We all know that treating others with respect and kindness is essential, but what happens when someone fails to do so? In this story, a mom and her 9-year-old daughter have a history of treating their maids poorly. With the protagonist away at boarding school, they witness the mistreatment firsthand during a visit home. The family’s current maid confides in them about her plans to leave and never return, potentially leaving the mom without childcare. Will the protagonist warn their mom, or let her face the consequences of her actions? ♀️
The Family Dynamics

The Maids’ Struggles

Forming Friendships with Maids

Agreeing with the Maids’ Complaints

Mom’s Harsh Treatment

Witnessing the Mistreatment

Maid’s Plan to Leave

Potential Consequences for Mom

Mom’s Childcare Dilemma ⏳

To Tell or Not to Tell?

A Lesson in Kindness, or a Silent Departure?
Our protagonist is torn between warning their mom about the maid’s plan to leave or letting her face the consequences of her actions. With a history of treating maids poorly, the mom may be in for a rude awakening when she’s left without childcare. The protagonist is hesitant to tell their mom, fearing her rage and potential irrational behavior. Will the mom learn her lesson, or will she be left scrambling for childcare? Let’s see what the internet thinks of this situation…
Mom on thin ice at work, commenter supports consequences.

Support for not being the a**hole in childcare dispute

Supporting not snitching on mom to avoid power imbalance consequences

Protecting the maid and teaching a lesson. NTA
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NTA commenter quotes Sirius Black to highlight mom’s character flaw.

Empathetic comment suggests a lesson for entitled mother.

NTA advises not to tell mother about maid leaving, emphasizes treating workers with respect

Compassionate suggestion to help maid and ensure her safety.

Advocating for fair treatment of the maid.

Defending the maid against retaliation, good instincts

Living in a country with live-in maids, commenter suggests a solution. NTA.

Support for maid and criticism of abusive behavior towards her.

Respect for maids and their rights. NTA comment.

Compassionate growth despite toxic upbringing. NTA for protecting maid

Protecting the maid’s safety: NTA advises against informing mom

Protecting the employee’s dignity: a kind and wise suggestion.

Protecting the maid’s well-being comes with potential risks

Defending the maid and standing up to inhumane treatment.
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Redditor believes OP is not the a**hole, wants update

Mom needs a reality check. NTA suggests she takes care of kids herself
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Kindness towards all reflects one’s true character

Standing up to a cruel mother with 2 previous strikes

Protecting the maid’s trust is crucial. Stay quiet, NTA.

Empathetic commenter applauds OP for not inheriting entitled attitude.
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Support for not telling the mom, concern for the maid’s safety

Trust and empathy are key in abusive household situations

Standing up to a cruel parent and setting a good example
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NTA suggests a long-term lesson for mom’s mistreatment of maids

Agreement that mom caused her own problems with maid treatment

Treating domestic help poorly has consequences. NTA suggests reality check.

Keep quiet and stay safe, NTA comment advises.

Affording a maid doesn’t justify mistreating them

Outrage over mother’s cruel treatment of maid sparks backlash.

Protecting the maid’s plan, NTA suggests caution

NTA commenter advises against speaking ill of absent maid.

Encouraging support for maid’s complaint to prevent future mistreatment.

Support for not taking blame for mom’s cruel treatment

Redditor advises against telling mom about maid’s mistreatment

Boarding school: the ultimate solution to family conflicts

NTA defends not forwarding message to cruel employer.

Protecting the maid’s safety by not telling the abusive mother.
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Redditor advises caution when dealing with abusive mother

Supportive comment defends maid’s escape plan with strong language

Red flag: if someone has issues with everyone, it’s them.

Standing up against abusive behavior. #NTA

NTA. Standing up for the maid and setting boundaries

Sometimes staying quiet is the best course of action ♀️

NTA, but warning mom could help siblings’ childcare

Keeping quiet about abusive behavior is sometimes the best choice.

Compassionate comment suggests letting karma do its job

Encouraging advice to young person in difficult situation

Secret-keeping advice for NTA commenter in maid mistreatment situation.

Play stupid games, win stupid prizes. NTA comment agrees.
