication and boundaries.

Stepmom sympathizes with new mom’s need for alone time with baby

Stepson’s behavior towards breastfeeding is inappropriate and needs addressing

New mom feels neglected by husband, worries for newborn’s health

Locks for boundaries

Stepkids excited but waking up baby unfair. NTA for frustration

Stepkids have no boundaries with newborn. Husband needs to act

Expert advice for managing stepchild’s potential disorders. Protect yourself.

Stepkids need to learn boundaries for baby’s safety and mom’s sanity

New mom sets boundaries for stepkids around newborn. NTA.

New mom sets boundaries with stepkids post-birth

Stepkids crossing boundaries with newborn. OP needs to act fast!

Stepkids need boundaries, husband needs to step up. NTA

Granddaughter understands boundaries, husband is the issue ♀️

New mom sets boundaries with stepkids for newborn’s safety

Take a break from stepkids and husband, formulate a plan

New mom stands up to stepkids and controlling husband, NTA

Stepkids adding to new mom’s anxiety. NTA for setting boundaries.

New mom shares struggles with overstimulation from stepkids

New mom sets boundaries with stepkids, suggests petty revenge

Expecting 12, 11, and 8-year-olds to know better. Set boundaries.

Red flags raised by commenter, urges OP to prioritize self-care

New mom gives practical advice on setting boundaries with stepkids

NTA commenter advises leaving husband until he can parent properly

The burden of motherhood: Sacrificing comfort, privacy, and body ♀️

Parenting struggles with stepkids and a newborn. NTA.

Tips for setting boundaries while nursing newborn with older siblings

Passionate defense of new mom’s right to privacy while breastfeeding

Sarcastic reply to stepmom’s frustration with stepkids’ behavior.

New mom rightfully concerned about stepkids’ hygiene around newborn

Stepkids need boundaries when new mom needs space. NTA.

Setting boundaries with stepkids after giving birth. NTA.

Stepkids’ lack of boundaries during newborn phase infuriates commentor

New mom frustrated with stepkids crossing boundaries with newborn. NTA.

Setting boundaries for newborn’s health, NTA wins this round

NTA. Blunt comment suggests spoilt stepkids and useless husband.

Take care of yourself and your baby first , stepkids second.

Postpartum doula offers support, suggests outside intervention for stepkids’ behavior.

New mom sets boundaries with stepkids, receives unwarranted criticism.

New mom struggles with stepkids, moves out, and sets boundaries

Stepkids crossing boundaries? Problem is husband. Say no and stick!

Stepkids misbehaving with newborn – NTA needs a break

Stepkids with no boundaries causing chaos for new mom

Setting boundaries early on with consequences can help.

New mom rightfully sets boundaries for stepkids with newborn

Stepkids need boundaries and respect. Lock nursery, lay down rules

Parenting responsibility on husband; older kids should understand boundaries

New mom rightfully sets boundaries with stepkids

Breastfeeding privacy concerns addressed with locked door suggestion. #RespectfulParenting

Stepkids overstepping boundaries, who enforces reasonable standards?

New mother expresses solidarity with overwhelmed stepmom

Stepkids need to respect boundaries with newborn

Supportive comment validates new mom’s frustration with stepkids’ behavior.

Husband ignored her needs, NTA commenter empathizes

Supportive comment suggests leaving husband due to stepkids’ behavior
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Stepmom seeks boundaries with newborn, commenters show support

New mom expresses frustration with stepkids crossing boundaries while breastfeeding

New mom’s anxiety is normal, stepkids need boundaries and age-appropriate conversations.

Stepkids with no boundaries and unhelpful husband drive mom insane

Breastfeeding struggles and supportive words from a fellow mom ❤

Stepkids crossing boundaries, mom advises hotel stay for husband wake-up call

New mom struggling with stepkids while nursing. Where is dad?

NTA. Set boundaries with husband and stepkids on baby’s respect.

New mom feels disrespected by stepkids, husband needs to step up.

Stepkids need boundaries! NTA for prioritizing your baby’s needs

Setting boundaries with stepkids while parenting newborn. Valid concerns.

New mom shares breastfeeding struggles and stepkids crossing boundaries. NTA.

Challenging situation with stepkids not respecting newborn boundaries

Tips for managing a curious toddler around a newborn

New mom asserts her authority over stepkids, internet approves

Protect yourself and your baby, go to a hotel

Empathetic comment suggests OP needs stronger support system

Enabling parents and entitled stepkids? Definitely not the a**hole

Stepkids’ behavior towards newborn needs therapy; possible jealousy issues

New mom shares her experience and seeks advice for postpartum issues.

Stepkids boundary-crossing raises concern over husband’s parenting skills

Stepkids causing chaos, where’s the husband and discipline?

A clever solution for breastfeeding privacy
