Imagine being a loving uncle, trying to help your niece have a little fun during a tough time, only to have your sister snatch the money away for her own wedding! That’s exactly what happened to our 41-year-old protagonist, who was left fuming when his sister took the $200 he gave his niece for a night out and used it for her own wedding fund. As a result, he decided to withdraw the whopping $10,000 he had planned to gift his sister for her big day. But was he in the wrong? Let’s dive into this family drama and find out!
A Struggling Niece and a New Marriage

No More Allowance for the Niece

A Generous Offer from Uncle

Sister Steals the Money!

Confronting the Sister

Withdrawing the Wedding Gift

Sister Breaks Down

Looking After Her Daughter?

Wife’s Advice and Ex’s Input

A History of Helping Niece

Should He Have Withdrawn the Wedding Gift? ♂️
Our protagonist is caught in a whirlwind of emotions as he tries to do right by his niece, only to have his sister snatch the money away for her wedding. He’s left wondering if withdrawing the $10,000 wedding gift was too harsh, especially considering his sister’s pregnancy and the pressure she might be under. But, with a history of helping his niece without issue, is it fair for his sister to take advantage of his generosity? Let’s see what the internet thinks of this situation…
Commenters suggest taking in niece and skipping sister’s wedding.

Commenter sympathizes with sister’s situation, but calls her out.

NTA for refusing to fund sister’s wedding after she snatched daughter’s money
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NTA but niece needs someone on her side

Sister snatches money for wedding, NTA for refusing to fund.

Sister snatches money from daughter, NTA gives to niece instead

Sister demands daughter pay for raising her, then wants wedding funds? NTA

Supportive comment validates OP’s decision to not fund sister’s wedding.
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Sister snatches money from daughter, OP refuses to fund wedding
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NTA. Sister stole from daughter, lost 10K wedding funding.

Suggests setting up trust for niece’s college fund to spite sister

NTA and hopefully you can take your Niece in , her mother isn’t prioritising her daughter.

Sister steals from daughter to fund wedding, NTA for refusing.

Sister’s neglect of daughter’s grief warrants niece’s support, not sister’s wedding.

Protecting the niece’s future with a wise financial decision

Commenter sympathizes with OP and criticizes sister’s toxic behavior

Mother stealing from her child is despicable. NTA, protect the niece.

Sister steals from niece, brother refuses to fund wedding ❌

Protecting family from toxic behavior
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Suggests taking in niece and having a gentle conversation with sister

Selfish sister snatches money from daughter, NTA saves for niece

Sister snatches money from daughter, NTA suggests college fund instead.

Mother snatches money from daughter, commenter advises to look out for niece. NTA

Aunt rightfully withholds gift after sister steals from niece

Sister snatches daughter’s money for wedding, NTA refuses to pay

NTA. Sister steals from niece, expects wedding funding. Cut her off.

Mother demands money from her daughter, gets called out for it

Sister steals 200 from daughter, asks for 10k. NTA refuses.

Protecting niece’s inheritance from sister’s wedding greed.

NTA. Commenter highlights the responsibility of parents towards their children. Reply shares personal experience and emphasizes the importance of treating kids right.

NTA defends against entitled parenting and offers helpful advice.

Adopt your niece and be a wonderful uncle!

NTA and savage! Keep the niece, dump the sister
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Sister snatches money from daughter, NTA refuses to fund wedding

Commenter predicts a bleak future for niece if sister gets married.

Aunt’s NTA verdict leads to niece’s living arrangements questioned

Stealing from her own daughter for a lavish wedding? NTA.

Weddings bring out the worst in people. NTA.

Commenter calls out entitled sister, suggests steel-toed boots

Commenter supports man’s decision not to fund sister’s wedding

Mother stealing child’s money for wedding is unconscionable

NTA commenter suggests taking niece due to sister’s behavior

Take your niece home! NTA comment section agrees

Sister’s poor parenting leads to brother’s refusal to fund wedding

Curious commenter questions suspiciously fast post-widowhood relationship

Commenter criticizes sister’s wedding and suggests niece move in.

Generous gift given, no obligation for more. NTA.

Sister snatches daughter’s money for wedding, NTA considers custody

Niece’s well-being should come first, not sister’s wedding

A shocking story of family betrayal and revenge

NTA refuses to fund sister’s wedding after she snatches money

Commenter supports man’s decision not to fund sister’s wedding

Sister steals from niece, commenter says NTA for refusing funds

NTA suggests saving money for niece’s future, not sister’s wedding

Heartbreaking situation for the niece, consider offering her help ❤️

NTA suggests a helpful solution for the niece’s wedding gift
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Comparing them to Matilda characters

Sister steals from daughter, brother refuses to fund wedding

OP refuses to fund sister’s wedding after she snatches niece’s money
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Sister steals from niece and expects wedding funds? NTA, OP

NTA suggests getting custody of niece and claiming child support

Sister snatches $200 from child, expects $10K wedding gift.

NTA for refusing to fund sister’s wedding after she stole from her daughter

NTA, but niece’s college fund should be prioritized
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NTA. Family drama and a tempting offer to keep niece.

Compassionate comment suggests taking in niece for stable environment

Sister steals from grieving neice, commenter suggests temporary guardianship.

NTA. Keep the niece, lose the sister.

NTA. Consider taking in your niece and providing a stable home
