Meet our debt-averse hero, a 29-year-old man who despises the shackles of debt with every fiber of his being. He’s worked hard to maintain a debt-free life, aggressively paying off loans and even buying a house with the aim of paying it off in record time. But when his carefree girlfriend, also 29, moves into his house with a mountain of debt and a nonchalant attitude, things take a dramatic turn. Let’s delve into this tale of love, debt, and a deal gone wrong.
The Debt-Detesting Hero ♂️
The Debt-Laden Damsel ♀️
The Grand Debt-Free Deal
The Unexpected Debt Collector Call
The Shocking Revelation
The Marriage Misunderstanding
The Three Tough Choices
The Hasty Exit
The Aftermath ️
The Final Stand ️
Love, Debt, and a Deal Gone Wrong: Who’s the Real Villain Here?
In this rollercoaster of a love story, our debt-hating protagonist finds himself in a pickle. His girlfriend, living rent-free in his house, was supposed to use her salary to pay off her debts. But a surprise call from a debt collector reveals she’s let her debts slide into default, expecting him to foot the bill once they’re married. He gives her three choices: stick to their original deal, pay him back for the months he’s unknowingly funded her lifestyle, or leave. She chooses to leave, sparking a flurry of calls from friends and family accusing him of being too controlling. Is he the villain for standing his ground, or is she the freeloader taking advantage of his generosity? Let’s see what the internet thinks… ️♂️
She sees you as her bank , run while you can! NTA
Run. She treats him like a bank, not a partner.
NTA. Girlfriend stopped paying debt, using you for money
NTA. Shocked by girlfriend’s selfishness. Time for mutual counseling.
Debt-free vs. enjoying life: A CPA’s perspective on financial balance
“NTA for upholding arrangement. She’s TA for defaulting payments.”
NTA. Gold digging? This drama is unreal!
She broke the deal and lied. Fundamental ideology difference. NTA
Dealing with debt drama? Get ahead of it now!
NTA and Yike. Reconsidering marriage?
Financial trust is key to a successful relationship.
NTA. Offering a deal, securing a strong future, stick to guns.
NTA: Maturely coming up with a plan to pay off debts
NTA! Surprising twist, you’re not the a**hole. Beware marriage!
GF’s family and friends force him to pay her debt? NTA
NTA. Money differences causing relationship problems. Time to move on?
NTA. Girlfriend took advantage of your generosity and disregarded agreement
Helping with finances can lead to unforeseen drama
NTA. Girlfriend expects you to pay for everything, time to leave.
NTA. Agreement broken. Drama unfolds. Relationship at stake.
Commenter warns against dating someone financially irresponsible
Gasping aloud! NTA, run from this irresponsible, deceitful woman
“Finances and priorities causing relationship drama. Time to move on?”
“NTA. Paying off debt together, but she’s being taken advantage of.”
NTA: Girlfriend broke agreement, prioritized free living over debt repayment
OP sets boundary on debt, offers solution. NTA, steer clear!
“NTA She agreed to the deal and then lied about it “
Debt is a deal breaker, trust is essential
Debt-ridden man seeks help, but is he really NTA?
NTA, break off. She’ll keep getting into debt. Move on.
NTA – Don’t let her deceive you, it’s time to leave
Generous and reasonable – you’re definitely NTA in this situation!
NTA offers amazing deal to fast track girlfriend’s debt-free life
NTA: Partner sees you as a bank balance Break up!
NTA: Relationship advice – discuss future goals or move on
Escape the debt trap! ♂️ Leave this irresponsible partner behind!
NTA: Girlfriend responsible for own debts after moving out
NTA! Commenter is furious at girlfriend’s irresponsible behavior.
Reasonable conditions to help her, accused of being selfish. NTA.
NTA. Financial differences may doom relationship. Cut your losses now.
Generous NTA seeks financial advice and therapy for girlfriend’s debt
Are they using him? The worst question sparks drama!
NTA. Financial values are crucial in relationships. Count your blessings!
NTA. Girlfriend broke agreement, can’t trust her. Who’s controlling now?
Generous offer to help with finances turns into unexpected drama
Escape the drama! You deserve better
Escape the financial nightmare! Break up and save yourself!
NTA: Girlfriend lied, manipulated, and disrespected you. You deserve better
Gold digger alert! NTA takes a stand against debt ️
Commenter disagrees with girlfriend’s entitled attitude towards finances. NTA
NTA: Debt can be a dealbreaker, but consider all perspectives
Partner’s anti-debt stance sparks entitlement drama. Grateful or entitled?
Generous NTA offers deal, ex-SO ungrateful.
Run, dude! She’s using you for money. You deserve better!
Dump her and move on!
NTA: People need to mind their own business
Last Updated on January 11, 2024 by Diply Social Team