Imagine being in a terrible car accident at the age of 14 and spending nearly a month in the hospital recovering. The trauma leaves you with an intense fear of driving, and you’ve managed to build a life around walking everywhere. Now, your girlfriend of five years loses her license and demands you face your fears and drive her around. What would you do?
The Accident That Changed Everything

A Life Built Around Walking

GF’s Persistence on Driving

Years of Arguments

A Night Out with Friends

GF’s Drinking and Driving

Losing Her License

The Ultimatum

Facing His Fears

GF’s New Expectations

Standing His Ground

Walking: A Solution

GF’s Anger

Fearful Driver vs. Demanding GF: Who’s in the Wrong? ♂️
After a life-altering car accident, our protagonist has built a life around walking everywhere. His girlfriend, however, loses her license and demands he face his fears and drive her around. He stands his ground, reminding her that everything is within walking distance, just like he’s been doing for years. Now, she’s furious and badmouthing him to everyone. Let’s see what the internet thinks of this situation…
NTA. Commenters advise leaving entitled and blaming girlfriend. Therapy recommended.
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NTA refuses to chauffeur GF who got DUI. Commenters agree.

Commenter gives NTA judgement and drops a mic

NTA’s gf is immature and manipulative ♂️

NTA. GF pressures traumatized partner to drive, drinks and argues.

NTA – Ditch her, she’s manipulative as f**k
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Why is OP still with her? Replies suggest a bad relationship.

NTA for refusing to chauffeur GF after her DUI

Commenter advises dumping girlfriend due to her behavior.

NTA for not chauffeuring GF who lost license due to DUI

NTA and she sounds TERRIBLE. Consider carefully staying with her

NTA. Being afraid of driving can lead to dangerous situations

Commenter advises OP to seek therapy and conquer fear.

Commenter questions why man stays with irresponsible girlfriend

Stand your ground and let her face the consequences

NTA points out GF’s recklessness and suggests reconsidering relationship

Traumatized commenter receives NTA judgement for refusing to drive girlfriend.

Commenter calls out OP and curses in disapproval.

Curious about the impact of GF’s license loss on relationship

Commenter calls out OP for staying with GF for license.

Commenter supports OP’s decision and uses caution emoji.

Therapy can help conquer fears and find healthy relationships.

Setting boundaries and facing fears. Valid concerns about relationship.

Dump her! NTA refuses to chauffeur unpleasant GF.

“Bye” GF gives ultimatum, BF calls her bluff

Break up with ultimatum-giving GF to avoid manipulation

NTA. She’s a leech who emotionally abuses you. Time to let go.

NTA: Immature, irresponsible, and manipulative. Red flags everywhere.

NTA. Having a license is handy, she needs to grow up

User questions if girlfriend had been driving them around before, potential ESH.

Beware of the red flags, NTA has a point.

NTA. Commenter points out controlling, dangerous, and manipulative behavior.

Questioning the validity of the girlfriend’s license

Curious commenter asks about license acquisition

Ouch! Harsh comment, but is there truth to it?

NTA stands firm against GF’s DUI consequences

Offering to drive is a good gesture

Overcoming trauma before driving is important

Dump the blame gamer. She’s not worth the effort

NTA for refusing to chauffeur GF who lost license

NTA comment: Taking out the trash, but it’s still stinking
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NTA for refusing to chauffeur GF after she lost license

NTA for not chauffeuring, but why stay with an abuser?

Dump her and get therapy. NTA

Consider leaving: commenter advises after partner’s license loss

NTA stands strong against psycho GF, therapy recommended for OP

NTA for not driving if you don’t feel safe

Boyfriend or Uber driver?

Traumatized man not at fault for refusing reckless girlfriend

Commenter sympathizes with OP but advises therapy for PTSD. ♂️

NTA. Let her go , don’t chauffeur her

Support for refusing to chauffeur drunk driver girlfriend

NTA, therapy may help overcome fear of driving. GF may not be supportive

Overcoming driving anxiety after an accident. NTA for leaving.

NTA, prioritize your well-being and seek therapy for PTSD

NTA who suffered trauma, pressured to get license, dumps selfish GF
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Dump her or accept mistreatment? Tough love in the comments

Commenter supports OP and suggests therapy for driving anxiety.

Choosing not to be a chauffeur is a personal choice

NTA, quick exit strategy recommended

Short and to the point.

NTA for refusing to chauffeur GF after she lost license . Driving is scary and her behavior is unacceptable

Savage! A clear message from this NTA comment.

Overcoming driving anxiety takes time and therapy, not nagging

Dump the toxic girlfriend and move on. NTA

Overcoming trauma and standing up for yourself in toxic relationships

NTA refuses to chauffeur GF after DUI, sparks debate

Commenter defends man’s decision, calls girlfriend a ‘nightmare’

Commenter advises leaving toxic relationship with strong language

Questioning the relationship status

Think twice before committing to someone who lacks empathy.
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Dump her! You’re NTA for prioritizing your needs.
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NTA sees red flags in this license loss situation.

Refusing to chauffeur partner after license loss is justified.

Dump her , she’s manipulative and doesn’t care. NTA

Find someone who actually likes and respects you

NTA stands up to controlling GF, internet applauds

Overcoming trauma is hard, GF should respect OP’s decision.

NTA dude, confront her about her spoiled nature and manipulative tactics
