We all know that the perfect proposal can be a make-or-break moment in a relationship. But what happens when the moment you thought was perfect turns out to be anything but? One man found out the hard way when he spontaneously decided to propose to his girlfriend, only to be met with tears and a locked bedroom door. Let’s dive into this emotional rollercoaster of a story.
The Engagement Ring Purchase ️

Waiting for the Right Moment ⏳

A Special Trip Planned

Travel Plans Foiled ✈️

The Spontaneous Decision

The Unexpected Proposal

Boom, Proposal

Tears of…Joy?

The Shocking Response

Locked Away

Feeling Like Sh*t

Questioning Himself

A Proposal Gone Wrong: Was He in the Wrong? ♂️
After months of waiting for the perfect moment to propose, our love-struck protagonist took matters into his own hands when travel plans fell through. He spontaneously popped the question, hoping to surprise his girlfriend with a heartfelt proposal. Instead, her reaction left him feeling devastated and questioning if he made a huge mistake. Was his spur-of-the-moment proposal a romantic gesture or a thoughtless blunder? Let’s see what the internet thinks of this dramatic situation…
NAH verdict on spontaneous proposal during pandemic, advice for future attempts.
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Proposal gone wrong, but NAH. GF deserves a special moment

Proposal should be meaningful to both partners. YTA.

Spontaneous proposal with no thought, YTA.

Spontaneous living room proposal falls short of girlfriend’s expectations
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Proposing on a whim? Maybe not the best idea ♀️

Proposal location matters to some, not shallow or ungrateful. NAH.
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Proposal could have been more special, soft YTA

Proposal lacked emotional intimacy, YTA for not making effort

Spontaneous proposal falls short of expectations. YTA according to comment.

Plan a romantic and practical proposal, don’t half-ass it. YTA

Spontaneous proposal gone wrong, but still NAH. Funny story now.
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Proposal fail earns YTA judgement. Put more effort next time.

Curious commenter questions missing details in failed proposal story

YTA proposed in PJs during quarantine, redo with planning & effort

Proposal planning can be a lot of work, consider your partner ❤️
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Proposer’s impulsive move gets a YTA verdict from commenters

Proposal fail, but comment suggests a better approach with humor

NAH admits fault, warns against prolonged anger

Proposal deemed unromantic and not special by commenter. YTA.

User calls out OP for giving up too easily. YTA

NAH, spontaneous proposal goes wrong, advice to re-propose later

Spontaneous proposal gone wrong, but NAH. Girlfriend upset but understanding.

NAH commenter advises OP to communicate better with his partner

Proposal doesn’t need to be extravagant, it’s about the love ❤

When plan A fails, have a backup plan for proposal
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Communication is key!

Consider your partner’s love language before proposing in a rush

Proposal fail: YTA didn’t plan execution of significant moment
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NAH. Proposal location matters to some, but GF overreacted. Suggest compromise.

A spontaneous proposal gone wrong, but NAH. Suggestions for redemption.

Spontaneous proposal gone wrong, lacking romance and forethought

Importance of discussing proposal expectations and making it special ❤️

Spontaneous proposal may not make the best memories. Gentle YTA
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NAH commenter empathizes with the girlfriend’s disappointment and embarrassment.

Unhappy with her proposal, regrets feeling ungrateful

Engaged commenter shares her own proposal story and offers perspective.

Proposal mishap: Did he consider her feelings?

Disappointed commenter thinks OP is the a**hole for poorly planned proposal.

Proposal didn’t hit the right emotional note, communication is key

Lazy proposal during news broadcast earns YTA judgement

Proposal mishap advice: make it up to her with a special date night

Redo your proposal with sincerity and thoughtfulness.
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Proposal lacked consideration for partner’s feelings. YTA

Proposal lacked the wow factor, try again with clear communication
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Proposal in front of TV deemed ‘lazy’ by commenter.

Communication is key, especially when proposing on a trip

Frozen 2 proposal vibes but NAH, reactions differ.

Communication is key in a successful relationship

Proposal fail, but NAH. Suggestions for a better do-over proposal.

Proposing while watching the news? YTA, lightly. Consider her wishes.

User calls out OP for lack of effort in proposal. YTA.

Spontaneous proposal gone wrong, YTA for not making effort at home

Spontaneous lockdown proposal deemed ‘thoughtless’ by commenters.

Spontaneous proposal in pyjamas followed by classier proposal later

Redeem yourself, OP! Plan a special proposal with a heartfelt speech ❤️

Unsure about proposal expectations? Communication is key

Disappointing couch proposal leaves commenter feeling jipped
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Proposal lacked effort according to commenter.

Low effort proposal earns YTA judgement from commenter.

A proposal during a losing football game? Not very romantic.

Proposal fail: Commenter suggests better options for romantic proposal

Plan a thoughtful proposal without leaving the house

Spontaneous proposal gone wrong, but can be fixed with effort ❤

Spontaneous proposal during the news goes wrong, but love prevails ❤️

Spontaneous proposal fail – NAH but tears are allowed during pandemic

Spontaneous proposal gone wrong, but cute AF according to commenter
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User questions crying girlfriend’s overreaction to proposal rejection.

NAH, but rushed proposal upset partner’s expectations. Apologize and plan do-over
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Proposal didn’t go as planned, suggest a redo for photos

Spontaneous proposal fail gets called out for lack of effort

Defending the proposal but acknowledging individual preferences. NAH

Forgiveness and understanding in weird times

Spontaneous proposal on a couch goes wrong, NAH but upset girlfriend

Plan a romantic post-pandemic proposal with a photographer

Don’t wait for the perfect moment, create one. YTA.

NAH. Proposal should be meaningful, not necessarily grandiose.

Spontaneous proposal gone wrong, but better than a ridiculous one. NAH.

Spontaneous proposal during TV time gone wrong, NAH regrets missed opportunity.
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Lockdown proposal? NAH, bad idea bud

Proposal during pandemic: mixed feelings and open communication.

NAH verdict on proposal gone wrong, suggest a redo later

Couple’s simple proposal upsets friend seeking grand romantic gestures

Spontaneous proposal regret: NAH suggests a do-over with more planning
