A mother is at odds with her husband about their son’s physical affection. The son shows more physical affection to the mother than the father. The mother believes the father’s lack of physical affection is why the son doesn’t show him the same. On the other hand, the father believes that the mother should force their son to show him physical affection. The mother refused, saying their son could choose who he is physically affectionate with. The father vented to his mom and sister, who both took his side. Who is in the right? Read on to find out.
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Why a mother’s behavior might be the reason for her son’s lack of affection towards his father
A mother’s affectionate behavior towards her son has made him more affectionate towards her than his father. The father, who is not very touchy-feely, feels left out and has asked his wife to force their son to show him physical affection. The mother refuses, stating that their son has the right to choose who he is physically affectionate with. The father has vented to his family members, who have taken his side. Reddit users are asked to weigh in on this parenting dilemma. Is the mother wrong for not forcing their son to be physically affectionate with his father, or is the father wrong for trying to force physical affection? Share your thoughts and experiences in the comments below.
Forced affection causes resentment in kids. NTA for husband.
Encouraging bodily autonomy in kids is important. NTA.
Respect your child’s bodily autonomy ❤️
Forcing physical contact with a child is always wrong
Being physically affectionate is not the only way to show love ❤️
Father needs to reflect on his role in son’s life
Encourage affection, not entitlement.
Husband jealous of son’s affection towards wife. NTA.
Respect your child’s boundaries to avoid unhealthy people-pleasing tendencies
Encouraging hugs can’t replace genuine affection
Encouraging a father to build a better relationship with his son ❤️
Respect children’s boundaries. NTA.
Teaching your son consent is important in all relationships
Encourage husband’s affection, don’t force son’s.
Building a relationship with your child takes time and effort
Respect your child’s boundaries and have a conversation with spouse
Father wants son to show physical affection against his will
Understanding the importance of physical affection in parenting ❤️
NTA for not forcing son to show affection towards husband.
Teach your kids love by showing them love
Backwards logic alert! Trying to force affection never works
Teaching body autonomy and consent to children is crucial
Dad’s jealousy is affecting his relationship with his son ❤️
Forced affection can breed resentment and discomfort for children
A dad’s struggle for affection from his son explained. ❤️
Forcing physical affection can lead to consent issues. #NTA
Let the baby lead the way
Different forms of affection, NTA comment defends loving father.
Respect your child’s boundaries on physical affection. NTA.
Forced affection is not affection. NTA stance supported.
Encouraging comment on respecting child’s boundaries and love language ❤️
Kids seek comfort from mom when sick, not a**hole behavior.
Encouraging healthy father-son relationship without forcing affection ❤️
Respecting a child’s autonomy is crucial ❤️ NTA
Respectful response defends freedom of affection
Encouraging healthy communication and boundaries with child
Encouraging reciprocity for affectionate parent-child relationship
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Encourage growth, not blame.
Respect your child’s boundaries for healthy relationships later on.
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Last Updated on April 11, 2023 by Alfe Mercado