A man’s fiancée wore inappropriate attire to a work dinner, causing him to go alone. He reminded her of the setting and company, but she refused to change. Was he in the wrong for going alone? Read the story to find out.
Fiancée refuses to dress for work dinner, leaves him solo.

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Man goes to work dinner alone after fiancée refuses to dress appropriately
What is the appropriate attire for a celebratory dinner with your boss and colleagues? A man’s fiancée showed up in fishnet stockings, short shorts, and a blazer with no shirt/bra underneath. Despite reminding her of the setting and company, she refused to change and suggested that he go alone. He did just that and had dinner with his colleagues for a couple of hours, while his fiancée was left to be mad at him for not waiting. Was he being controlling or was he justified in expecting her to dress more appropriately? Let’s see what people think in the comments below.
NTA. Outfit was inappropriate for professional work dinner with boss.
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Dressing appropriate for the occasion is reasonable, not controlling. NTA.

Partner refuses to dress appropriately for work dinner, NTA for leaving.

Respect the dress code or stay home ♀️
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NTA. Dress codes exist for a reason. Work event attire matters.

Navigating manipulation in relationships.

Dress code drama: NTA brings comments about blazer and shorts

NTA. Dress code expectations should have been communicated beforehand.

Partner’s inappropriate dress a projection and excuse to skip dinner.

Dressing appropriately for work events is adulting

NTA. Commenters praise fishnet look but agree it’s not work-appropriate.

Fiancée dresses inappropriately for work dinner; NTA goes alone.

Controlling or not, fishnet stockings and blazers don’t mix

Dress code matters. Adjusting personal style for occasions is important. #NTA

Commenter believes fiancée needs therapy for extreme insecurities.

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Party theme confusion leads to judgmental comment and sarcastic reply

Fiancée refuses to dress for work dinner, NTA for attending alone

When your work outfit is more suited for a night out

Partner refuses to dress appropriately for work dinner, NTA for attending.

Casual dress code for work dinner with boss?
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Work dress code drama: NTA for going alone without dress

Wedding bells on hold? NTA comment suggests trouble ahead.

Dressing appropriately for work dinner is crucial, NTA for that

Fishnet stockings: Club wear or professional attire? A debate.

Commenter calls out immaturity of fiancée; age revealed in reply

Is she a teenager? Commenter questions fiancée’s social awareness

Commenter questions fiancée’s respect for boyfriend’s professional obligation

Show her Daisy Dukes are appropriate at certain functions

Commenter defends the outfit but acknowledges appropriateness for work.

Partner’s inappropriate attire for work dinner justified NTA’s actions

Fiancée’s inappropriate outfit for work dinner leads to conflict. NTA

NTA prefers alternative attire but understands context and consequences.

Fashion or indecent? Debate over pant suit attire heats up

Agree, NTA.
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Drinking mishap leads to empathy for fiance’s dress code mistake

NTA for enforcing dress code but respecting personal choice is important

You went to dinner alone after fiancée refused to dress

NTA for not wanting inappropriate attire at work dinner ♂️

Outfit appropriate for party, not work dinner. Not the a-hole.

Fiancée refused to dress appropriately for work dinner, manipulation ensues

Dress code drama: Commenter defends asking for appropriate attire.

No bra, no problem? Commenter defends freedom but sets boundaries.
