Imagine being in a relationship for seven years, and your partner is obsessed with marriage. You’re not sure if you want to get married, but after breaking up and realizing you want them in your life, you propose. Fast forward a few years, and your ex is getting married to someone else, and your mom wants her engagement ring back for the wedding. What would you do? This is the dilemma one man found himself in, and his decision has sparked quite the debate. Let’s dive into the story!
The 7-Year Relationship ️

Marriage Ultimatum

The Breakup

The Proposal

Second Thoughts

The End of the Relationship

Mela’s New Love

Mom Wants Her Ring

The Refusal ❌

Family Drama

Nasty Emails

Family Torn Apart Over Ring
So here’s the situation: our protagonist refused to return his mom’s engagement ring, which he had given to his ex-girlfriend Mela before they broke up. Now, Mela is marrying someone else, and his mom wants the ring back for the wedding. However, he doesn’t want to give it back, fearing it would make Mela feel bad. His family is furious, calling him selfish and a brat, and he’s been receiving nasty emails from relatives. What a tangled web of emotions! Let’s see what the internet thinks of this situation…
Return the ring, YTA. Don’t be a ring thief

Man called out for not returning family heirloom. YTA.

YTA for not returning the ring. Move on gracefully

User calls out selfishness of man refusing to return ring

Man refuses to return mom’s ring, called out for selfishness
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Man refuses to return mom’s ring after ex’s wedding. Commenter calls him petty.

Return the ring, YTA. Don’t be petty

Man refuses to return mom’s ring – YTA and acting like a brat

Return the ring, YTA. Don’t ruin your relationship with Mom

Return the ring, YTA. Your mom deserves better

Return the ring to your mom and move on. YTA

Man refuses to return mom’s ring after breakup, labeled YTA

Man refuses to return mom’s ring. Commenter calls him YTA.

Man refuses to return mom’s ring. Commenter calls him out.

Return the ring, YTA. Don’t be a ring hoarder

Man refuses to return mom’s ring. Commenter calls him YTA.

Man refuses to return mom’s ring after ex’s wedding

User calls out OP for being selfish and not returning ring

User calls out selfish behavior, urges return of ring.

Return the ring, YTA. Your ex is getting married

User defends bride, calls out OP’s commitment issues. YTA

“What are you going to do with it anyway?” YTA

Man refuses to return heirloom ring, called out for being TA

YTA should return the ring to his mom.

Return the ring to your mom, YTA.

Return the ring, YTA ♂️

Man refuses to return engagement ring. Commenters say YTA.

Return the ring, YTA. Stop making excuses and move on

Return the ring. YTA and would lose in court.
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Man’s ex’s new lavish wedding overshadows mom’s ring gift

Reality check for entitled ex who won’t return heirloom ring

Return the ring, YTA. It’s not yours to keep

User called out for refusing to accept verdict.

Former fiancé’s ring? YTA, keep it and look tacky

Mom’s ring isn’t a consolation prize. YTA.

Return the ring, YTA. Don’t hoard it out of spite

Return the ring! YTA for not following the condition.

Choosing a ring over a happy mother? YTA indeed

Man accused of theft and jealousy over ex’s wedding ring

Man refuses to return ring to mom after ex’s wedding

User calls out man for keeping mom’s ring, labels him YTA.

YTA regrets not taking ex’s marriage desires seriously

User questions why man won’t return family engagement ring.

YTA refuses to return mom’s ring and makes ridiculous excuse

Man refuses to return ring to ex-girlfriend, called out by commenter.

Return your mom’s ring, YTA.

Enraged man refuses to return mom’s ring after ex’s wedding. YTA.

Man refuses to return mom’s ring after ex’s wedding. YTA and be prepared for a lawsuit. Engagement/wedding = ring.

Man refuses to return mother’s ring for ex’s wedding. YTA.
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Man refuses to return mother’s ring – comment calls him out

Supportive comment on ex’s happiness after breakup

Man refuses to return mother’s ring after ex’s lavish wedding

Redditor calls out OP for being stubborn and insensitive

Man refuses to return mom’s ring. Commenters think he’s TA

Man refuses to return mom’s ring, causing rift in relationships

User calls out man for refusing to return mother’s ring

Return the ring and stop being a brat. YTA

User calls out OP for being selfish and declares YTA!

Let it go! Return the ring and move on. #YTA
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Man refuses to return mom’s ring, YTA according to comment.

Return the ring, YTA. Don’t be selfish.

Man refuses to return mother’s engagement ring. YTA big time

User calls out OP for not returning mom’s ring. YTA.

Return the ring to your mom. YTA.

Time to move on and return the ring, YTA.

Curious commenter questions motive behind ring refusal.

Return your mom’s ring, YTA. Congrats to the newlyweds!

Ex’s wedding doesn’t justify keeping mom’s ring. YTA

Return your mother’s ring, YTA!

User defends ex-girlfriend, calls out OP for being immature.

Ring drama: Commenter calls out OP for losing ring. YTA.
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Redditor suggests honesty and apology to resolve ring issue

Man keeps Mom’s ring meant for ex-fiancée. Commenters say YTA.

User calls out entitled behavior in ring dispute. YTA.

Mom’s ring, not yours. You stole it. YTA
