Hey there, crafty mamas and papas! I’ve got a colorful conundrum on my hands and I need your help. I’m a first-time poster and long-time lurker, currently pregnant with baby #2. My 3-year-old son is super excited about his baby sis, and I wanted to involve him in the prep. So, I let him pick out the yarn for one of the blankets I’m crocheting… and boy, did he pick a vibrant one! But now, a friend has me second-guessing my rainbow blanket choice. Let’s dive into this story and see if I’m the a-hole here.
A Colorful Conundrum: Crocheting a Rainbow Blanket for Baby
Involving Big Brother in Baby Prep
Toddler’s Vibrant Yarn Choice for Baby Sis
Progress on the Rainbow Blanket
A Friend’s Request for a Baby Blanket
Sharing a Pic of the Rainbow Blanket
Friend’s Shocking Reaction to the Rainbow Blanket
No Intention to Mislead About a Rainbow Baby
AITA for Potentially Disrespecting Those Who’ve Suffered Pregnancy Loss?
Update: Overwhelmed by the Response!
Grateful for Everyone’s Input
Promising to Respond When Possible
The Great Rainbow Blanket Debate: AITA?
So, there you have it folks – the tale of a loving mama just trying to involve her excited big bro in baby prep, only to be called out for her rainbow blanket choice. I never meant to offend anyone who’s suffered pregnancy loss, and I certainly wasn’t trying to claim a ‘rainbow baby’ status. I was just letting my toddler pick a pretty yarn! The internet has spoken loud and clear on this one, and I’m feeling relieved that my pregnant brain didn’t miss some major social faux pas. Sounds like this mama can keep on crocheting with a clear conscience! Now, let’s see what you all have to say about this colorful situation…
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