Picture this: You’re planning your dream honeymoon with your fiancé, and suddenly, your future mother-in-law wants to tag along. No, this isn’t a sitcom plot, it’s a real-life dilemma! Our bride-to-be is dealing with a future MIL who has an uncomfortably close relationship with her son, and now she wants to join their honeymoon for some quality bonding time. But wait, there’s more! The MIL doesn’t seem to understand why this request is so outrageous. So, what’s a girl to do? Let’s dive into this wild story and see how it unfolds…
The Unhealthy Relationship
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Emotionally Incestuous
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Copycat MIL
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The Cheek Kiss Test
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The Honeymoon Invite ️
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Shocked by the No
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Facebook-Inspired Idea
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Why Can’t We All Be Together?
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Not Uncomfortable Enough
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Cringe-Worthy Comments
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The Compromise
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Future FIL’s Call
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Late Night Message
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Crying for Days
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Should I Give In?
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MIL Wants to Crash the Honeymoon Party
Our bride-to-be is in a pickle when her future MIL, who has an uncomfortably close relationship with her son, insists on joining their honeymoon for some quality bonding time. Despite trying to set boundaries, the MIL doesn’t seem to understand why her request is so outrageous. The situation escalates to the point where our protagonist has to get real about what she and her fiancé plan to do on their honeymoon (hint: it’s not sightseeing). But even that doesn’t deter the persistent MIL, who offers a ‘compromise’ of joining them for just one week. As the drama unfolds, our bride-to-be is left wondering if she should give in to avoid more drama or stand her ground. Let’s see what the internet thinks of this sticky situation…
Fiance’s parents crossed a line, setting boundaries is crucial.

You’re not the a**hole for wanting a private honeymoon . Your fiance needs to cut the umbilical cord

Wedding nightmare – In-laws crossing boundaries

Red flags everywhere! Proceed with extreme caution.

Setting boundaries with in-laws on honeymoon: NTA wins

Fiancé needs to confront her or it’ll never end

Enabling a creepy mother-in-law? Time for healthy boundaries

Wedding warning: fiancé’s inability to handle parents may worsen marriage.

Setting boundaries with mother-in-law, NTA wins with savage response

Mother-in-law’s behavior is unacceptable. Fiancée needs therapy and boundaries.

Tricky MIL situation? Change plans and read a children’s classic

Don’t let her badger you! Set boundaries and stay strong

Strongly-worded comment against inappropriate mother-in-law behavior.

NTA shuts down entitled in-laws wanting to join honeymoon

Protect your boundaries and talk to your husband about it

Red flags in the relationship. Marriage reconsideration advised.

Mother-in-law on honeymoon? Huge red flag.

MIL wants to join honeymoon? Hell no! Similar experience shared.

Assertive response to intrusive request. Boundaries are important.

Suggests blocking MIL and going no contact, warns of wedding day drama

NTA commenter advises OP to cut off mama’s boy fiancé.

Setting boundaries and prioritizing mental health over mother-in-law’s entitlement.

Yikes! A harsh comment, no replies.

Fiancé’s overbearing mother causing pre-wedding stress

Standing up to controlling in-laws is crucial for a healthy marriage

Red flag warning : Advice to reconsider marrying this man.

Elope and keep the destination a secret to avoid intrusion

Fiery response to mother-in-law’s unwanted honeymoon invitation

Publicly shame entitled MIL for trying to join honeymoon.

Setting boundaries with in-laws is important

Change honeymoon plans & keep MIL out of info updates. NTA

Frustrated commenter threatens wedding cancellation due to meddling in-laws

Savage response to mother-in-law’s honeymoon intrusion

Fiancé needs to set boundaries with his abusive mother. NTA.
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Move honeymoon location to avoid mother-in-law crashing? Good idea.

Fiancé must set boundaries and say no to his mother

Warning to run from batsh*t crazy in-laws

Therapy session to set boundaries with future MIL before wedding

Red flags in the in-laws behavior. Consider cutting ties

Sneaky honeymoon plan to avoid crazy MIL

Fiancé needs to set boundaries with MIL for honeymoon

Grandma’s advice: NC with MIL or no marriage

User finds mother-in-law’s behavior disgusting and advises no contact.

Assertive response to inappropriate behavior with humor and clarity.

Enabling husband and insane mother-in-law, time for no contact

A humorous diversion in a heated comment section

Bride-to-be struggles with toxic in-laws, seeks advice

Fiance’s mommy dearest wants to join honeymoon? Run.

FMIL wants to join honeymoon? NTA advises changing plans ️

Husband needs to shut down mother-in-law’s demand or postpone wedding

Protective mom sets healthy boundaries for her sons’ marriages

Fierce advice on dealing with a pushy mother-in-law. NTA

Fiancé’s mess, not yours. Let him handle his parents. ♀️

A cautionary tale about marrying a mama’s boy.

Fiancé needs to set boundaries with his overbearing mother

Fiance’s mom is toxic, NTA for not inviting her

Standing up to a controlling MIL with a sassy attitude NTA

A shocked commenter offers helpful resources to deal with MIL’s demands

Red flags in the fiancé’s family. Think twice before marrying.

NTA sarcastically calls out MIL’s inappropriate behavior with dark humor.

Protect your honeymoon privacy from overbearing in-laws!

Mother-in-law wants to join honeymoon? Therapy or breakup?

Fiancé’s family crossing boundaries? It’s a red flag. Run!

Husband needs therapy to deal with weird, unhealthy mother-in-law

Fiancé’s Mom wants to join honeymoon, NTA, run for hills

NTA for saying no to MIL on honeymoon, but concerns about fiance’s relationship with her.

User advises to cut contact with mother-in-law, commends OP.

Stand your ground! Don’t let your in-laws ruin your honeymoon!

Beware of potential honeymoon crashers, change destination if possible

Red flag alert! Cut ties and run far away.

Unbelievable family dynamics! Insanity at its finest.

Draw the line with your Mother-in-Law. NTA

Red flags galore! Fiancé needs to handle his messed up family

Is the mother-in-law issue a red flag?

Set boundaries and stick to them, even if it means deception.

Saving the relationship by calling out the creepy mother-in-law
