Imagine juggling the demands of motherhood with the excruciating pain of a herniated disc. Now, add a dash of tough love from your own mother, and you’ve got the recipe for a family drama that’s as real as it gets. Our story revolves around a brave mom of three, battling not just physical pain, but also the emotional turmoil of feeling unsupported by her own mother. Let’s dive into this emotional rollercoaster.
The Struggle Begins
Grandma’s Warning ⚠️
The Year of Trials ️
The Diagnosis
Medication and Drowsiness
Grandma’s Tough Love
The Need for More Support
A Glimpse into the Past ️
A Change in the Family Dynamics
The Lost Normal
The Search for a Solution
A Controversial Debate ️
A Mother’s Plea, a Grandma’s Tough Love, and a Family in Flux
In a world where motherhood is often romanticized, our heroine’s story brings us face to face with its harsh realities. Battling a herniated disc, d********n, and the demands of three little ones, she finds herself yearning for more support from her own mother. But with grandma’s tough love stance and her own health struggles, the dynamics in this family are changing. As our brave mom navigates these choppy waters, she’s also sparked a heated debate about parenthood and chronic illness. Let’s see what the internet has to say about this. ️
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“YTA you chose to have a 3rd child after you were warned you would get no support and knowing you have medical issues. Literally doesnt matter what is wrong with you – you knew you’d have depressive flare ups – you deal with this. You get a nanny or your husband deals with it – cuts his hours, asks his family. You are very selfish – your mother raised her kids, stop pressuring her and deal with your choices.”
A heated debate unfolds as commenters discuss parenting responsibilities.
“YTA, why have 3?” – Struggling parent shares their frustrations.
YTA – Pay someone to watch the children
“YTA. Grandparents aren’t free childcare. You’re not entitled to help.”
Counting on others for childcare? YTA!
“YTA for expecting free child care. Be responsible and grateful!”
Get the surgery and hire a nanny. YTA.
“YTA. You made choices, now live with them. Hire help.”
Grandma’s tough love: YTA for expecting her to babysit.
Fiery comment on irresponsible parenting and family drama
Tough love: YTA, hire a nanny and make sacrifices.
Struggling with health, mom warned against more kids. YTA here.
YTA for not respecting boundaries. Take responsibility for your choices.
“YTA. If you can’t care for kids, stop having them.”
YTA. Overwhelmed parent struggles with consequences of having too many kids
YTA – Communication is key. Explore options with your doctor and family
* Surgery
* Physical Therapy
* Non-drowsy medication
* Steroid/anti-inflammatory shot
Ask for help from your husband and kids
Hire a nanny
Don’t rely solely on your mom
Parents’ responsibility, clear boundaries, tough love grandma. YTA verdict.
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Mom’s medical issues strain relationship with grandma. Who’s responsible?
“YTA – Your parents helped you too much in the past. Your mom did so much for you to where you thought you could just keep on having babies. Your parents have earned the right to their freedom and in being just grandparents instead of third parent. Where are your husband’s family in all of this? Also, quit trying to play the victim in this as your last sentence insinuates.”
Tough love grandma: No more maid duties for entitled daughter!
Commenter questions treatment and calls OP an a**hole for expecting free childcare from involved grandma.
Entitled OP gets called out for mistreating their mom
YTA: Take responsibility for your kids!
YTA: Kids deserve better. You’re entitled and neglectful.
Choosing to have more kids while struggling with MDD? YTA
YTA: Stop having children!
“YTA. Chronic health issues + 3 kids = neglect & abuse. “
Expecting your mother to raise your kids? YTA. Step up!
Fair warning ignored: YTA, hire help or struggle alone.
“YTA. Use a condom.” – A blunt and straightforward comment.
Last Updated on October 25, 2023 by Diply Social Team
