Meet our 31-year-old hero, a single, childfree man who recently became the proud owner of his great grandmother’s farmhouse. A deal too good to resist, he took on the project of restoring the 80-year-old property, complete with 15 acres of land. But it’s not just the house that needs fixing, it’s also his family’s expectations. His mother and sister had different plans for the ‘huge’ house, leading to a family feud that’s hotter than a summer in the countryside.
A Farmhouse Bargain
The Restoration Project Begins
The Family’s Expectations
A Hidden Agenda? ️♂️
The Sister’s Struggle
A Cramped Household
Passive-Aggressive Tactics
The Big Fight
The Family Weighs In
The Farmhouse Feud: A Family Torn Apart
Our single, childfree hero finds himself in a sticky situation. After acquiring his great grandmother’s farmhouse, he planned to restore it to its former glory. But his family had other ideas. His mother and sister, living in a cramped house with three kids and a cousin, expected him to open his doors to them. Despite the house being an hour away from their lives, they were ready to uproot everything. But our hero stood his ground, leading to a family feud that’s hotter than a barn fire. Let’s dive into the internet’s take on this farmhouse drama…
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“NTA. Stick to your guns, because if you let them in they may never leave.”
NTA. It’s your house, your decision.
NTA. You’re not obligated to sacrifice your peace for family.
NTA. Sell the house and shut down entitled family members.
NTA. Moving their school seems like a long-term commitment.
NTA. Your sister is not your responsibility . It’s not like she’s homeless; she lives with your mother . Yes, it would be nice if they could spread out in a bigger house, but it’s not your responsibility . Also, op bought this house wanting to renovate and own the land alone , they should’ve brought up the fact they want op to house 5 extra ppl before op bought the land and already started renovating the rooms ♂️.
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NTA. Grandma’s house: a win-win investment for future generations!
NTA: Don’t let your sister move in, she’s a mooch . Consider taking in teen cousin for help . Put up cameras to protect property .
NTA: Sell the place!
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NTA. Grandma’s assumptions about the house caused family feud.
NTA. Your house, your choice. Don’t let family guilt you.
NTA. Family wants free rent, but boundaries are important.
NTA, being childfree and responsible, don’t let guilt consume you!
NTA. Lead contamination in the house poses a danger to kids
Sister wants to move in rent-free, but won’t contribute financially?
NTA, it’s your house! Consider the 15M, but not the kids ♂️
NTA: Building a ‘huge’ house sparks family feud, but OP is determined
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NTA. Offer land to sister for future manufactured home.
“NTA. Propose a deal to your sister: either she buys it from you for a fair price, or you put the house on the market. Avoid unnecessary family drama. “
NTA. Your house, your rules. Mom needs to stand up.
NTA! Protect your house and boundaries. Don’t let them in!
NTA. Living solo, setting boundaries, and avoiding others’ family drama.
NTA: Sister’s not your responsibility.
NTA. Your house, your rules.
Entitled family expects OP to solve all their problems. NTA
NTA. Don’t let judgment hold you back from enjoying life
Your house, your rules. NTA for setting boundaries.
Property dispute: Locks changed, tensions rise
NTA. Renovate your house the way you want and enjoy it!
Stand your ground! You have the right to your property.
Not the a**hole. Let’s hear the juicy details!
Escape the drama! Sell the house and start fresh!
NTA: Ask if they’re paying the mortgage.
NTA: Boundaries are important. Don’t let family take advantage.
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“NTA. Sell the house and move to a place that is not ‘family property’. “
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NTA. Concerns about becoming full-time caregiver and financial burden.
NTA: Boundaries are important. Your house, your rules.
Parental responsibility: Who should pay for adult children?
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NTA. Complicated situation, offer to sell back house to grandma
Boundaries are important. Stand your ground and ignore the drama.
NTA: Family didn’t help with restoration, tell them to GGF
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Renovate, sell, profit!
Grandma’s house: Family feud over ownership and money. NTA.
NTA. Strongly disagree with the house.
NTA: Your house, your rules. Family can find their own place.
You’re not responsible for your sister’s struggles. Take care!
Grandma’s property: Selfish or sensible? NTA stands firm.
NTA – You own the house, no assumptions allowed!
NTA. Your property, your rules. No need to please others.
Grandma’s house plan causes sibling rivalry.
NTA. Your house, your decision. Don’t let family guilt you.
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Don’t do it! They’ll never leave!
Family feud over house inheritance: Who’s selfish or sensible?
Expectations can lead to misunderstandings and disappointments. Communicate clearly!
“NTA: If it’s ‘family’ property, they should pitch in “
NTA: Set boundaries or become an accidental parent.
Setting boundaries: NTA stands up for personal space and freedom!
Sibling rivalry: Who should have bought the ‘huge’ house?
NTA: Work hard, don’t let freeloaders run your life!
