Imagine this: You’re celebrating your girlfriend’s birthday at an upscale restaurant. The night is going well until a surprise guest reveals a secret your girlfriend has been keeping from you. She has a child, a fact she never mentioned in the months you’ve been dating. Shocked and angry, you decide to leave, sticking her with a hefty $600 bill. Is this a justified reaction or a jerk move? Let’s dive into this tale of birthday drama and secret children.
The Perfect Arrangement?
Money Matters and Guilt Trips ♀️
A Hidden Secret Revealed!
The Shocking Confirmation
Anger Takes Over ️
The Aftermath: Silence and Guilt ♂️
A Twist of Guilt: Who Suffers?
A Birthday Bash Turned Bitter: Who’s the Real Villain Here?
In a whirlwind of emotions, our conflicted hero finds himself questioning his actions. He left his girlfriend, our secretive planner, with a whopping $600 bill on her birthday after discovering she has a child. While his anger initially justified his actions, he’s now left grappling with guilt, realizing her financial struggles and the potential impact on her child. But who’s really at fault here? The man who left his date with a hefty bill, or the woman who hid a significant part of her life? Let’s delve into the internet’s take on this tangled tale… ️
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Venmo her and move on: NTA, she used him as sugar daddy
NTA: She hid her child for months, it’s all about money
Send half the bill and move on. NTA.
NTA: Not telling someone about having a kid is a jerk move
NTA- Woman takes advantage of man, he leaves money on table.
NTA! Conversation needed. Emotions valid. She’s broke.
FFS. She sucks for not telling you about the daughter.
NTA. Dating someone with kids is a dealbreaker. She hid it.
NTA: Awkward situation, questionable financial situation, and lack of communication.
NTA for not paying after she hid having a kid.
Hidden child raises red flag, but money gesture saves NTA
NTA. Sticking her with the bill was petty
Outrage over $500-600 bill for food! NTA, but seriously, where?
Leaving gf with bill: NTA, she hid kid, actions have consequences
NTA: Girlfriend lied, now she pays for her own tab.
NTA. Leaving her with a $600 bill is nothing compared to everything he spent on her. Also, she lied about having a kid.
NTA: Exposing a deceitful partner, seeking better and honest relationships.
NTA: Valid reaction but could have compensated for leaving.
Splitting the bill: NTA’s Venmo move sparks debate
Freezing and leaving: justified or jerk move? Reimburse her!
NTA for your reaction but send her the money
NTA: Money-hungry girlfriend gets a birthday surprise.
NTA suspects girlfriend of cheating, calls out her promiscuity.
NTA: She hid something big, you deserved an explanation.
Not the a**hole. Let’s hear the juicy details!
NTA. She was using you.
NTA, but did she really pay? Time to settle the bill!
NTA. Paying for dinner as a parting gift.
NTA: Being upfront about having kids is important in dating
NTA: She deceived you and you have every right to leave.
NTA. She’s manipulating you with fake apologies and guilt trips.
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NTA-ESH: Is it fair to hide having a child for 5 months?
Sugar daddy or just a jerk?
NTA – She used you for fancy dates, no long-term intentions.
Not the a**hole: Justified or jerk move?
Send her the money and move on. NTA
NTA: Money as a perk attracts people, but not genuine connections.
Dishonesty sucks! You deserved better on your birthday.
NTA – Long message lacks reasonable explanation. Skeptical about gaslighting.
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NTA – Deception and emotional investment, she owed you the truth.
Lesson learned: Ignoring red flags in relationships can be costly
NTA: Girlfriend or Sugar Baby? ♀️
NTA. Kid talk should happen early. Ridiculous!
NTA: Red flag! Don’t share expenses with someone using you.
NTA: Communication is key in any relationship
NTA: Surprise daughter? That’s a red flag!
NTA. Big red flag for not mentioning having a kid.
NTA. She was faking her guilt.
Huge red flag! NTA, move on. Kids shouldn’t be hidden
CF person refuses to pay, but owes her half. NTA.
Leaving cash on her birthday: NTA or gentlemanly move?
NTA: Splitting the bill on her birthday? That’s cold
Pay the bill and block her. NTA, but leave her hanging?
Cut ties with her, she used you for money. NTA
NTA! She withheld important information and manipulated you. Walk away!
“Ex-girlfriend hid child for months. YTA if she’s stuck.”
NTA, but it’s probably your last date.
Questioning trust: Is hiding a child a red flag?
Sugar Daddy or Partner? NTA, send money and walk away.
Not everyone wants kids. NTA.
NTA: Exposing the lies and cutting off the financial drain.
NTA: Pay up and let it be a lesson learned!
NTA, but pay up!
NTA, but leaving her with the bill was a jerk move
NTA. Admirable move not paying bill. She messed up big time.
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