Picture this: a beautiful family property, passed down through generations, has become the go-to spot for weddings and gatherings. But when one man (27M) inherits the property from his grandpa, he finds himself in the middle of a family feud. His cousin (28F) is getting married for the second time, and she expects to use the property for her wedding reception. The problem? The man doesn’t support the wedding and hasn’t even been asked for permission! Let’s dive into this family drama and see what unfolds.
The Family Property
Wedding Reception Tradition
Inheritance Drama
Grandpa’s Beliefs
The Second Wedding
The Unasked Permission ❓
Not Supporting the Wedding
The Reason Why
The Cheating Scandal
Time and Money
The Confrontation
The Guilt Trip
Standing His Ground ⛔
Christmas Ultimatum
Dad’s Judgment ♂️
Caught in a Family Feud
With tensions running high, our property owner finds himself stuck between a rock and a hard place. He’s trying to honor his grandpa’s wishes, but his family isn’t making it easy. His cousin’s second wedding is causing quite a stir, and he’s not even sure he wants to be involved. As the drama continues to unfold, we can’t help but wonder: what will the family do next? Let’s see what the internet thinks of this situation…
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Family drama ensues as commenters debate if OP is NTA.
Commenter calls out OP’s regressive views and behavior as TA
NTA for not supporting cheating cousin’s 2nd wedding, but watch out for underlying sexism from grandpa.
ESH, but OP’s reasons kind of suck ♂️
ESH. Cousin assumed property use without asking. Judgmental OP and grandpa.
Commenter says OP is NTA but an AH in life
Op is right but being an a**hole about it
Legal, but still an a**hole move. Family inheritance drama
NTA for refusing cousin’s wedding, but AH in general.
Family drama over Christmas at ‘their’ property
OP is encouraged to stand their ground and enjoy their home . NTA
Commenter acknowledges OP’s right to property but criticizes their sexist behavior
Family property dispute turns ugly with moral and sexist undertones
Controlling women? YTA. Let her have her wedding day
Inheritance sexism causes family drama over wedding venue
Commenter calls out OP for not being honest with family
NTA for refusing, but YTA for hiding behind grandfather
Commenter finds humor in mother’s audacious Christmas invite threat
Cousin and aunt assumed entitlement to use property. NTA.
Commenter calls out family’s sexist beliefs, labels them all AHs
Commenter defends NTA verdict, sparks backlash with ‘misogyny’ accusation
Your house, your rules. NTA
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Setting boundaries is important. NTA for not allowing entitlement.
NTA for refusing property use, but AH for reasons given
Respectful NTA comment sets boundaries with family over property use.
NTA for not letting cousin use property for wedding, but problematic views.
Setting boundaries and demanding respect from entitled family members.
Set boundaries early on. NTA for enforcing them
Commenter calls out OP’s misogyny in denying property use
NTA for denying access to family property, but watch your biases.
Commenter calls out OP’s misogyny in denying cousin’s wedding
Property owner has final say, NTA comment section agrees
Respectful NTA comment defends property rights with a caveat.
Morals shouldn’t be for sale, even if she pays for it.
Standing up for family property rights. NTA wins.
Family feud over property and holidays
Cousin assumed venue without asking, but OP’s sexist reasoning ESH
Commenter calls out OP for being a judgmental a**hole
Asserting property rights: NTA holds off cousin’s wedding
ESH. Judgmental OP, entitled family, potential drama and resentment
Setting boundaries with entitled family members. NTA, but consequences.
Boundaries set for entitled cousin’s second wedding.
Defending moral compass against YTA votes
Support for NTA who refuses to let cousin use property.
Commenter thinks OP is not the a**hole for denying property use, but disagrees with reasoning
Cousin had affair, but OP’s reasoning is flawed. ESH
Outdated beliefs and lack of communication lead to AH behavior ♀️
NTA but don’t use antiquated notions to justify saying no
Judgmental owner and entitled couple clash over wedding venue ♂️
Short and sweet: Commenter supports homeowner’s decision with a
Claim your property, NTA!
Respectful NTA comment defends property rights with clear reasoning
Commenter is torn between ESH and NTA, calls out sexist grandpa and trashy cousin. ♀️
Asserting property rights, NTA but also AN AH.
NTA but don’t judge your cousin for her past decisions
Generational differences in values lead to NTA decision
Standing up for family property rights against sexist accusations
Asserting property rights, no need for reason. NTA wins.
Cousin wants a second wedding on family property. NTA says commenter.
NTA – Cousin can find another venue
You have the right to say no to family events
