Picture this: you’re a talented home cook, and your wife claims she’s an amazing cook too, but she’s, well… not. Every month, you and your wife host a dinner for her work friends, and you’re usually the one who cooks up a storm. However, this time you’re fed up with her nagging and complaints, so you decide to let her take the reins and cook the entire meal herself. What could possibly go wrong, right? Well, let’s dive into this husband’s story and see how this dinner party unfolds! ️
Annoyed Husband’s Dilemma

️ Monthly Dinner Tradition

Husband Cooks, Wife… Tries

It Does Make a Difference

Wife’s Complaint

Nagging and Embarrassment

The Menu

An Elaborate Feast

Lactose Intolerance and Being Cheap

Fake Emergency

Wife Left to Cook

Preparing for Dinner

Raw, Burnt, or Both

A Different Tune

The Untold Truth

Still the Bad Guy

️ Wife’s Cooking Catastrophe
Our fed-up husband decides to let his wife handle the entire cooking process for their monthly dinner party with her work friends. He even goes as far as faking a family emergency to get out of the house and leave her to cook. The menu is elaborate and delicious-sounding, but when he returns home with the kids, he finds that the food is either raw, burnt, or a combination of both! Her friends probably went to McDonald’s after that dinner because there were so many leftovers. Now, his wife is blaming him for the whole fiasco, saying he abandoned her when he’s the one who knows how to cook. Our husband hasn’t told her the truth about the fake emergency, and he’s wondering if he’s the bad guy in this situation. So, what does the internet think about this cooking catastrophe? Let’s find out!
NTA for sabotaging dinner party, but time to reflect

A cautionary tale about realizing wrongs after it’s too late

Agree! Communication is key to divide chores fairly and effectively.

A sympathetic comment with a touch of humor

Spotlighting the importance of recognizing emotional abuse in relationships.

Chef defends OP’s actions, praises their skills, and offers advice

NTA husband stands up for himself and calls out wife’s complaints

Don’t let status ruin a good time

Unhealthy relationship dynamic and mutual assholery. ♂️

“Relationship struggles summed up in one sentence” ♀️

OP learns wife’s true colors in disastrous dinner party

Sneaky sabotage or boss move? Not the a-hole, apparently.

Cooking NTA, but lying and bad example is AH

Cooking lesson learned, NTA strikes back at micromanaging spouse

Cooking for ungrateful friends? NTA

Foodie seeks dinner party invite, calls out both spouses’ behavior.

Gender bias in judgement? NTA for sabotaged dinner party
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User defends husband’s cooking abilities and criticizes wife’s behavior.

NTA commenter suggests couples counseling for immature partner’s behavior.

Advice for strained marriage due to elaborate meals

Communicate openly and stop the kabuki theater. YTA.

Regretful commenter advises marriage counseling for burnt food sabotage

Brutally honest comment shuts down toxic couple’s argument
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A wholesome reminder of what marriage should be about ♥

Encouraging emotional expression can improve relationships
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Cooking a meal for 7 hours? That’s a recipe for disaster

Marriage sabotage: a burnt dinner party and a point proven

Harsh truth about a toxic relationship with poor communication
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Marital drama and immaturity in full display. ♂️

Honesty is key. Have a conversation or seek therapy

Man spends 7 hours cooking, sabotages wife’s party. YTA confirmed

When marriage becomes a life sentence

A scathing comment calling out the husband’s destructive behaviour.

Trolling or not, calling out spouse online is YTA

Redditor defends OP but hates Reddit drama

Marriage or competition? Communication and counseling needed for resolution.

Engaging comment on being considerate while hosting dinner parties.

Marriage in shambles, dinner party gone wrong

NTA but wasting your breath and time, reevaluate relationship

Cooking skills clash: NTA asserts right to kitchen expertise

NTA, but counseling or separation may be necessary

Distancing self from wife’s sabotage was the right call

Warning signs of a potential narcissist spouse with parenting concerns

Standing up for oneself in a toxic marriage. NTA

Man defends himself against wife’s complaints about cooking abilities.

Speak up and confront your wife’s self-centeredness to avoid resentment

Dealing with insufferable people

A wise comment on marriage and communication
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Sneaky sabotage leads to resentment instead of growth. Therapy advised.

Petty revenge doesn’t belong in a marriage. ESH

Soft YTA. Put your guests through unnecessary inconvenience and discomfort

Spouse claims emergency, blames husband; learns he’s not the problem.

Couples counseling can improve communication and save your relationship ❤

NTA: Commenter sympathizes with the husband’s marriage struggles.

Supportive comment offers insight into host’s behavior and personality

A soft YTA for lying, but wife’s behavior is concerning

Cooking on high? NTA for sabotaging dinner party

Malicious compliance leads to a happy family dinner

Impressed commenter supports OP and suggests counseling for the couple

Grateful wife praises husband’s cooking and helpfulness around the house ❤

Supportive comment urges communication with spouse, with a touch of secrecy

Dating a biotechnician is tough But NTA wins!

Complimentary comment on menu, but sympathy for wife’s cooking skills.
