A man has refused to meet his ex-girlfriend for closure. The man has made his peace and is focusing on creating memories with his wife and family. His ex-girlfriend cheated on him with a friend before they split up. He went to therapy after the break-up and eventually met and married his wife. Now, his ex wants to meet to apologize and have closure, but the man has declined the invitation. His family and his ex-girlfriend’s family are pressuring him to meet, but his wife is on his side. Read on to find out why the man believes he was an a**hole for telling his ex that she’ll have to live without her closure.
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A man with limited time left on Earth has refused his ex’s offer of closure. Despite his family’s urging, the man has chosen to focus on spending his remaining time with his wife and family instead of opening up old wounds. He had previously made peace with his past and sees no benefit in seeing his ex again. However, his decision has caused tension within his family, with some believing he was insensitive in his rejection. His wife stands by him and has even confronted his father for making things more complicated for him. The man remains steadfast in his decision and hopes to make the most of his time with his loved ones. The situation has brought up the question of whether closure is always necessary, especially when it comes at the cost of one’s mental and emotional well-being. Read on for reactions and opinions from others.
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NTA. Ex wants closure for herself, not for OP. Selfish.
Supportive commenters wish OP the best and share similar sentiments. ❤️
NTA! Emotional maturity and support while facing mortality.
Closure through therapy is the way
Closure denied to cheating ex – comment wins awards
Ex’s desire for closure is selfish and has nothing to do with caring.
NTA. You don’t owe her a d**n thing. SHE owes you respect.
Take back control of your life! NTA for refusing closure.
Ex refuses to meet for closure, commenter supports decision.
Take control of your time, don’t let your ex manipulate you
Life is too short, NTA for refusing to meet ex
Closure denied: Bojack Horseman scene reminds commenter of ex encounter
NTA. Closure shouldn’t be conditional. She’s being selfish and disrespectful. ♀️
Take control of your closure, ignore the guilt trip ♂️
Cheating is never acceptable. You deserve closure and peace. ✌️
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Ex’s closure request is about her, not you. NTA
Closure denied: Brutally honest breakup message sparks support ❤️
NAH for not meeting ex for closure, but ex seeking amends.
Move on and forget about it ♂️
Accepting an apology can be tough, but NTA!
Stand your ground, you don’t owe anyone closure
Heartbreaking story of lost love and missed closure ❤️
Ex causing unnecessary grief, you’re NTA for setting boundaries
Ex seeking closure, but OP prioritizing mental health ♂️
Closure is overrated. This comment nails why
Choosing closure is a personal decision. NTA ❤️
No closure? No problem! ♂️ You’re NTA!
Suggesting therapy for closure, NTA handled it well ♂️
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Don’t let her back in, you deserve better
Exes are exes for a reason ♀️
Closure is overrated. NTA for prioritizing your peace of mind
Giving your ex closure is your choice. NTA
Stand your ground and enjoy your last few months!
Prioritize your happiness. NTA for refusing to meet ex.
Refusing closure request from ex on deathbed, NTA wins hearts ❤️
Bojack Horseman knows best – you don’t owe closure. NTA
Moving on and wishing the best.
No obligation to meet ex for closure – NTA
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Respectful closure, move on
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Move on, she’s irrelevant! Enjoy your life!
Ex apologizes only because he’s dying, NTA. No funeral invite.
Don’t give in to your ex’s grief p**n. NTA
You owe her nothing, NTA. Don’t let others change that
Don’t waste precious time on someone else’s closure.
Former partner’s attempt at closure before death. NAH.
Sleeping in the bed she made
Ex gets what she deserves, no closure needed
Stand your ground! NTA and parents need to back off ♂️
Commenter gets sidetracked by ex’s hot screams
Closure or ulterior motives? NTA chooses to move on
Ex wants closure but OP says they’re NTA for refusing.
Ex seeks absolution, but OP owes her nothing. NTA ✨
Declining an apology from a toxic ex is valid. NTA ♀️
No apologies needed. NTA
Refusing closure to a cheater – NTA
Last Updated on April 7, 2023 by Michele Lang
