Imagine living with your significant other, sharing chores, and believing everything is going smoothly. But then, your partner starts accusing you of not doing your fair share of the housework. This is the story of a 25-year-old man who found himself in a tough situation with his girlfriend, Anne. After being accused of not contributing equally to the chores, he decided to use their home security cameras to prove his innocence. However, this move led to an unexpected turn of events.
The Perfect Couple?

Moving In Together

Camera Details

Chore Complaints Begin

Chore Nazi

Aggressive Remarks

Doubting His Own Memory

Not His Maid!

Desperate for Proof ️♂️

Vindication!

Confronting Anne

Breaking Up

Friends Take Sides

Self-Doubt Creeps In

Love, Lies, and Security Cameras: Who’s the Real Villain Here? ♂️
Our heartbroken protagonist found himself in a whirlwind of accusations, gaslighting, and self-doubt. Desperate to prove his innocence, he turned to their home security cameras, only to have his actions labeled as an invasion of privacy. Now, with their relationship in shambles and friends taking sides, he’s left questioning if he’s the one who’s truly in the wrong. Let’s see what the internet thinks of this dramatic turn of events…
NTA for using security cameras to prove girlfriend’s lies

NTA. Recording exposed girlfriend’s lies and saved him from further manipulation.
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User defends OP’s actions, but friends side with girlfriend. ♂️

Partner uses security cameras to catch lies. NTA behavior?

Girlfriend lied, got caught, and left. Commenters say NTA.


Girlfriend caught lying on camera, commenter says NTA

Exposing lies with cameras: NTA, but a painful breakup tactic

Quarantine boredom leads to ESH judgement, but why the hate?

Is reviewing years of video to prove a point creepy?

Is the girlfriend’s resentment over unacknowledged chores causing the hyperbole?

Dodged a bullet NTA wins this round.

Trust your gut, break up with the gaslighter.

NTA – Discussion on mental load and chore distribution in relationships.

Commenter calls out OP for invading girlfriend’s privacy

Couple keeps tally marks on chores, but is it healthy?

Using security cameras to expose lies in a relationship. NTA.

YTA accused of invasion of privacy and belittling girlfriend’s contributions.

Using security cameras to catch partner is a breach of trust

Girlfriend caught lying on camera, NTA dodged a bullet

ESH. Reddit calls everything abuse, but this is just chores bickering. Going through a year and a half of video to prove a point is an a**hole move, but was it worth it?

Girlfriend caught gaslighting on camera, NTA for exposing her

ESH for not communicating and tallying chores

Commenter suggests girlfriend was looking for an out, advises OP to move on.
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Exposing lies with cameras: NTA or invasion of privacy?

Questioning memories can feel crazy , but important to prove gaslighting

Man catches girlfriend in a lie using security cameras

Digging through years of footage to prove a point? YTA

NTA. Confronted about being wrong, she accused him of stalking

A gentle ESH: Communication is key in relationships

Girlfriend planned breakup and made him the bad guy. ♂️
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ESH for the unnecessary 18 months of surveillance and ridiculousness

Commenter sympathizes with man exposing girlfriend’s lies.

ESH. Looking at the footage alone and throwing it in her face was petty. There could be other underlying issues causing the problem.

Quarantine struggles: Reading Reddit threads to your significant other ♂️

Controlling behavior or justified concern? ESH, with a side of YTA

A commenter believes the couple was already over before the camera incident. ESH ♀️

Man exposes girlfriend’s lies with security cameras, but is it creepy?

Did she use the security footage as an excuse?

NTA exposes gaslighting girlfriend, commenters urge to kick her out

Security camera use questioned, both parties at fault. ESH

Dump the liar You deserve better
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Gender roles debate heats up in comment section
